Well I went back in and I decided that since my father now was out of emergency as he could have been there for the entire weekend. As well, a resident internal medicine doctor wished to speak with me pertaining to my father's medical history. So we discussed things that went back to nearly nine years. So going back obviously something that was good.
I thought I would have the time to get the camera out and get some night shots of around this particular hospital that is located on the university grounds, but by the time I had called to back to my mother to re assure here with regards to things – it was again getting late.
Right now most specialists take the weekends off here in some provinces in Canada. While during the week they work here and have the weekend off. Each province like a state is different but within Canada some provinces have a two-tier system and some have only one. It's the way that our medical system started. But times do change. And the need for a variety of things are need to maintain a system or amend it to fit the current times so that it services the needs of the people. Bankers hours for specialists does not go over well with me. Meanwhile we have a strong amount of people that come from a variety of countries that pick up the slack. And in no means are they less – they are actually very – or extremely well educated and know what they are doing.
With regards to my father, what I do know at present is that he has several things going on. One of which is his brain has been effected after a improper surgery that took place just a few days ago, so as the residents are bring everything together he is on a certain type of medication to cautiously terminate the infection. I know that come Monday, everything will come into play. I do believe in a system that we do have but ironically it’s not a medical system that is perfect. It too needs adjustments.
As far as the how I see things in comparison to yesterday – it’s one step forward and no steps backwards. There was an announcement while I was talking to one nurse and then I knew it was time to leave. He was very mixed up but on a one to ten scale I would say it was around a 4. So for now that is good news.
As for myself, I am not stressed out, but I must admit I am tired, and while leaving and the people that I saw in the elevator – oh if you do something that’s harmful to your health that you really don’t need to be doing – try to change it as you don’t know what it’s like till you have been there yourself.
It's tough to walk out and go home. It was 70 here today. Hospitals here are cutting hours/days. While Mark Sanford takes his sweet time deciding to take stimulus funds?! Glad some doctors are good.
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ReplyDeleteagain, lm sorry about ya dad.
ReplyDeleteand lm glad they have it under control at the hospital.
yes, get some sleep, reads like he is in good hands...sleep gently.
and its good your weather is starting to warm up,
u can sit with your dad soon on a sunny day in a garden...lovely thought.
all the best for u and the family...
take care of you
It's a tad different here in Canada - but there is a need for change here as well. In Canada it's socialized for the most part that is something that is so often confused with communism - which it's not. But even within a socialized medical system there is a need for change. Greed does come into play as we live in different times now, but I think that there is some manner that things do take place as accountability combined with ethics may foster something.
ReplyDeleteI find that it comes down to economics these days and it's a pity when we are talking about health matters. That is something I feel that several countries do encounter and will. If they are not already.
Big hugs back to you Peeks...I mean that and I think by now you know it...
ReplyDeleteIt's an unknown right now but I just place it where it needs to be and enjoy things - but yes there is a boat that is here that goes around the river in the spring and summer. If my mother and father have that second chance to do this again - then I have been of some service as a son.
ReplyDeleteBelieve it or not I am really at peace with this perhaps it's bringing about something that was missed in earlier times when I came back to Canada from the US. I don't know. But I am at peace at the end of these days. I thrive but at night if I get 6 hours that are entirely or almost entirely all REM. I am fit to go...your a very compassionate person - thank you again Lyn.
Hugs. I wish your father a speedy recovery.
ReplyDeleteGood morning and thank you Lorna.
ReplyDeleteIt's 7am and I think I am going to meet up with my cousin that I have not seen since I have moved back here and go to church. Why not - I am waiting for her call so we shall see.
I hope all goes well with your dad, Jack! Have a great Sunday, and enjoy the services!
ReplyDeleteI am sure they feel that you continue to be 'os some service' as a son. Your constancy in their lives is a blessing to them. I wish a speedy recovery to your dad.
ReplyDeleteNeeds adjustments?? I'd say so.. I know that many used to come to the USA for critical care.. if they could afford to do so. I can't imagine waiting in a que.. for care.
ReplyDeleteGlad to hear that your Father is feeling and doing better! Sometimes.. a four is WONDERFUL! lol. Get a little rest.. you need to put back something into your reserves.. take a minute or two for yourself too.
I went to a small parish within the hospital today and thereafter did the things that were necessary for the forthcoming week. So I don't think I will be going to a formal mass today but I what I deemed worthy.
ReplyDeleteIt's been a great morning as well as a small visit into the hospital and parish within and then I went out for lunch with a friend of mine. All things related to my father shall take it's due process.
Yes I didn't realize that visiting hours were at 2pm, but they let me in and he is cognitively all there. Oops, but they let me in and all went well, I was just there today for half an hour as tonight is my own time of relaxing.
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I got my rest last night, and I have my own self time right now. The snow is going and man that is great to see finally!
Well, I woke up and had my coffee and then planned my day and watched the news. So there is a few minutes.... : )
Oh definitely - they brought me into this world and I can honestly say that my feeling regardless of where ever I am is that one does honor parents.
ReplyDeleteI hope your father continues to improve. Have a nice day.
ReplyDeleteThank you sir..
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