I write and I enjoy it especially during the evening but right now I am in the midst of testings. Now there are group and I have been invited to many. However that said there are those that will honour the person that runs a group. Then you have the trickle down effect as there are others that will play the games as we used to know during the times of chatting when there were no blogs. Everyone has different strokes but I write and there comes a time when there are those that you take off your blog. For reason's that are within a frame of passive aggressiveness. For myself, I write as an outlet and as well the creativity within authenticity.
There are ones that will tend to clan together but for myself I enjoy the collaborations that do take place and writing in my own way and reading others blogs. Within a blog without the chatting here on Multiply before there was this Meebo - we all wrote and it's a form of expression.
I have been invited by so many groups and I really don't have the time with the exception of one and my blog is not a group. Do we enjoy the reciprocating effect - certainly we do. Otherwise we would be writing a book.
I find it not stressing but rather very immature with some of the things that have taken place due to differences. There are radical differences and then there are ones that are good enjoyable thoughts.
For myself I enjoy writing without the cultures of pushing. I really just enjoy writing within my own manner and I have invited people and some have invited myself - and it's all within what we blog. Needless to say one does not have to push, as there are a galore of great people that blog within an authentic manner. We are far past the time of passing notes around. I merely write and enjoy others blogs.
Therefore I don't need to play the games that a few do, I really just read and write. I know that especially during this time I have been writing much but it's all a great enjoyment yet it's not a replacement of life. I have no need to defend what I write and there is that old saying that there are some that will try so hard to play it but I just enjoy this in a manner that is with value.
I never jump to conclusion but I truly hold those that have that good intention with this as a value. As for the ones that play it - I really am far past those games. I could say it's just a blog but there are some very fine people within it all from all corners of the world.
That's my two cents...
" there are a galore of great people that blog within an authentic manner."
ReplyDeleteSo true!
"I could say it's just a blog but there are some very fine people within it all from all corners of the world."
yes, I've met so many nice people on Multiply, it's an honor and a privilege to make friends on here.
" there are some very fine people within it all from all corners of the world. "
ReplyDelete-- I agree with that completely.
Well Hello my friend, I have had a busy day the reason it took me so long to get here, i love your blogs, you show me how you are in your blogs , A man speaks what is in his heart,, I am sorry you have has so many problems, they will not last forever, i know i have had lots of them , they teach us to appreciate a day or a year that we don;t have so many, you are a warm caring person, I look forward to get to know you better in reading your blogs, have a great evening my friend,
ReplyDeleteIMO Multiply is not much different than the real world. You will always meet those you like and those that you would rather not be around. Choose wisely :)
ReplyDeleteCertainly is Debra...there is more good experiences than otherwise...
ReplyDeleteI truly believe that online and offline Rashmi...I we recently have a connect and within it all there are those reads that are all to precious.
ReplyDeleteYeah for me I have been doing more but we all have those challenges but I enjoy the very early mornings and like yours it's literally like listening to you talking Slyvia. And yeah we all do gain.
ReplyDeleteAs well a great evening to you. For I am just myself and I write independently but enjoy the mutuality and varied thoughts of each and everyone. How does the song go, "I am in you and your in me", Peter Frampton who had a great song that really is the meaning of it all to me and for many - I still do believe.
Nancy your in Korea there we can't sit and have coffee can we - no but we can share our thoughts as within a way it's all within spirit.
ReplyDeleteI never regret any choices nor things that I have ever said but within this yes one has to make the correct choices.
If it wasn't for what is being refereed to as the real world I wouldn't have anything to blog about :-) smiles. Sometimes even the good things in life can be tiring though so times like that I rest or just post something simple and lighthearted. I am blessed to live a very ordinary life
ReplyDeleteSo true - and within life where there are any obstacles I find that I work my way through them and each day there is something from which to write about...otherwise it would be like having an IV plugged in and never leaving a computer but at night I am not much for watching television. However Lou Dobbs was relieved of his position at CNN.
ReplyDeleteThought I would mention :)
Life is good and people are great as life is there very own precious realm.
I get invites to groups all the time as well, and I am only in a few and to tell the truth I don't usually go there. I just enjoy reading my friends blogs and writing my own. I haven't met anyone yet to where it is just a game, at least I do not think so. We all have a connection with each other by sharing bits and pieces of our lives through our blogs. I too have met very many nice people here on Mulitply.
ReplyDeleteMultiply is where we can write and read what appeals to us. There is still a bit of sifting and sorting to find what we really want to hook up with.
ReplyDeleteKaryn I realize that by the way I made a mistake with your birthday there.
ReplyDeleteSuzy more nice that otherwise...yet I still do it all by way of writing and literally I had tried to place a friend who gave me allowance as his blog is only within his family and I never breach it but this is over with and I just am not into - well you know what I mean.
ReplyDeleteAnd I don't hold on to it all for that long I get over it as there some will play it and some are authentic - it's all good. More good than otherwise.
I just had a few passive aggressives and I never miss much but I am not one to get into it all as this is for fun and each one does what they wish to do...
Since I am home bound most of the time, I have had the chance to speak to many more people from around the world than I would have had the chance to out in the world. I enjoy hearing from all different cultures and countries and formed many good friendships in the last 8 years. October 31st was an anniversary of sorts. That was the day the doctors said no more work. there hasn't been many days since that day that I haven't wised I could be back taking care of my aged ladies, my small children that needed more help than their parents could give and the Alzheimer gents were a treat to be with. So now the internet, television and the telephone is a major part of my world. I find people fascinating no matter how or where I meet them.
ReplyDeleteThink I am homebound most of the time thou' I am at work Jack ... and am still here reading you blog and giving my humble reactions on it. And same with some other friends over here, but am quiet busy right now because of added responsibilties not of my own liking but of circumstances ... and I have to fill the gap. Its family matters,
ReplyDeleteEven if one were to write a book, there would be reactions, fan mail? :-))
ReplyDeleteWe have to manage our time. I choose to vary my occupations and therefore don't spend time in groups here.
More brotherly love would be healing salve for many of the world's woes.
I literally have met people like you Tess during earlier times with this group that I had. And within your own way you do make it work. I applaud you as right now for me it's a cadence and I have no problem within it. We all do live in the manner that is becoming....I just arrived home here on in the afternoon, right now I know that this accident could have been much much worse. I find that there is a variety of people and when one is home bound 100% there still is a way. There are good things to this internet and for the friends that you have met I think this is great. I remember when there was a time that there was only chatting and now and then periodically I would go into one area of chat which was for the disabled. Really all of them were not disabled they were actually more alive is what I found. As regardless of anything people are truly very interesting.
ReplyDeleteRight now I am not at that stage of no more work. I just have to get things fixed here but I will take the morning and do it and push it within a self cognitive manner. And I am not much for taking pills till there is a diagnosis, which I find will be one of just getting a few things fixed but at the same time Kudos to you. I truly do mean that.
Diabilities are not really anything more than a label...you work with what you have. You are most definately a friend...
Tess we all have circumstances............and I think that you know what your placement is if I may give my own two cents. So often people will feel that they can't do something and for those that have actually been within some areas that they have seen people that are young that die............it does open ones eyes to the very meaning of life. The gap is that void in which you come to realized as I find for myself right now. Only those that have the compassion and understanding from our lives as well as seeing others realizes this and in no manner is that a negative. For each the glass is half full or half empty within our own way. That all is within choice.
ReplyDeleteFan mail.....if you see it in your email as fan mail then I guess that is what you enjoy.
ReplyDeleteYou seem to do your own thing within your own way but whom am I to judge. Here is a question if I may....
Have you spent any of your own money on other people or of those by way of community service?
We often write about things but do or have we in the past really done what we have said we do? I would think that you have in your own way.
Some do and some don't but that is each and everyone own options aren't they?
Is this a question specifically for me? I don't know, but I will answer.
ReplyDeleteWe do make some donations.
I just recently found a project that I feel rounds out my life somewhat, it is making squares to send to South Africa where they are assembled into blankets for some of the 1.5 million Aids orphans. This is at knit-a-square .com.
One small thing most of us can do that only takes a few minutes of time is to click each day on the hunger site. That is thehungersite.com
If we are not at least trying to do what we say one should do, then we are hypocrites and not in harmony within.
Then there is our general attitude towards others, even just the expression on our face can give out acceptance, encouragement to be the best one can.
Jack, I do not know the details of what you are experiencing as far as blogging, etc. is concerned. I only know what you have said in the blogs I have read. Therefore my comments may not always correspond to the reality of your situation.
I was responding to you within a good manner. And likewise we are alike in that way as I have contributed as you have to several areas.
ReplyDeleteIt's as simple as that DJ. I need not tell the amount but what ever one spends is terrific.