Wednesday, March 30, 2011

To Be Or Not To Be

It must be the polen within the air.

All kidding aside today was a busy day with a variety of things that I had to do. In a good manner. We still have a little bit of snow still and hopefully within a few weeks we shall render spring.

Spring is that time where everything thrives and before too long it shall be here. Hopefully sooner than later. I had met this gal a little while ago and I am thinking of trying to rekindle things. Mind you I don't wish to impose. You know one that just keeps calling and calling so I thought I would send her an email and see what comes back. It's not an avoiding thing as I just thought it might very well be worth the try. So we shall see.

One never wants to come across the wrong way and I am a little reserve. I think that is probably a good thing so it's all within an email. And that is where I leave it and if something comes back well - we shall see what comes from there. The art of love or the meaning of love. But this all started in meeting her within while at a grocery store and who knows where this shall go. As we get older, we get a little wiser and there are no repercussions but there is something to be said as to how a man approaches a women. I am old schoolish if that is a word and I am not that type that rushes into things but with her I thought about here today while I was on my way home and I thought to myself - why not.

So we shall see how this goes. I am not going to sit and wait on it nor am I going to do anything more than what I have done by way of one email and we shall see what comes about from it. So I guess this falls into that "here we go again". But it's all within the effort and to miss something that might be there - I would certainly not wish to wander off from the chance. She is nice, she is smart and I think she is reserve as well so we shall see within a few days of what the outcome is.

To be or not to be - you never really know unless you do that simple effort of trying within a manner that is that of your own.

 

 

 

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  1. Grammy Blick TexasMarch 30, 2011 at 8:15 PM

    I like your attitude. May your life choices be well made.

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  2. Initiative StainMarch 30, 2011 at 8:16 PM

    Oh I met her and I am not one to push things. So that really is what I did and if something comes back in return - fine. Yet I am satisfied.

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  3. Erika RoyMarch 30, 2011 at 8:18 PM

    Good luck. You are a good looking man you should have no problem. What do you have to lose. If nothing comes of it well at least you tried. Perhaps, she is not the one and that will leave you free for the one that is the one.
    I would recommend a hobby. Something like birding. Women love looking at pretty things.
    I met my husband through a friend of a friend. Go out and hang out with your buddies. Sometimes, there is a woman that is single for various reasons.
    Anyway I hope you the best of luck. If this doesn't work get back up on that horses back.
    :)

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  4. Initiative StainMarch 30, 2011 at 8:21 PM

    I do believe in love yet I don't believe in chasing. Nor do I believe a lady wishes to be chased Ericka - for some reason, I guess it was the other day getting groceries and she lives nearby there and I thought what the heck so tonight I did. But I am not one to obsess over love if you know what I mean.
    If it happens it does. :)

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  5. peno hardestyMarch 30, 2011 at 8:22 PM

    try amigo------

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  6. Initiative StainMarch 30, 2011 at 8:30 PM

    Si, I have - why not :)

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  7. maritess* estrellaMarch 30, 2011 at 8:36 PM

    ... all i can say is, may the presence of God be in between. Feel blessed. :)

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  8. Initiative StainMarch 30, 2011 at 8:38 PM

    Everyone has that commodity of soul and love and such it is. If it is meant to be.

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  9. maritess* estrellaMarch 30, 2011 at 8:39 PM

    if it's meant to be it will be Jack.

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  10. Initiative StainMarch 30, 2011 at 8:42 PM

    Some chase, some just do as they deem fit and this seemed to be fitting thus again if it happens
    it does, if not I am content. Mind you yes I did make donuts when I was a kid lol

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  11. maritess* estrellaMarch 30, 2011 at 8:43 PM

    If i could only bring dough there and let you demonstrate how ... i will! lol :)

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  12. Initiative StainMarch 30, 2011 at 8:47 PM

    And that's the recipe of love - Harry Connick Jr.

    http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=uij5s69iEjs

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  13. maritess* estrellaMarch 30, 2011 at 8:58 PM

    That's a beautiful song by Harry Connick, Jack

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  14. Initiative StainMarch 30, 2011 at 8:59 PM

    Yeah Buble really did much the same thing as Harry Connick Jr. did with music.

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  15. maritess* estrellaMarch 30, 2011 at 9:00 PM

    I think if I may say, both have the same touch when it comes to singing a song.

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  16. Ramya (mel)March 30, 2011 at 9:05 PM

    What a cool shot!!!

    I wish you the best in your efforts to rekindle:)

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  17. Initiative StainMarch 30, 2011 at 9:08 PM

    The shot was taken today and I thought it was appropriate and if or if not so be it.

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  18. Ramya (mel)March 30, 2011 at 9:08 PM

    Well I think it very artsy and, well, cool:)

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  19. Initiative StainMarch 30, 2011 at 9:09 PM

    If it's happens then that comes a little later. :)

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  20. Initiative StainMarch 30, 2011 at 9:09 PM

    Thanks Mel, and a good night to you and all.

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  21. maritess* estrellaMarch 30, 2011 at 9:16 PM

    goodnight Jack.

    but let me put it here first before i closed down. ok ...

    A little bit of me and a whole lot of you
    Add a dash of starlight and a dozen roses, too
    Then let it rise for a hundred years or two
    And that's the recipe for making love

    It doesn't need sugar 'cause it's already sweet
    It doesn't need an oven 'cause it's got a lot of heat
    Just add a dash of kisses to make it all complete
    And that's the recipe for making love

    And if you've made it right you'll know it
    It's not like anything you've made before
    And if you've made it wrong you'll know it
    'cause it won't keep you coming back for more

    I didn't get it from my grandma's book upon the shelf
    I didn't get it from a magical and culinary elf
    No, a little birdie told me you can't make it by yourself
    And that's the recipe . . .
    That's the recipe . . . .
    That's the recipe for makin' love

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  22. Ramya (mel)March 30, 2011 at 9:23 PM

    Good night, Kind Jack.

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  23. Erika RoyMarch 30, 2011 at 11:01 PM

    Good night Jack
    Here's three rabbits, that is a lot of feet, giving you good luck.

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  24. Tori BriMarch 31, 2011 at 12:09 AM

    oh..that is so cute.. spring is in the air..

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  25. DJ DMarch 31, 2011 at 2:35 AM

    May all go well.

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  26. caroline carolineMarch 31, 2011 at 3:56 AM

    enjoyed this blog..love the little statue :)[hugs]

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  27. Patty MoormanMarch 31, 2011 at 6:11 AM

    To be or not to be, well that is the question. Do let us know if you hear from her won't you?

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  28. sheree LamirandMarch 31, 2011 at 8:33 AM

    May it be .

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  29. Nancy JMarch 31, 2011 at 5:54 PM

    I always thought it best to just be yourself and expect others to do so also. If someone doesn't like you the way you are, so be it. I like the way you think about everything so deeply.

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  30. Cheryl LynnMarch 31, 2011 at 5:59 PM

    Hope all goes well sounds nice. If it's meant to be things have a way of working out wishing you the best.
    I like your photo too

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  31. Initiative StainMarch 31, 2011 at 7:01 PM

    Well a good eve again as I just logged on here and nothing yet but I was busy and it's not a main concern, it's one of those "maybes" or we shall see! :)

    Thanks all as I must service this computer but with regards to this one lady - I still just chalk it up to an if, and if something shall come about so be it and if not so be it. Yet it has been a good busy day. Thanks much and this is the very last day of March amazing!

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  32. Initiative StainMarch 31, 2011 at 7:11 PM

    Thanks Tori, Caroline, Patty, Sherre ( I hope I got the spelling write), Nancy, Cheryl.

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