Within this blog I love to write and I was married and now I am divorced. I have always loved to express myself in a manner that is truly with good intentions. The other day I did mention "I need a wife". I guess that just came out but one does not just rush to love. Love is something that is truly something that starts within life and I would say it's fair to say that I am cautious with it all. I know where I am and so often I have not even considered online romance.
I guess there are some of us that are single - not married and you see the people that are and you don't envy them but in times that one has had a few things happen which have over the last week I did mention this.
When I first got on here in blogging I had some that really wanted to meet me this goes back earlier in a blog that I had. So yes I do believe in love and it's something that I still to this day believe in.
On the internet there is so much to be said with regards to the stories of people that have gotten hurt and I have seen it all happen before I ever was in a blog. I have always wrote in an authentic manner and to be very honest with you I enjoy writing with women. As well, I do with areas that men write about.
Yesterday as it was the first day that I was literally able to do anything I came out and said this and perhaps it just came out. At the same time I have seen some old friends in life as well as online that I have known for sometime get married.
Why is that - I guess it all comes down to the risks and as well for myself, the last year has been one that I have handled many things within my own family with Cancer. So I have literally not had the time to consider it.
However I do believe in love at any age and there is someone that I just saw that lives on the East that knows me very well while I was living within another city. It's a very complicated areas this realm of love but certainly I do believe in it. But most of all I do believe in doing good things for other people ironically as it may seem and if I never fall in love again within my life - I am happy with being whom I am. I could write on this in length but perhaps there is another time from which to write it. But the enjoyment for me is the expression and there are many different types of love.
Risks, I have taken them but right now, I wish to enjoy life for what is and while one is doing life - I believe that love will appear and one never has to chase after it. As we age love becomes more risky but then again love isnt a game, it's something that is first within yourself and thereafter - one does love others.
There is no perfection within life but we find that area that we enjoy and we enjoy the worth of it all.
Hmmm, I see that many have wrote to this one note on my blog with regards to love and never close the door but at the same time I enjoy doing my own trail if you know what I mean and where there is life there is love.
Love. Invented by Hollywood in 1937.
ReplyDeletehaha Frank but I do mean it I am happy within my placement I have something to handle here and I tried to explain it as best that I can.
ReplyDeleteBeing single and living alone, every once in awhile it tears just a bit at my heart reading about husbands/wives, boyfriends/girlfriends and the love they share (whether or not it was invented in Hollyweird... lol), but I also truly believe that there is someone for everyone, that somewhere out there, someone is gazing up at the crescent moon precisely at the very moment I am.... risks? You bet ~ but I would have rather risked asking for the dance than not dancing at all..... good blog, Jack. :)
ReplyDeleteperhaps the greatest risk of all is opening your heart and sharing it with another but to do so is to truly live!
ReplyDeleteI said this yesterday and I literally don't play it and when the time is right - well even that is always debated but I do believe in love but at the same time I enjoy writing and to me is this the right time that I wish to be in love, hmm ..seriously I think it does make the world go around but at the same time I think there is a thing called boys men and gentleman. I really .................this is very hard to explain to say the least. But thanks Tina.
ReplyDeleteYeah this is true, Arielle.
ReplyDeleteI think all good things do come with time....so often we maybe passing by someone and one does not regard the possibility but then there are ones that chase after love, and in life as well as online I literally look at the person for whom they are not for any other reasons as the one love I do have right now is writing. But I am human as everyone else is.
ReplyDeleteReminds me of a Note I posted not too long ago....
ReplyDeleteIt's been said that two people can be on either side of a room and nothing can bring them together ~ It's also been said that two people can be on either side of the world and nothing can tear them apart...
I'd rather be sorry for something I've done....than for something that I didn't do.
ReplyDeleteHeineken can bring people together.
ReplyDeletewell said from wellhell2. at the end of this ride called life i'd rather be the one still celebrating each breath and enjoying the moment then sitting on the sidelines out of fear. lol, actually, i said that earlier today to someone i've known since i was 4.. that i know i've been a little spontaneous in this lifetime and i don't expect that ever to change.
ReplyDeleteIt's so true...
ReplyDeleteMike I literally enjoy what everyone does write but I never really expected what came out of a note and I did the best that I can in explaining it.
ReplyDeleteSuzy for me I enjoy writing along with people and it's something that I do love. I don't expect and within that then when least expected something happens in life - some call it coincidence.
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ReplyDeleteLove happens when it will, Jack! We either choose to let it in, or we fight against it, for whatever the reason. And you're right, as we age, love becomes a matter of more vulnerability for us. Adults don't like leaving themselves pen to hurt, and because we know that all personal relationships have the sees of disaster in them, and the potential for great hurt, we protect ourselves, and build walls around our hearts. Love can breach those walls, but only if we let it!
ReplyDelete*hugs*
Life is Chances...
ReplyDeleteTrue! We take the ones we want and leave the rest!
ReplyDeleteYeah it's true but for me I regard people on here and I literally enjoy the expression from which is a galore of things as it's so all encompassed Terri.
ReplyDeleteLove is so many things and the love within a heart is one of the areas that every single person would deliberate now and then. We all do I believe.
there have been many times that I had wished that I already had someone to love and that someone loved me back. the loss of my mom, the loss of my cat, the happiness of my daughter's wedding to share with. those are the most recent ones. one can find it hard to be all alone at times, I do know this. sharing the burdens of life is by far the most fragile times in one's life....whether it be financial hardship or loss of a member of family, or....being in the hospital when something is wrong with you. that happened to me at the start of the year as well. if God has it in his plan, then it will happen...that is all I can say for now. I am lucky in that I have children and three grandchildren, so I am not alone. I have a sister whom I am very close to and my brother and I get along well enough as well. I do like my brother's wife too and we are pretty close. I have a few very close friends that I can almost consider "family" that is how close we are. all in all I am very lucky in that respect. time will tell what the future holds for me. I hope you do one day find your true love as we all need and want that for ourselves as well.
ReplyDeleteI couldn't live without love.
ReplyDeleteI've gone through life solo for years now and I've learned that love comes in many forms. Male and female friends are very important, children and grandchildren are irreplaceable, good neighbors and acquaintenships are a bonus. I'm not lonely.
I treasure my alone time as much as I treasure the kind of freedom and spontaneity I can indluge myself in. I just may have gone beyond the point of being able to give any of it up.
The lonliest time of my life was while I was in a marriage that didn't work anymore.
Frani, I could not agree with you more. I don't think there are any secrets within the world. I think that it all comes down to the human factor. And especially that very freedom that we do within each of our own ways and yet there is a fine thread that does interconnect each on of us.
ReplyDeleteLife is a process and what we do with it is our own making. And at the same time we live and we learn. I think we never stop with what good things are around us. Although we all have our moments the bonus is of what is rather than what isn't.
Friends are important and as well I myself do believe that we have that ability to look at things in a manner in which we do by way of choice. I love the areas in which we can write and speak our own mind.
Today I was returning home and I was talking to a neighbour and the two of them asked what happened as I had this mishap and have been around here much more than I should but this is a time for me to take that time to look at the future.
I never feel alone. And I think it's all based on our roots and how we were brought up. As well as the array of people we bring within our own sphere. And as mentioned love is a very great commodity as it's something that has that reciprocating effect.
I guess I am a planner and when one knows where there placement is within a certain time they come to understand and take it and make it the best. This week I have already planned out everything for the next three days and I am comfortable with it all as life just never does stop unless one stops. So the way I see it is that I do it as I please right now and what the future holds is something that no one has control over - it's just a flow of sorts.
It's been a full year to say the least and I enjoy this as well as an array of areas. There is one life on this earth to live and one can entirely stop or they can have that spontaneity to indulge within life as they desire.
Kudos to you....
Well I'd rather be sorry for something I did not do since I am sure I had done my best at the time it happened. I never regret my life and I enjoy it.
ReplyDeleteJack and all of you, thanks so much for sharing these thoughts and I believe by reading all these could enrich my life and love.
Enjoy your life and make it worth to remember,
Regards,
Ms.Life
First. Iwant to extend my sincere and warmth hugs to your mom and dad, Jack.
ReplyDeleteNow, about love. Honestly, I couldn't define love. The truest meaning of it. All I can say is that ... i want someone i could hold hands, and just take those walks, watching the sunset and the mornings after. Taking those coffee with him by my side and face life and trials along the way ... with him as my guide ... my anchor. That's all I want. And that is paradise for me.
Thank you I just came as I had to head out to the store. It's a great conclusion to this...blog.
ReplyDeletemany people love for good reasons. some are caught up in bad relationships, literally being addicted to love while those they love have nothing to give. in my line of work i've seen this many times over. while looking for love let me admonish you to_ look for things in common. it's disaster when one loves hunting, fishing and eating game while the other thrives on the city and refuses to cook or eat wild meat. and only consider love with someone you can truly respect. i suspect no one is flawless so it's a farce if you find one who appears to be, but do not suppose a good time out is all the makings of a life long relationship. it's best to have common interest and also to have someone close by that share your morals and values of life. best wishes.
ReplyDeleteNice and thank you Lydia....
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