Tuesday, November 24, 2009

~ Thanksgiving in America ~ During my Youth

I have fond recollections of Thanksgiving within America when I was a kid. We would celebrate both the American and the Canadian Thanksgivings. Within October and then in November. It really came to be when other families started coming over with a pie or something that was related to what Thanksgiving meant. First would be the Thanksgiving within October and then the other was in November.

In October, my folks would get us all ready to call the grandparents and I remember having to almost yell as I spoke to them. On my mother’s side they came to learn the English language and often my mother would try to tell us how to pronounce “Happy Thanksgiving" within Hungarian but I could never get it right. And then there was the call to my father’s father – whom was of Norwegian decent. He knew the English language very well actually a very intellegent man when it comes down to it and looks looks exactly like my father and it was all too easy to wish him a very happy Thanksgiving. We were the only ones within my family that had moved to the states all our relatives were living within this small town by the name of Yorkton.

Then our neighbors whom really with many became literally like family – they would show up with something on the Canadian Thanksgiving, which amazed my father especially. Then it became a yearly ritual to celebrate both Thanksgivings.  Mom back then would bake for nearly three days and then on the American Thanksgiving the two of them would make there rounds to our neighbors and do the very same. Now as a kid it was something to have 2 Thanksgivings. The turkey, cabbage rolls and most off all ...........THE DRESSING. I am not sure about you but that was the best of the best and then thereafter enjoying the day with neighbors and playing football or climbing trees in the backyard. Yeah those were precious days.

I remember when my father was deciding to retire and my bother was up in Canada attending the Queens University. We would get up and head up to Kingston, Ontario and bring him back for only the Canadian Thanksgiving as it was only observed in October.  Driving back across the border and through the Adirondacks and into New York State and just turning to come back to where we lived and I will never forget my old man saying, “this really is home isn’t it.”

As it was…

29 comments:

  1. what do you cook for the thanksgiving ?? any special meal ??

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  2. Home is where the heart IS.
    Wishing you a blessed thanksgiving hugs

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  3. Yeah true ... home is where the heart is.

    Have a safe blessed night.
    ... goodnite Jack :))

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  4. Same to you there Cinn. Home for me is two places and I literally enjoy the Canadian Thanksgiving but understand all to well the
    American Thanksgiving....hugs back there to ya...

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  5. In Canada Agnes we do the very same thing Turkey, Cabbage Rolls, Pumpkin and Apple Pie.................and dressing/stuffing! :)

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  6. I know the Canadian thanksgiving too smiles have a good night merci

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  7. That's due to you being right there in Michigan. You as well have a great night Cinn.

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  8. I never knew them for very long as they passed away at an old age but my mother was the second youngest of 7, and my father was the youngest of 6.
    So the one that I do remember is my grandmother from my mother's side most of all as I am the youngest within my family but she was precious.
    They all were but unfortunately I only saw them ever other summer till my father retired and moved back into Canada.

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  9. Good night Tess and I am the age that I am...:)

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  10. Lovely memories, Jack!

    I'm off to bed, now! Sweet dreams to you!

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  11. Thanks Terri, I am going to bed shortly but may write one more within this area of Thanksgiving if not tomorrow.

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  12. Love the Dressing! lol

    Wonderful memories to share of your family celebrating the American and Canadian Thanksgivings ~ I'll be busy in the kitchen tomorrow night and all day Thursday as I'll be preparing the feast for my family, so hopefully I'll have some photos to share.

    Have a wonderful evening, Jack!

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  13. ... age is just a number Jack! [laughs]
    Have a good rest and a sound sleep.
    Blessings and hugs, tess*

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  14. Sounds like nice memories to cherish.

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  15. ah ..such a lovely story .I found it very moving.you have a lovely family ,,lovely memories

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  16. Two Thanksgivings! What a great idea!

    Cabbage rolls? Can you tell us how they are made? Do you have a recipe?

    We plan to celebrate on Saturday; I am going to make some extra (separate) stuffing.

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  17. I'm getting hungry thinking of it :-)

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  18. Darn! Now I want to make cabbage rolls.Where I live we do Polish style, gotta love em and I am not Polish but my children are. I guess I will have to look up Irish,scot,,french, German, Luxembourg,Italian Welsh cabbage rolls.

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  19. I am getting hungry thinking of Thanksgiving too :) We are going to celebrate it on Friday here. Tomorrow I will bake some pies and make deviled eggs and get all the veggies ready for dipping, then I have to clean house. It's going to be a challenge with my aching back, that's for sure.

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  20. Yeah these memories are alive and well and I thought it's was fitting Jo.

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  21. Never made them in my life DJ.........no I could not tell you how one makes them :)
    Stuffing now this is the best part if I may say..yet there too I have never made them
    but they are delicious.

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  22. Well Cheryl I kinda have this thought that you probably have cooked up something
    very special within your own way! Happy Thanksgiving when you get this.

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  23. Tess I think there are a variety of cabbage rolls. I would think that the Hungarian way is very close to the polish.
    It's all good.

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  24. Here I just wished to write some old memories of Thanksgiving and regardless of what it is - it's Thanks and a Giving as well Suzy.
    And I do wish you well during this time of pain there Suzy and hope that all worked out with your doctor today.

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  25. Thanks Jack, I have an appt. coming up for next week for an epidural shot with another doctor I have never been to before...they haven't called back yet with the appointment referred to by my doctor. I will have to call them on Friday and see what's up.

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  26. Well in the embetween time I hope all does work out for you Suzy.

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