Thursday, November 19, 2009

Wise Words From Parrie....

"I am inclined to beleive that there are 3 things in this world that can be debated with different points of views...Politics,Relationships, and Religion and maybe I should include Gossip.All of these can cause and create ill will and has done so among many.People will say harsh and cruel things,out of meaness,simply because what you feel is different from thier point of view,forgetting that we all have the right to agree or disagree.
Multiply has some people that are Spammers that are posting on sites and groups with messages that are not becoming.I have had a couple of them this week and I just delete the messages."

 

She writes in here own manner and truly there is something to be said for one of this nature a friend that I have one here and really sums it all up in a meaninful manner.

 


34 comments:

  1. Let's start with politics. ..

    *Rubbing hands*

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  2. differences of opinion were once settled with duels..some of our earliest politicians were either wounded or even killed in duels. LOL thank goodness we've advanced to some degree

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  3. *** Multiply has some people that are Spammers that are posting on sites and groups with messages that are not becoming.I have had a couple of them this week and I just delete the messages. ***

    There's a lot of that happening right now, Jack. I've been reading many complaints on Multiply Support. Multiply Customer Service is aware and working on it. The best thing to do is what you're already doing ... delete.

    Another weekend coming up very soon, make it a good one.

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  4. I personally feel that one can have friends that they just don't discuss politics or religion with, of course those relationships broke up over one or the other after a few weeks. LOL

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  5. yes, there have been a lot of spammers lately leaving comments on my poetry and photographs. It's annoying, but all you can do is delete it and go on. I find that when i go to delete them , Multiply has already taken care of it themselves, and I get a "does not exist" note. So they're really on the ball here, and I certainly appreciate that.

    "People will say harsh and cruel things,out of meaness,"

    I guess I'm lucky. I haven't come across anyone of that nature, although I did read a comment on someone's story lately that I thought was pretty rude. of course it had nothing to do with me, but I reported it to the site administrator and let her handle it. The person that wrote the comment may have looked at it as constructive criticism, but I thought it was just poor manners.

    I can't understand anyone purposely saying something that is going to offend someone.


    Gossip I stay away from, and I make it a point not to repeat anything that is heard or said in a discomfiting way...in a way I'm happy I live in the country and I don't have to deal with a lot of people, in fact hardly any. Politics I know very little about, I know that times are hard and are getting worse in our country, and it seems as if very little is being done about it. I see a lot of little businesses that are going under, along with some major ones. I drove through Atlanta the other day and saw that the huge Ford company had not only been shut down, but torn down, leveled. It was a shock since so many from my home town depended on it for jobs. Unemployment is horrible here.


    religion...I will share with anyone my faith, but I don't go around trying to cram it down others throats.

    Now, relationships...that seems to be the going thing around here, doesn't it? it's like a big "Peyton Place"

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  6. Well Hell, we seen to agree on politics.. shall we try religion? I have no dueling sword, but I do have my pirate pistol. Does that give me a fair advantage? ;)

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  7. rofl...no pistols, please. Ya know, I don't like talking about religion., because things always seem to go around in circles. People believe so many different things, and you have to respect that. I love people who stand up for what they believe in.

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  8. I do try to stay away from religions also.. I really don't believe in any organized religion.. Bill Johnson and I can talk because we have similar views..and he is an exceptionally smart man, besides he'd take my gun away.. LMAO

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  9. Some people are very easily offended. Some think it is impolite not to have the same opinion as they do or at least one should not be so rude as to say so. How anybody could learn anything that way, I don't know.

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  10. Its easy to talk anything to anyone as long as we have a Live and Let Live policy and understand that nothing that the other says is to be taken personally...Religion and Politics are topics that seem to rub a lot of people abrasively. The bottom line is that nothing has a right or a wrong, only what works for you.

    As for gossip, well the less said the better. Its best to stay away from it...Gossip dies if no one responds to it, its just a matter of keeping our lips sealed when its about someone else.

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  11. well sure.." God is coming and man is she mad" lol

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  12. I hope everything gets sorted. Personally, I love the differences, whether it's religion or politics, or how you cook vs. how I cook. Or what color you are & what color I am. It makes the world more interesting for me!

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  13. Ladies and Gentlemen,Thanks for the comments, I have enjoyed reading them because most of them are actually how I feel about all four mentioned.There is the good, the bad, the ugly and the indifference,but that is what makes each of us different.When I think of loss of jobs, the unemployment rate,the housing foreclosures,children going hungry I shudder,oh year even the health care.Religion,I'm not opposed to any one's religion or faith,so long as they are not trying to shove it down my throat or the principles that I believe in.Relationships is a twofold matter that is between two people, that they must come to an agreement on way or the other.Gossip is something I stay away from,if I did not see it or was there when it happened, then I don't care to hear about it.I'm inclined to agree with the Apostle James "the Tongue is the deatest part of the body."I agree theres a right side/wrong side to any given subject,even when others tries to get you to see it their way.
    I'm a country girl living in the city and yes there are times when I miss the quietness and I'm glad that where I live now, the only neighbors I see are those in passing,lol.I will speak to anyone whether they speak back,"country home training".There are others that say harsh words on thier sites about something they have read via posts,the news or whatever.To me that is not friendship,thats another form of gossip.I only express my thoughts when I do post but these are my true feeling and there is nothing like love and being honest with one's true self.
    Finally, I'm glad that Multiply is deleting the spammers that has seem to invade our sites and groups and I saulte them them for this becaues it shows that they do have our concerns at heart.I believe in peace not war and trying to get along with everyboby regardless or who they are because the final thing is we are all Human with our own do's and don't.
    I have enjoyed reading your comments,got a chuckle out a few of them too.Wishing each of you a pleasant evening/night and may your weekend be truly a blessed one.
    Loving ya from the heart.

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  14. Yes what you say is true, spammers are leaving rubbish on our pages , i just delete them as soon as possible.Rosie

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  15. So true Frani....

    I was thinking that this weekend was the American Thanks Giving but I think if I am correct that it's next weekend.
    A good one to you as well.

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  16. Smiling and laughing :) Yep I thought this write of Parries was truly worth the repost.

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  17. Getting the glasses!

    It's truly hard to find whome is what and what is said to be authentic...yet it seem to be more good than bad. I know I have deleted some people as Parrie had mentioned but It's something I find that there is always one whom can write and enjoy it and then some do otherwise. I love history and so on and sometimes as well just reading and reading as there are some tremendous stories

    Gossip it's what it is - some will play the lip service and then some
    are authentic - I find Deb it's all within the writing and I think it's all within whom we are ......Relationships...seems to be. I remember writing on Love wow that was some kind of dicussion....

    I always maintain it's like if all were sitting around at a table would they be the same - some would most definately and some would be otherwise.

    I think it's just something hey I better stop here as it's sounding again like Monty Python :) LOL...

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  18. You know I when I logged on here I literally just look and I really don't know the difference between a spammer as the other day when I logged on there was a unknown face. I clicked on it and then there was a face from someone from Russia...so who knows at times.

    There is more of the good than the bad I feel...."as the blogging world goes"...

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  19. Literally that is how I feel Rashmi..and as far as the less said seems to need tact - but I am one to just write as I feel. There are pros and cons to that but it's an array of things.
    I think that the fabric of our lands do cause at time and upheal...not for all but for some.

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  20. This was your write Parrie and I thought it was truly right on the mark.
    I guess that's my opinion...

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  21. Frank you may be asleep there but I truly do get lost with some of this. :) I rub my head....

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  22. I am busy in the kitchen ... don't have time for gossiping. I am concern with my loved ones, friend/friends, in my community, my faith is strong as ever, I couldn't ask for more.

    Yes ... sometimes I want to enter politics [laughs] just to see and actually feel what it is to be inside.


    ... wait I still have one concern, but rather keep it to myself ... happy morning Jack! :)

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  23. Just be careful with the unknown faces Jack,some carry viruses and other unwanted messages.whatch out for the links too.If its not from my contacts or my groups, I hit delete.

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  24. Oh I know Parrie...well I think it's manageable...and reading others writes. I know when to delete and seeming where the lip service is but hey I just enjoy the read and the writes.

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  25. ... hey ... like that! I wanna' hear you laugh ... blessings Jack ...

    ... "sunshine on my shoulder makes me happy" ~ just don't forget I am at the back ... following. ... well, as the song goes ...

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  26. I had a couple of those spammers last week myself...It would be a dull world if eveybody had the same point of view on things....Have a great evening....

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  27. LOL AND I HAVE MY SWORD WE ARE A TEAM

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  28. Now, relationships...that seems to be the going thing around here, doesn't it? it's like a big "Peyton Place"

    HEHEHE I noticed that to lol

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  29. definitly how gray the world would be if we were all the same -

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  30. Just ate and I just had a pm and it was one that I knew but somethings done change so it's just a click and delete.

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