Have you ever found that there are there are times in which you need to let go of some that are pardon my french but - full of it. As you have listened heard there voice mails as well as there needs at there hard times. Yet when you log on you wish to have something that is decent.
I am not a down and out person as - there shall be gossip. I just believe that within this consortium blogs that there are those that in no manner are what they write. It's what we call a blog game. I have always looked for those with the areas that have something that is interesting and of worth. As well, I have been block by a few and then there are those few that they block you for the reason that they need you when things are down and out and then they just gossip within what we all know.
I enjoy those that are ordinary people and now withing to be any more. Nor clanning. Yes I have done this before. Yet I do it as I have too many on my blog and I can't get to everyone. It's one thing that one hears the merits of what this is all about and all the love and so forth but some will write things that are so contrary to what they say.
Tee, not from New York. Regardless this thing called gossip yet there are many that could be and I follow the presmise that I saw outlined with a friend of mines whos name is Doug. Seemingly it's always been my infarastructure as regardless of gender - he has great sensibility within what he write and the manner that he does it.
I am just not into that - sorry. The drama, but the two sided minded that have a merit of doing as they do. I don't wish to partake within all of that. It's not my area nor has it been my fill. One talks about others and then has them on there blog - that is such a contradiction. Yet I have always rendered those as how I stared most of this was within my own search of finding that common ground.
One loves to share things with those in which they do feel they can express as they wish. One never wishes to express and then there is some situation that continually takes place. I have given much thought to this over the last week.
Within life some will find common grounds with you then there are those that will just make a mention as all they wish to do is promote there own blog and if they can't do that....they shall go to all extents with some matters.
I enjoy to share with folks that have that not fake, but hamane manner. This is where I have always problems on this multiply. In the words of Maritess, " You can't really express things on a blog".
I beg to differ...
Comfort is with those common grounds. Enjoyment is within common grounds. We all have our own grounds and some are very territorial. Some have another reason for being on here. I have my own reasons. As does everyone else. So I thought I would place this in here. It's not as easy to day as it seems. But there are a robust manner of many people. All writing within there own manner without the need to blemish another.
Hi Jack! Ive written things on my blog page that have fueled heated debates, and anger towards me, I never delete comments from others, I let them stand, freedom of speech and all, I have friended people on here who turned out to be not my kind of people, I will not delete them from my page, however I simply just stop going to their page and of their watching who's visiting they will realize I'm not and simply go away, others come back to taunt and debate every issue I write of, again I will hold my stance, keep their opinions posted and move on. Even if someone is name calling to me, my real friends on here will let them have it, You cant pick your family, but you certainly can pick who your true friends are. hugs, I hope you have a great week!!!
ReplyDeleteI have heard this so often Pam....I never shun people. It's not part of my area of what I do.
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ReplyDeleteSo that is that and it's time for lunch. :)
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ReplyDeleteThe something missing is a void in their own lives, that leave them with nothing of importance to convey to anyone, its their poor self esteem that causes them to gossip about others, for then they do not have to analyse their own demons.
ReplyDeleteNot all Pam, there are a fine amount of people on here and why do we. We do this as we find enjoyment and those very shares.
ReplyDeletelmao I dont mean why we blog.......I meant why people gossip.......I know why we blog.........its fun, silly wabbit ;)
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ReplyDeletelmao I loved that, thanks Jack!!! so like me, I see your a bit playful too.....thats awesome!!!
ReplyDeletesome are disembodied entities that find courage in screen names---others understand that we are a conscious entity ---able to communicate ---able to relate---able to show empathy.............
ReplyDeleteI am and I am not one to do anyone harm or otherwise. Nor do I think I know everything yet
ReplyDeletethere are things that do shape my scope as well. So yes I can but I don't subscribe to
anything more than just people being people. Yet I forget when I was hatched :)
Si, I could not agree more so - it's seemingly always that way - So one side feels that you had not mentioned
ReplyDeleteanything but then on the other hand there comes a time to just perhaps take a stance with some of this as
I have never claimed to be anything more and before we judge so often I find that some do feel they are
more entitled. To me this is life and the creativity within what I and all desires. I think that is what the meaning
is for myself and with others as well.
Nice to hear your voice Jack. I'm no one special ~ I'm just me! I wouldn't do anything to others, that I don't want done to me.
ReplyDeleteDitto here Theresa...so I we just mooooooove along! :)
ReplyDeleteoh my....it sounds like something was distressing you a bit there Jack! I guess I look at it this way, we don't have to read what everyone blogs about, especially if it something that doesn't seem to be of importance to us. It may however be important to them, so be it. Why question the need for anyone to blog what they are blogging about? There is no need to do that. Everyone has free will. Free will dictates whether or not you wish to participate in that blog. everyone who blogs wants some kind of acceptance whether or not they say they do, what kind of fun would it be to blog if no one ever commented? it wouldn't be fun at all. you would stop blogging. as of late, I have nothing much to blog about....I have been internalizing my feelings and have just been going around reading other people's blogs, sometimes I comment and other times I do not. the people that seem to want to trash other people with their blogs don't interest me either, so I just stay away from those though there might be a time where I may stick up for whomever is being trashed, it all depends on the mood I am in at the time.
ReplyDeleteSuzy. Some don't blog. Some have chose never to go this route. There are several friends of mine that have never blogged in within their entire and the predominant notion is blogging is Facebook. As ironic as that seems.
ReplyDeleteI enjoy the merits of writing. Yet as there are more that do, I wouldn't know what the stats are but many don't blog. They just email. So some do it many still don't. I enjoy each and ever day to post something. But for myself as well I was not much into blogging. Ironically a group that I had - all the administrators which I do write to as time is avail. I have messages which indicate that they are just too busy.
But this is where I believe to each their own. Statistics or otherwise. There is a writing on the psychology of blogging but hey come a few months from now. I think I will be blogging much less. As of recent I have been. Meaning that they to enjoy the emailing.
Yet as you say one can't internalize things but yet I am coming to terms that this is a blog. So I write mostly for myself. :)
I was at a meeting once and one concept came up. "Who could ever blog to people they don't know?"....That was a challenge - Yup.
I think people will do what they decide. Some are more creative by nature and who is to say what you can nor can do within your spare time.
it confuses me sometimes why people come up with this down personal hater, mean, rude comments about everything and anything.. why they think they got it.. sure sometimes i ask for answers or even push someone to an answer with what i write or how i write my blogs..but yeah..iam on it.. that stuff just plane sucks. and to be honest..mostly those type of people pretty damn fast make it to block list.. just that radical..
ReplyDeleteYeah I hear ya but so be it Tori.
ReplyDeleteGood thoughts there Jack. When you write I feel like you are talking to me. Seems like I read this before, maybe I commented, I can't remember. Oh well, I am commenting again if so. Now I'm confused hahaha. I better leave don't-cha think!
ReplyDeleteI just enjoy this like this and Nancy it really is a chat within a box when you look at it within a certain manner. I saw yours last night and I thought of Community with all that you were doing! We think and thereafter it's all thunk. :)
ReplyDeleteI find i blog when the necessary moment arrives, and idea combined with the energy to commit that idea to the page. Likewise when i visit others pages.
ReplyDeleteSometimes i will just view as i would view a newspaper , if i felt i had nothing worthwhile to contribute to the thread, then my participation would be just that,as a reader.
I have noticed in the past that some folk can get childish if you don't respond to each and every post they make. I have never been able to understand that, i certainly don't get upset or perturbed if people drop by and say nothing,or contribute anything.
my page is up for people to take or leave...As for personal disputes carried on in a public messageboard..what can one say..? The private message function is there for a reason..but some prefer to have their childish spats in the open..and attempt to gather backers...kindergarten stuff..but if it keeps them happy..;).
Partake and contribute as you wish, but have no expectations, and that would appear to be the best way to enjoy Multiply.
Good day to you all..;)
I've had to understand and learn how the blogging thing really works. And really come to grips as to the reality of it all. I've become more flexible with it all too. It can be a fun, exciting adventure or it can be a pain in butt nuisance, depending on how one approches it. And I agree, somedays it just seems all a boring mess. But all that can be applied to so many things in life. One does have to pick and choose what they spend there timing doing. I think that is one of the great and joyful things about humans. The freedom of choice. How much freedom does an animal really have with how they are going to spend their time on this planet? How many fish can choose to climb Mt. Everest, right? Ok, good day to ya Jack, that was my three cents - lol.
ReplyDeleteWell lets just chalk this up to the past now :)
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