I know that this will take a little time to process. There are many things I do wish to write however at the same time some things are left better unsaid. Some people even on a blog are a little reserve in what they write and. One step forwards and one step back its all in how we perceive things in our own way.
One never does expect things to go wrong or the way in which they never thought they would yet for now all that I can say is that I am going to go much slower with this or maybe to write about it does give some meaning.
We live and we learn I know I have and I am sure that another has as well. Yet it’s something you just don’t take from granted. I hope that the same is applicable. I think that is the most mature manner in writing about this and well sometimes you just leave things alone and come back to them. I wish I were a little more chipper within all of this however I find that no person is perfectly right. It does take two to make it and as well two to break it and it just didn’t work out. My hopes are that we can remain friends and for the mean time give it all some time. So for now I guess the best thing is to just leave things be as it’s all within apart of the human condition.
I sincerely thank you for all your comments on the note that I wrote....literally.
I am not quiet sure if you are serious in this one, Jack. And i am not even sure what you are pin-pointng in this blog. But you know, as i grew older, there's only one that is keeping me grounded ... and that is being true always, to myself, and to the people around me.
ReplyDeleteWhatever that is, i hope you'll be happy at the end of the day ... and that is the most important thing. Being happy :)
One meets someone and as once mentioned - it just does not jell. Mind you I am glad to be back out west...So you live and learn and yet with some time hope that with time there still can be a friendship...why not? That is all I was meaning I suppose I should have wrote this in more depth but I think that it's something you don't breach anothers privacy one that you have met and spend time with.
ReplyDeleteI guess it's a sensible respect.
hmm ...i don't know now what to say. Ok.
ReplyDeletetight hugs :)
The Best Of Intentions Often Back-fire--that is a fact.
ReplyDeleteHomes that looked sturdy are sometimes swept off their foundations.
No one should be stuck in stagnant waters
Nor is it the good times that keep people sailing together (many can afford to do many things--and it does bring joy for a time- ) but how they sail the storms together that really count if their journey together is to survive.
Yes, We live and hopefully we learn
I think this is the wisest thing you said:
ReplyDelete"So for now I guess the best thing is to just leave things be as it’s all within apart of the human condition."
We can agree to disagree, we can agree or disagree 100% to .00000001%, but at the end, we are who we are & I like to hope we all respect each other whatever differences there may be.
All living things learn how to survive in their own way. We don't even have to journey together, as in side by side, same species.
The world is ours, & we're the world. Diversification is fascinating & we can learn much from it.
I believe you are right to remain discreet.
ReplyDeleteI am sorry for hopes disappointed. I don't believe two people can be 100% in accord at all times. If it is to work, both must choose to bear with the parts that are not ideal.
Time is what we use to recover that what is lost for whatever reasons. As much as we can communicate via electronic means, in person is truly the only way we can really learn of another. Sorry it didn't work out. I know you had some fun while there and that is something you can bring home with you.
ReplyDeleteI am not sure what to say, but my daughter love that cliche, everything happens for a reason...I wish you true happiness
ReplyDeleteTake care friend, today is a new day, look ahead , not back
ReplyDeleteThey did but yet you gain from it finally I am getting used to the time zone change. Oh it's a learned on Haddie.
ReplyDeleteLucija I truly believe that...I could write here and go on about this and that and put it up to the option that it's a vent but I think that certain things are best kept within that way. We learn however I feel to leave it is the best thing.
ReplyDeleteDJ I do as well...I am not doing a CYA....cover your _____. But it's the best option now mind you with a nice cup of coffee at hand. Two people can never be perfectly right and I am happy to get things resettled here.
ReplyDeleteThanks much DJ.
Well there is are a few things I have to tend to here anmd so that will be for the next few days and I am not all to sure of all what to place on here GG however I brought some stories as I loved to mix with people but well I am not sure what to say here (sip of coffee)...
ReplyDeleteThis is it and it Danette I know there now some things that I have to do. And that all starts this next week...don't mind saying that.
ReplyDeleteNote before I was writing within the same time zone as you now that is not the case I thin there is a two hour difference. As now with everyone it's a bit of a change and for once I finally was able to beat this ongoing jet lag....
Thanks Tee this comes as a very nice surprise. This week is a busy one for me as I have two knees to service ( I didnt mention that one ) but I can't afford to do anything but outside of all of this and now look forward - good morning!
ReplyDeleteThere are many twists and turns on our journey------if we don't try the path, we never know the outcome of that choice. No harm in trying and if the way seems too difficult---redirecting is the only sensible course of action. There are no 'How To' manuals in life---we do the best we can with each day, consider the consequences of our choices and try.
ReplyDeleteBe well---take care!
[hugs]].I think it is true ...Everything happens for a Reason ..we may not see it at the time ,but we do..later.:)
ReplyDeleteHad, I like your comments, all of them.
ReplyDeleteThe fact is that we live in a world of cause & effect...that sounds so simplistic, but it's not. We have Jack's human condition where the natures, whims, emotions of others can greatly influence our lives. There are also natural disasters, as in your metaphor, "homes that looked sturdy." Many other things at work of which we have no knowledge.
One thing I can predict, is that life is unpredictable.
There's a somewhat "mental disorder' in people who do the same thing over & over, expecting a different result.
That's indeed stagnant. Yes, hopefully, we learn...from every experience in our lives.
In my humble opinion, what we see later are the consequences of a happening, However, I don't believe there was a 'reason' for the happening. Things just happen in life, & we evaluate them as they affect us personally.
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