We all have that given right within what we write within our blogs. I have had some unnecessary things that have happened with a few people. And I do value my privacy.
One tells me that they have never deleted a person within there life, where as I have deleted and you know how it can go with people that will play the underhanded think.
I don't get angry but I know the meaning of sharing. It's not something that is other than what it is. I have come to the conclusion with that I am making some changes with things and I wished to say it as I know the old gossip factor will happen. Everyone has there own manner and I will exercise that choice as I deem fit. I don't usually do this and I I love the idea of freedom of what we all do but yet at the same time there are those that will be so underhanded and some that are mature enough to think on what they are doing.
So if you get the gossip factor - so be it. I love to write and that's basically what all it's comes down too.
Onwards we go...while at the same time I do wish to make a request as to whom does with to be on my blog. I have taken my time for so long in reading and writing and when you have ones that play the game as you know what I mean...it's just time to ignore them. So when and if you hear gossip you can believe it or not there are some but I am not going to waiver with this ....not this time.
Secondly I don't live on here.
as they say there is "one in every crowd" ... best to avoid the drama.
ReplyDeleteUse this as a tool for expression, thought, feeling and not a place to squash your soul.
ReplyDeleteWell, not sure who or what happened, as I am a new friend. I believe we blog for many reasons. To share, to inform, to encourage, and to just be ourselves. I choose every day what I want to blog and it is my privilege. If anyone is offended, I am sorry, but it is my blog to say what I want to....if someone doesnt like it, and wants to stir up trouble...........move on. I dont need negatives, fussing and fighting. I am a positive person by nature, and only want to be happy. I dont gossip....that isnt me. I realize we all live different lives, in different areas of the world. Traditions, customs, etc. are fascinating to me. I love to learn. Not to tear down anyone. So, my new friend....you will only get positive, encouring comments from me. :-)
ReplyDeleteNot into the drama and yeah when you have a hack - well it's not fun. I enjoy this on the ideas of what it is and what it can be.
ReplyDeleteTony me as well...
ReplyDeleteHey thanks Linda I ready much and I deleted one chap and that lead to another it's the old trickle effect and all I can say they are off now. We are imperfect human beings but yet I have some childish interplay that has gone too far with three.
ReplyDeleteI look at the better sides of things and there are some that enjoy the contrary - I getting pm's that were not necessary and the as well one working in concert.
So forwards we go.
That is what a delete button is for.........we do not all get along and I am one that will delete people if they can not play nice on my page.
ReplyDeleteI just did...
ReplyDeletehttp://initiativestain.multiply.com/journal/item/73/The_Games_Some_Will_Play
ReplyDeleteI really don't understand much of what is going on
ReplyDeletebut I do understand that you have the right to blog what you like
it is your blog and its there for you and those that want to share
So true - this was going on for two weeks now.
ReplyDeleteyou did the right thing
ReplyDeleteThe inception of my blog was reading and looking at the writes...and then there were some that added me to it Katya.
ReplyDeleteBut all in all it's a blog. Everyone has done what I have done and I have never done and injustice to anyone.
It all has a way of working out.
I have the song born free singing in my head now :)
ReplyDeleteWe are as free as we wish it's something that is a gift that does lay within. A source as such...
ReplyDeletedont worry i done it as well..wahaha caused some people dont give any input or give comments or just the plain marketing enter my place ..yes delete them wahaha.. ( ps : i am not a bitch ) wwahahaha
ReplyDeleteAgnes, in no way do I believe you are - we all have that choice
ReplyDeleteI have no clue what's been going on Jack, but we do have a right to choose.
ReplyDeleteI have deleted some "Friends" that I have never heard from or seen on my pages for more than a year, and I'm going to have another look at that.
If they don't post anything and never visit me, what's the point?
So true Mia, one has to ask themselves why and there is this thing called choices. So beyond that I don't see much point, I can say that you are right as there is a redundancy to some of the things that one runs into but you move on from it.
ReplyDeleteThe enjoyment of it is what is so precious.
I recently deleted 30 people last week. I went to a blog and found them writing really bad, filthy, disrespectful things about some people from a political multiply group, trying to get an administrator to ban someone from the group. You would not believe what was typed and pictures posted.
ReplyDeleteVery ugly. I did not want to be associated with such people. None of them are on your friends list, btw.
Amen and I do agree, been there done that too.
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