The things to know about me are that I don't take much "bull" especially during this time of the season. There are things that have taken place here yet one prevails and
I do believe in Christmas but this is the worst year I have had on here as there has been so much that has gone on. I have taken a few off for a few reasons of my own - a big period to that one as well as I have blocked the ones that were aholes for the last year. So lets leave it at that, there are a few that for some crazed reason have drawn me to conclude with taken them off my blog and as well I don't want a huge network of people. I looked at a few last night and I could stand to be corrected but you do have the ability to write and have a network that you desire and then if you wish write outside of it. That is my choice. There is a small tree in here as well as most everyone has been running to buy things but I have been running back and forth to hospitals. I have not taken one picture since the 15th and I am sure that most levelheaded understanding people would understand the reason of why. After being away for a few days I came back and you know how it is one jumps from your blog and will use it as a manner to gain new members within a group or their own blog. I may very well do some very kind things here this morning pending on the time as today is definitely a me day and I do wish you the up most for this very season. I am not (especially at this time of the year) into a passive aggressive behavior but I certainly am into those that are able to have some consideration. There was a people that was wrote by a Bill Johnston from England that literally touched me and anyone that read he bog as it was not all about selfish needs - it was more abundance with life and so forth. Where as when I see some things I really do shake my head with how self-nurturing some people are or need to do which are off my blog. I am certainly not the grinch, but when I logged on and from the past with a few groups there are some real underhanded people that I have returned to blocking. You look for the betterment and realize that there is no change within there demise. So you just leave it be and go about your own way - they way I see it. Perhaps I am being too sentimental but I don't think so it really comes down to different strokes for different folks. So I will continue to write as I wish but at the same time in no manner do I need to get home and open this up and get ticked off with what "play" I am seeing take place, believe you me I do know and can see what is going on. That all said a great weekend to you all as well as it's not in what you say you are it's within the actions you take. Some if they wish can take me off there blog, some can keep me I was going to wait till after the new year as I have read many PM's from some people a week ago that were very displeased with some that were really overstepping the bounds. So I just deleted them off and blocked them - this is supposed to be enjoyable. Where as I - I don't chat to anyone with the exception of Meebo on this thing. So making a long story short I have tried with some people but never have great expectations - and I am doing the very same now. I guess I could have said it yesterday night but I was not in the mood as I literally would have gone placed on my blog in posting a few names but within those that posted within my two posts of last night in surely did indicate that area called friends. Will we ever meet? No we all will never meet in concert. But it's certainly nice to write and see the good wish rather that the opposite. I could name the names of the people that will actually trying to post right after I have posted something within one group called PP. And why that is. Heck if I know as since some time back I used to let them go on and make there posts on my blog but as we are approaching this important season I have decided to again make a choice for myself. It's not anger coming out of circumstances but there have been a few unwarranted blogs. As well I don't wish to be the host of people sending of invites to others, as I stand on my own. And truly I find it rather ridiculous as to all the things that can go one with some that are older than I. I have never been one to hold back on my thoughts and I will exercise them when the time warrants it. As I have done. The games that some will play even at this time of the year. Yet I look for the other side of things. I have had three offers back in Alberta and one in Quebec and I think I may very well be moving effectively Feb 01, so it's a new year. Meanwhile I have decided not to wait anymore and to place aside the camera and to go for small jogs and perhaps tonight I may take my camera out and capture a few - Why not. Yet this being said never have great expectations but have sound valid ones in whom as you will never people everyone and unless you have talked to someone on here now will you really get to know most all of them. Yet there still is a share. Such as I have done and if anyone wishes to take me off by all means go ahead and do so if you need to do the old gossip thing during this time of the year.
Saturday, December 19, 2009
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Best wishes if you do move in February. I have been fortunate that I have not run in to any issues here. Maybe I'm blind or niave but I know I have good friends and have been treated well.
ReplyDeleteI hope 2010 is a better year for both of us Jack. {{{hugs}}}
Oh I have and there have been 4 people that have seen it going on so I am am going to write a bit more but as well read this was long over do and I wanted to get it placed on as I am really tired of some that gossip and pass notes and when I logged on last night I could see the same old thing. So I have a large network...probably much to large. GG - hugs back to you at 7:30am here in the morning. You literally read this as most will write the tail end of a post and then make a comment.
ReplyDelete: ) Yes I do read all of the posts I open.
ReplyDeleteover 50% don't they will read the last paragraphy statistically. I read em as well. :)
ReplyDeletehi ii count you as one of the sound people on here i read all posts I know what you mean about Christmas were flat out here too thanks friend hugs xx
ReplyDeleteJack I need to be honest here as I’m confused but maybe it’s the fact that I haven’t been around long enough to understand. I’m sorry you are having to deal with all this and by all means you do what you need to do as this should not be a place that should upset you, delete and block whomever you wish, that’s your right. I’m not one for gossip which I did find annoying on Yahoo 360 but so far my experience here has been a wonderful one and I hope to keep it that way. I feel for you and hope that you don’t let a few ruin this for you. I think that’s wonderful news about your offers and hope all goes well for you in February. I hope this New Year brings us all happiness and peace.
ReplyDeleteSome are and some literally are not and yet one does introduce others to others in a meaningful manner and it amazes me with how some people are here. So I really don't hold back. No there are times I will come right out with it.
ReplyDeleteKelly you very new to it so I would not worry. Today is my first day to be able to do as I please and am going too. Peace there.
ReplyDeleteAnd you should. Wishing you a nice day, hugs!
ReplyDeleteAnd the same to you Kelly.
ReplyDeleteHave a smooth day --and keep a smile on your face.:)
ReplyDeletewow, you sound quite upset and I am not sure I have seen what you are talking about ...at least not on here on your blog. you talked about PP and I know of it, but am not a part of it. I have seen that there are a few other people that I know that join in with it....that is how I know about it. These comments must be on other pages than here. You do what you have to do, to keep your place nice and don't worry about it if you feel the need to remove someone - because afterall it IS your choice and no one else's. Sorry it's being such a bummed out time for you, especially at this moment with your parent's in the hospital. I sure hope that you can find some happiness and peace this week.
ReplyDeleteI noticed that you said that you are moving in February? You said that you have offers, what do you do for your work I still don't know about you.
I have often read books and articles that tell us to limit our time around negative people. Sometimes it's a family memeber and that's difficult to do, but in a forum such as this we have contol over the folks we surround ourselves with. I know I want people who are happy, positive, and uplifting, and I am sure you feel the same. These folks don't necessarily always agree with me, but if they can disagree nicely, that's fine. I don't mind a bit of discussion back and forth , and I think you are the same way. I don't blame you a bit for wanting to make your Multiply an enjoyable, comfortable place to come to. Take care, my friend, and I wish you the best for the coming year.
ReplyDeleteCaroline I do and the day is going to be a smooth one. :)
ReplyDeleteVery true Susan and hello there to you in Ohio...
ReplyDeleteYou have been under a lot of stress . Things will certainly get better I wish you the best. I have some people who only visit my guest book and a couple who read my posts but never comment or very rarely but I know one of them is going through a very hard time herself ..None of us can be perfect either we are all just human ..just hold on to what is good. I hope 2010 is a Good Year for you
ReplyDeleteI was livid with last night when I went on there and some of the PM drama that I get and one during this season well it's something Suzy. So one has to ask themselves what is of worth and what isnt as mentioned by a very good friend from below.
ReplyDeleteVery well said I agree :-)
ReplyDeleteDo whatever your heart tells you to do Jack.
ReplyDeleteI myself don't want any form of gossiping and I could always pinpoint if anyone is into that kind of thing, and i hate [please pardon my words] people who put malice to just anything ... i know it is very hard to find a real friend on here, but i did find you and some, and thank God for it. By the way ... i find your friend Bill's blogs very refreshing worthy to emulate. Enjoyed reading some of it ... even shed a tear in one. Hugs :)
When we blog, we sometimes get the odd people that will come and just leave nasty notes and you are left wondering where all that has come from. In the end, the choice is yours for after all, your page is your space and you do not let strangers come into your home and insult you, so you do not have to cope with it here on your page. You are free to accept people and stay away from others with whom you do not feel as comfortable. We are all different, and have more affinities with some than others. Although we want to respect people for who they are, we do not have to be friends with everyone. It is only normal to feel that way Jack. Hope you have a good weekend my friend, and if you come to Quebec, hope we will find a way to see each other. Time for a nap now.
ReplyDeleteThere is one reason I really love this medium - we can block/delete the people we dont want to associate with more effectively than in our lives offline. Do what you believe is right for you to do. I try not to dwell on others behaviour online, its their choice but I do have a choice on whether I will put up with it, rent space in my head for it or keep them out and pay any no attention to them and their baggage.
ReplyDeleteWishing you a Quiet, Relaxed, Healing Holiday Season.
hugs, thoughts, and prayers! and do make time for yourself during this time; you can be of no help or support to others if you don't take care of yourself! the new year sounds very promising! looking forward to the pics!
ReplyDeleteBonjour Danielle,
ReplyDeleteI went to the grocery store with a friend of mine and thereafter did the wash you know how it goes on the weekend. But from our past conversations I certainly do understand there is a little passive agressive that goes with some and I have not been on here for a while and I have already taken them off. And I certainly know this as you have as well. Hello there to you over in Quebec.
Rashmi I was amazed with some of the "stuff" if you will and I am not dwelling on it but soon or later there is that certain group of a few people that are now blocked of that were not on my page that were well understood before I left writing, the "eye candy" is something that sooner or later does reveal it's self. So there is a some from a a few groups that most reside over in Europe for some reason they will just jump my block to join onto others. I am not doing this again.
ReplyDeleteBut the season is in what we make it and I find so many to be of great respect and when you do have that you have make a mention as such as everyone does have luggage to some extent but I don't look to play the indirect games or otherwise. I think you know what I mean and as well these writes were with regards to family matters that have been having me on the go from 5am till midnight at times and in coming back online to write - it really does amaze me at times. So I did say my say - probably a little angered more than anything but you just let them go and be done with it. If I was in grade school and I passed around notes like what seemingly takes place with a few I would have never graduated from either hich school nor the universities I attended. But I am glad I said this as there are some very decent people and it's not in where we are from it's in whom we independantly are.
Arielle, I have and I right now I am not much into pictures the last I took was back a few days ago. And although I may have deleted and banned some I myself have my own valid reasons. It's a time of peace and good will. And you know what I do mean as well I am sure.
ReplyDeleteNor do I and I am cleaned this up last night and then this morning before I logged of - did I make my own bed today? Yes, I did and then I got on with things. A negative within a personality will shine out in many forms or manners. I have had this go in within several and I will never mention names but group those that are off are off. Period.
ReplyDeleteAs far as the season I do wish to write with regards to areas and this probably is not the best time but it's my very own write. As it's is each and everyone of us within our own blogs and our writes.
Thank you much Kelly as I just logged on after finishing my laundry here. As well the same to you.
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