I went and waited and waited with regards to what the outcome is with my car and then thereafter left. I got a call on my lan line telling me "we think it's a write off but we won't know till tomorrow". I called the assigned assessment agent name Joni and here again it's the government at large. I called her back and the message was "I will be out of the office till Monday".
Hmm, the funny things is that I really still don't know what is going to take place with it but shall on Monday - if we set up an appointment. How long somethings take when your dealing with the government.
Still to this day, I find that I don't recall much from the accident and truly go figure I don't even wish to see it anymore. I guess that is a little post stress that comes from something as such. So I will find out more on Monday. So here I just keep on waiting for the real outcome.
Tomorrow I my doctor has taken I found that the my doctor has taken two weeks off and here I was supposed to have the results everything but I am not one to complain yet when there is a finality to something - then there is an ending and you can have that resolve. I have never taken a picture or anything from this entire thing but I don't thrive on it I just know after this is all done and over with I will be back on with things which shall be in December. Meanwhile, I have been going for walks, keeping upbeat and just accepting things as they are.
I know it could have been much worse and I wish for it to be all over with but it's a slow process to say the least. I have gotten over with it all but I look forward to Monday where there will be a decisive answer with regards to my car. And as far as the weather it's never been as nice as it has these past three weeks.
I'm so sorry to hear you were in an accident Jack. Take it in small steps, you can only do what is in front of you at the time. No sence in worrying about the things you can't do anything about. All that will give you is headachs and ulcers. I will keep you in my prayers.
ReplyDeleteJust wait patiently Jack ... am sure things will fall into each proper places in due time.
ReplyDeleteContinue your exercises ... your daily walks, but do it in moderation and take extra cautious with your legs hmmm ... am I mothering here ... hope not [laughs]
And yes, it could have been much worst ... let us thank God Jack, for protecting you in those times ... He is there beside Jack, all throughout ...
Eliz I don't...I just will be really glad when it's over with. I don't dwell much on it I do get on with it and I make the best of it but the government is something to be honest with you when it's socialized especially with insurance.
ReplyDeleteTess I am I just never thought that something so simple would take so much time to come to an outcome I thought that tomorrow would be the day that one thing was over with and well one has no control over it so you just go with the flow.
ReplyDeleteThe main things for me is taking some of this into my own hands and holistically healing so I do much within the day and then enjoy these evening of writes....and there is no pain. So I guess Monday will be the day that things do come into a place - it's all within cadence...
So it shall all work out...hence I am over it...but at night it's is painful but I just flow along with things and accept it. Literally.
Jack I know only to well of what you speak. My son was run down on the sidewalk in 2002 by a drunk driver. He suffered greatly and the incident changed all our lives completely and forever. My son was taken to Vancouver children's hospital, was in a coma, had blood transfusions and several operation. Thank God, after 17 operation and losing some parts of him, he is still with us. Although he has some brain damage he is a bright boy. Anyways, my point here is, that this happened in 2002, we are now coming up to 2010 and he is just now going into mediation. Many years or heart break, headaches, bills and fighting. Hang in there and know you are in our prayers.
ReplyDeleteWell in some ways I literally find that the government with the insurance takes far too long with some things. For myself I literally have been going about things and it could have been much worse but I don't dwell on it I find that by the time I have done everything within my day I literally have done my own therapy if you know what I mean.
ReplyDeleteSo I don't dwell on it that much, there was a friend that I used to know that came onto my blog and sent me a pm...So I thought I would tell this small story of today...
I am glad you shared this story Jack. And yes, it's best not to dwell on things.. of course there are going to be something that you need to look at and take by the horns so to speak. And yes I completely understand what you are saying. Try to have a relaxing evening and know that you have friends that care about you! hugs
ReplyDeleteThanks I do as one can dwell or one can go forward I think that takes a determination of sorts. What the mind and body can do but as far as a car...well that is another thing but there shall be closure with it on Monday...I hope!
ReplyDeleteIts sad to hear your knees is still giving you pain ... if I could only do some thing to ease the pain ... wish I am a miracle worker.
ReplyDeleteWinter is still about to come ... and it will be more painful when the colds gets in Jack ...
I literally don't think like that Tess I just it's all good. As I enjoy writing and I literally don't think much about it here again I just place it up to cadence.
ReplyDeleteyou should call the doctor's office to see if there is anyone else that can tell you what is going on, tell them it is too stressful for you to wait!
ReplyDeleteHow nice to hear that positive outlook from you, Jack. Just be sure your knees are properly wrapped in bandage to keep it from the harsh coldness of winter ... tight hugs.
ReplyDeleteI did and I am in there tomorrow morning Danette I kid you not as with my insurance it was supposed to push things faster.
ReplyDeleteSo sometimes one has to take things into there own hands as I am going to what was my old doctor that I had before he is an older man and then things can probably speed up. As one does not want to wait too long. And I have a retraining program that starts on December 8th.
So it's taking things into one's own hands...So it's all healing yet I don't want to miss out in what was all planned out as far as the car it can be replaced.
ReplyDeleteIt's half emtpy or half full...
Half full ...
ReplyDeletei am the worst waiter in the world. hang in there my friend.
ReplyDeleteI will think on it and then just let it go and then at a certain point take action. So I just go with the flow..but there is always a resolve.
ReplyDeleteYet I am human...
hopefully things will be solved come Monday.
ReplyDeleteIt will all be ok.
ReplyDeleteLovely photo. It's awkward with all those loose ends flying around, but you seem to have a very good attitude about it.
ReplyDeleteour mind protects us in so many wonderful ways! until monday then! hugs!
ReplyDeleteoh man, more delays. but, you are keeping it up taking your walks and it's a good thing mother nature is cooperating for you in this time. hope you hear the news you want to hear on Monday. take it easy.
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