In a field, there was an oak at one end, and a willow tree at the other. Whenever a wind moved through the field, the willow swayed in the wind, while the oak remained unmoved. When this happened, the willow said to itself, " I wish I was as strong as the Oak, instead of bending over with every breeze ". Then one day a large windstorm tore through the field.
When the storm passed, and the darkness lifted, the willow looked across the field. shocked to discover that the oak was lying on the ground, broken. When the Gardener came into the field, the willow said, “Oh sir, what happened to the Oak? How is it that I survived the storm, weak as I am, and the Oak fell?”
The Gardener said, “Oh little willow tree, do you not understand what happened? When the winds blow, you bend with them, while the oak remains still and strong. So when a really powerful wind comes along, you can bend with the wind, and survive it. But the Oak cannot bend, and so if the wind is strong enough, it will break. For the Oak had a secret, a weakness within that no one looking at the outside could see. And the Gardener went on his way, leaving the willow to ponder what he said.
~ There are many take on this fable story however the moral of the story is strength within and strength without are not the same, and one should cultivate strength within first. Also, when the winds of life blow, bend, and you may survive the real storms when they come. Try and resist them, and when the real storms come, you may break or you can bend. ~
and that is why i always says in jest ...' i would rather have my cotton willow' ...
ReplyDeletei learned that from my experienced thou' i don't have many and, still so much to learn yet ...
Excellent!
ReplyDeletethe oak made a better bedroom set
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Tis true about how willows bend and endure storms ..we had a horrible wind storm here several years ago and a 20 year old oak was uprooted..I was amazed it must have had a horrible root system ..we didnt have a willow then but I do now ..We lost several trees due to extensive damage that time
ReplyDeletethe oak stands strong and protects all around it--then the oak becomes stoic and begins to believe that it must stand strong --and when it falls in time it leaves a great void ----unknown to the oak--those around would rather the oak bend a bit and survive rather than stand in false belief and fall..........................
ReplyDeleteand again humbleness comes into play here too.
ReplyDeleteThis is an excellent fable, thank you for sharing such a strong message.
ReplyDeleteI love both trees, I love the story, I try to cultivate in myself a bit of both, as a child I was the seed of an Oak tree, I grew an inner strength from the flexibility of the willow in me, when there is a marriage of both it creates a nice mixture, I have not quite got it right yet, but each time I melt down, it is a little less tragic than the time before, God willing and my mind stays stable.
ReplyDeleteThere are many takes on this Cheryl. This one I found on the internet and after I headed to be mind and watched a move but there is meaning with in it.
ReplyDeleteHoping your having a great day.
And the willow did make it through the winter Nemo, after the storm we had last night and with the
ReplyDeletetempertures coming down to -31c.
But the oak well .........hahahaa.
yes ,,here the Oak depicts soloid Strength ... the Willow..is a beauty..alsdo used to make ,Cricket ..bats ![hugs]]
ReplyDeleteThere merit within this story really is that the willow was flexible. It could adapt and bend. As for the oak, it looked so strong and as the real story goes the oak tree everyone within the town thought that there was not way that the willow would last, but the oak would. However the oak was so strong and not able to bend/adapt to the winds and it broke into several pieces as well as broke right from it's trunk.
ReplyDeleteYou know this story!
ReplyDeleteKimmy it does there is another take on this story but it does.
ReplyDeleteMichelle obviously you have heard of this one as well as it's a well known story/fable but there are several takes on it as well.
ReplyDeleteNancy stability is within allowance. Be a willow and just bend within your own accord. I don't wish to be an Oak, I would much rather be flexible.
ReplyDeleteIt does Caroline even when it's -31c ! Ouch
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Yep, we have to be strong yet resilient to make it through the storms of life.
ReplyDeleteThere was a meaning to this and I recall writing it back a few years ago.
ReplyDeleteAnd the key is within the resilience as well as the aptitude within being flexible.
I just love this! I think one can also equate this with learning how to "go with the flow." Accept things when they happen, and work through it to the good, rather than fighting against it.
ReplyDeleteHi Mary a great Friday to you. It does realate with go with the flow. And as well acceptance.
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