When to Call it Quits

I am not the type of person to complain, as I think I have mentioned before I moved from a city called Edmonton.  My former friend from there whom I moved in with really went through something with divorce.  It’s seems that his wife was not right, he left here and in earlier times he followed me with everything that I did.

It’s long past now and I will get these calls from him, as there are a few of my belongings that are still there.  I really don’t know where to go with this but yesterday while I was out again I had a request for a door remote that I had forgot to leave there and I sent it to him as the smallest things he is calling me.

His mother of all people called me, as he is playing a game as she never had my cell number. As I have had some calls that are just something that are rather bizarre. As far as I am concerned it’s been a week that I have been doing so many things the last and for a friend that I thought I knew seems to be completely the opposite. I recall his wife calling and crying and stating everything that he had did. From giving a suicide note to his wife and son and going on a week trip and then it coming out by way of his wife's friend that worked with him - which really was profound back then. Yet I supported him.

You know you get to a certain age and you act in a certain manner – yesterday while I was out when I was getting these calls especially the one from his mother – I think it’s time to just completely block him.

The stories his wife had told me while I lived with him and stayed out of the dynamic but she would call in due to problems just as I am mentioning – now I think that she probability was right although I stayed out of the dynamic but when a man uses his mother along with calling late at night with all sorts of rambles I just turn off the phone and as well the cell, as I think he has a big problem and as of today – as far as the way I see it.  The small amounts of things that are my belongings are gone.  And what really gets me the most is that I never played any games of the likes of what I have seen unfold and I am severing all ties.

I could go on with this but it’s high time that I just sever the entire situation.  As after this amount of time – I live in another city and he continues to act in a bizarre manner.  I sent off this garage remote and he had to sign for it upon receiving and I am finished with him.  You wait for a while and after so much you just then take the appropriate actions and go on with your own path without things as such.  I have much more important things to do.  That sounds so selfish but this guy literally relied so much on my father as well as other members of my family.  During earlier times and he changed. And he really had a personality that was co dependant as well as very aristocratic - somehow he thought that he was right with everything especially while drinking. I think now that his soon to be ex wife was right in all she said, but I never wished to get involved in it all. Nor did I nor will I.

 

I think the only manner to handle this now is to just completely block his calls and leave it all. You have great friends and then you have ones that go through something but in some manner he just never stops, if it's not me, it's someone else. Somehow he changed. And it's not the same person.  My brother will not takes his calls, other members of my family won't. As we all came to the consensus a long time ago that he has a problem. And that negativity is not coming my way anymore, I don't need nor want it.

 

The final thing that brought me to this decision was on going calls or recent and taking everything into account.