Each and every person has a different manner in which the view things. As well as each and every person has a different manner in which they have had things take place in life.
My last post was one that is truly with regards to a friend and with that all said we all have had situations that have taken us away from some things in life.
The manifest of what is life is within our own hands as well as the generosity of those that can relate. Seemingly when we do this in life it gives something that has a reciprocating effect.
Life happens and it happens for a reason that I find that we come to understand once we have reasoned it out after. I am not perfect but the first thing within my friends I and some of you I don’t even know is that I really enjoy reading as well as writing.
Leaving it at that I took my father in for blood tests which will be followed by a cocktail of medications tomorrow. It's a cocktail of antigens to keep his immune system level. Something like Chemo, but he can not take Chemo any more as it would literally kill him. Eight years of being a Stage 4 and as you can see on my last blog which is the first that I have ever done anything of that nature with family medical issues, I don’t wish to send out to everyone. There are few and far between that I have even come to know. I just wished to write this write as there are so many things I do want to write about and yeah today, I was out with my camera, and ventured to a few people and places rather than sitting within a hospital.
Those that are connected to me, sure I have some that are blocked for good reason and they probably have a friend and gossip flys high but the essence of a person is one that can make there own judgments and there own statements in there own manner.
Don’t read too deeply with this as it’s a good day. 
"SO LONG as you can sweeten another's pain, life is not in vain," wrote Helen Keller. Keller certainly understood emotional pain
ReplyDeleteI hope your Father feels your concern and your care. He should be proud to have such a son in these times. You got some of your traits and manner from him perhaps even your strength. My very best wishes to you both during these difficult times.
In order to love "in deed and truth," we first need to see others particular needs, If we can or should meet them. But we are not the saviors of the world (or the net) . Sometimes it is best to walk away for them and ourselves. It's the best help you can give sometimes. The world isn't perfect nor are people. That is part of life too.
I wouldn't worry about gossip--
There is an increasing number of people are motivated by what, for the last decade or so, has been identified as me-ism. And like a drug druggie -they are in denial. Though many may not know the term or may feel that it does not apply to them, me-ism is a principle by default, that is, a code of conduct that many resort to as they abandon high standards of behavior. I see it a lot (and especially here on the net). Doctor's offices, lawyers, courts all see a great increase now to bad behavior and the net makes it easier to continue with their issues rather than self-assess and correct behavior. Even studies show this. I think if more really did take a good look at their behavior they might not like what they see.
You do what you have to do. What makes your life stay on a good course. That is hard enough. It is very hard to remain morally upright, when so many excuse people's behavior here. (like that is being nice--that is just wrong--it helps no-one be better or the world. And we need to put the blame and issues where it should be or it will never be corrected, Dirt buried under the rug--doesn't go away--it just hides better, I have to sweep now and than
Sometimes misunderstandings:
And sometimes it just wasn't meant to be (no one at fault) and we need to move on for our own good and to enrich our life more.
Smile--don't read to much into mine neither--just mussing. Have a good day too.
Hang in there my friend. I did enjoy the pics you posted.
ReplyDeleteI am not as in reading it ironically I am happy in my shoes. Life is not perfect. And I understand you very well, this was a write to just state that I enjoy the writings and the shares.
ReplyDeleteJim I have and this is not a downer write it's actually something I enjoyed writing - and more than anything I am looking at all that can be done with the computer now.
ReplyDeleteI enjoyed your writes and have and will as they are really great and authentic.
Good post, good comments and moving on as always.:))
ReplyDeleteJust keep being kind to yourself, take those breaks and changes of scene that buoy one's mood. Then you have more to give to others and people will want you around as you have a positive spin on things.
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ReplyDeleteGot it and yes you are right!
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