Are You There Yet

I don’t think we ever reach the exact destination that we intend on. Yet we are beings of creating. Have you noticed how often we use up the present moments of our lives, the very precious currency of life, consumed with a longing to be someplace else, doing something else? Or we waste present moments feeling guilty about the past or apprehensive about the future. We can ease this dilemma by learning to pay attention to what’s going on in the inner world of our thoughts. I believe the key of wellness is the ability to be in the present within the moment. However we have to come to terms with the past and sometimes that can be consuming. I think it’s it is all right to reflect with regards to the past. Yet we are right within the moment within our thoughts but we have that consideration of what is now and this leads into the future.  There definitely is a future, but not now. I make no mistake within my own goals within living complete. People have there own idea of what complete means to them, which is what makes life so interesting. Certainly there life is not perfect and if you set yourself up for feeling that it is, I know from experience within my own life that there were things that have come my way which do throw a curve ball now and then and one has to filter out and get out of themselves to afford the ability of life. Life is not a mechanical way of living yet it’s a unique way of living. Each person wishes to live to the utmost and to be centered as well as complete.

I can either use this time within a state of appreciation rather than depreciation – that is my own very choice. I can decide to phone old friends once again or not. The ego plays a large part within this as when we are hurt or something happens we tend to hold in things rather that process them within a manner that creates abundance regardless of how simple it may be. It’s all with regards to choices. Some are very proud and I suppose each one of us are proud but have you ever seen that person that never assumes anything and just does things within a simple manner? In my experience those are the people that are usually the most content. As it brings yourself back to a state of appreciation for where you are. As we all do want more of something but there is something to be said about being content. Discarding thoughts of depreciation at lead into appreciative thoughts, which render many positives. When you find yourself depreciating anyone or anything in your immediate present moment space, see if you can substitute a thought of appreciation. I know within my own life right now if I plan to live up to every ones expectations, I am not within harmony with myself. Sometimes tricking the mind to think your doing well is great, yet there is times in which pending what a person is facing only they can determine what is the best way make this life one of worth. Each has there own set of ideals, and if it works don't break it. However we are always emerging and evolving. In five years from now will I be the same person exactly that I am now? Well with a laugh I really don't think so I don’t look at things that far ahead, I would rather be content within the now.
The essence of the entire message here is to be here now. Is there really any other person to be that oneself? It’s a question that so often we tend to think about at a certain stage within life and my own thoughts are within just being myself, there will always be rejection within areas of life yet when one lets go they render far more in being nothing more than being comfortable with oneself and that does take some confidence as so often we view things as if they are better but within life it really does not work that way. Yet there is only one person that can do it, certainly we can look for others from which to lean on but I find that life is in accordance to our very own selves. As even married people have there own individuality. What seemingly works is something that brings joy and ones confidence is has that trickle up effect rather than a stalemate.  Notice when you are wishing you were somewhere else, or someone else or changing your ways to present perfection within the eyes of others. What I find is that there are some things within the near future which shall be very humbling, however if I when I take that time to render whom I am, I am one of many. Each and every one of us is nothing more that what we are and how we shape our own lives.

So I am not there yet I don’t think I ever will be as if I did so I would be setting up borders. Borders keep one locked up within their own ideas. I would rather be border less within my life stream. Not a sermon nor anything but just my own thoughts.

"Abundance is not something we acquire. It is something we tune into."

This was a man from Michigan that went on to study mankind and has take more than half his life in travelling the world in the learning of mankind.

His name is Dr. Wayne Dyer.