Again - It is what it is....and Never say Never.

Heartbreak happens to all of us. Often the pain that wounds us most deeply also leaves the most enduring mark upon us. Yet the heart does have a fond feel and a respect regardless. Breaking up is not the case here it's a time for me to return back out west. And one does regard things towards the end, no I don't just think one but I think both do take things into account. Yet there is and when that day happens there really is no easy way by two that do have ....................feelings.

Heartbreak happens to all of us and can wash over us like a heavy rain. When experiencing a broken heart, our ethereal selves are saturated with grief, and the overflow is channeled into the physical body. Loss becomes a physical emptiness, and longing is transmuted into a feeling that often cannot be put into words. Mending a broken heart can seem a task so monumental that we dare not attempt it for fear of damaging ourselves further. But heartbreak, like all emotions, falls under the spell of our conscious influence.

Often the pain that wounds us most deeply also leaves the most enduring mark upon us. The shock that becomes the tender, throbbing ache of the heart eventually leads us down the path of enlightenment, blessing our lives with a new depth and richness. 

Acknowledging heartbreak's impermanence by no means dulls its sting for it is the sting itself that stimulates healing. The pain is letting us know that we need to pay attention to our emotional selves, to sit with our feelings and be in them fully before we can begin to heal. It is said that time heals all wounds. Time may dull the pain of a broken heart, but it is fully feeling your pain and acknowledging it that will truly help you heal. Dealing with your heartache in a healthy way rather than putting it off for tomorrow is the key to repair. Gentleness more than anything else is called for. Most important, open yourself to the possibility of loving, trusting, and believing again. When, someday soon, you emerge from the cushion of your grief, you will see that the universe did not cease to be as you nursed your broken heart. You emerge on the other side of the mending, stronger for all you have experienced.

I am not sure that my heart is broke, I think more so two people just started to understand each other and who they are and what they are all about and to say good bye definitely is again a time to say hello. So I shall be flying out not on Monday but on Tuesday and to say this goodbye right now seemingly has brought the best out of us. Yet to say goodbye is to say again hello. One thing I can say is that I have easily placed on a few good pounds here with the food within the restaurants ( I knew French but not as fast and as good to ............well yeah I get by)......

The restaurants are something to say the least. Literally. Food I have had so much food I think most would envy me from out west. While they are eating meat and patatoes - kidding aside I am just getting into my stride of writing after all of this. Most of you have had the respect to understand and so on. For which I thank you. There are some really good things that have happened while I was here as well as the composition of pictures that I took this week.