Wednesday, August 19, 2009

Life Time Friendships Part 2

I did have my reservations with this due to the fact that I have never placed a person’s picture on here. Of recent that is.  But he knew I would be doing this at the tail end of our one to one breakfast which lasted for a good two hours.  I would suppose everyone does.

It was nice to say the least - great time as we had.  I have nothing against his wife, it was just very nice for that one to one time.  I think you would know what I mean.  Ironically there are some things that are happening with his sister – boy it seems that everyone has something at some time.  But now and then you have to say why not.  Pat was late in our get morning meeting due to things that were going on.

However we talked and talked. The last thing on my mind was to take pictures it was not really even a consideration but there is more than just the image.

But that all said he is a tremendous pharmacist that goes back and forth to lecture along with maintain his own way of life.  Yes he is a best friend and we talked about many things and ironically how I was amazed with how much he had changed – yet I have changed as well, I am not the same person by way of image.  So many times we look at things by only the manner of the pictures.  He is always was a slighter guy - but always full of wit and a manner about him that is within his own way.  His manner of speaking and his ethics within his family are supreme if you ask me.

We had settled out some things that had needed to be done for some time, not between him and me just another fellow that we used to chum with.  Aside from all that we were able to talk about everything and thereafter he had to hit the highway after picking up his own family but the first thing I said to him was “you aged”, he is a sporty fellow and he said “so did you”.  Yet image is not everything it’s the manner that you carry yourself within life, in my opinion.  And yes we all do age but I guess we all do within different ways.

Pat was never that one to reach for the stars – but he dedicated himself to just a few things and nothing more.  Within all my friends that I have known I think he really is the wisest in many ways.  We have made some plans and I do look forward to it.  Pat is a very practical person.  Actually aside of his coaching with a youth team within hockey and medicine - I find the contrast that differs yet is appreciated from both of us is that we respect those differences.  I will say hit, man he certain became gray - not that there is anything wrong with it.  But it just seemed like yesterday and he still had much more hair.  It seems like just yesterday I had seen him yet we have always kept in touch.  We have always been like brothers yet the great thing about it is that we do have our own areas that we enjoy.

Who would have thought that two guys that never knew each other and were placed in the same residence dwelling would have kept as friend for all these years and still be able to laugh at some of the old jokes as well as talk on things that were of importance to both of us.

 

Life Time Friendships Part 1 > http://initiativestain.multiply.com/journal/item/666/Life_Time_Friendships

 

 

"But friendship is precious, not only in the shade, but in the sunshine of life; and thanks to a benevolent arrangement of things, the greater part of life is sunshine."
-Thomas Jefferson

28 comments:

  1. I'm glad you got some time to reconnect, he looks and sounds like a wonderful person

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  2. It was some time since and was most enjoyable to say the least.

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  3. Thanks Danni, he is married, he lives his life and in earlier years he was more of an intellectual follower in some ways, from knowing him while attending my first university to me he was "in". And ironically we have always kept in contact but I have not seen him within some time.
    Mutt and Jeff perhaps! Smiling...

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  4. wish that this friendship will lasting forever..you are so lucky,jack!

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  5. Terma Hashi Silvia...I think I wrote that correctly, yes it is and from last night I thought I would just write on it as I am reading several writes on a variety of things and the meaning of life is several things.

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  6. I enjoyed reading this Jack as I can relate on a very deep level. I have several friendships that have lasted my life time. I'm lucky there. Two in particular are extremely important to me. I cannot fathom my life without either of them. We can't choose our family, but we can choose our friends. Choosing wisely is the key.

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  7. So true as what I find is that when we were within our 20's we rendered friends, and then in our 30's we went to another level and within it all we I find Jacquie, that we come to be more wise as we some stay true and some go on. As for myself, with this particular friend, I probably have known him the longest. Business friends and associates are one thing and then there are those that there is something that is unique. Friends can be as my friend here Pat is like a brother to me as well as a few others. It's funny how things change and yet they don't in a good way.

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  8. Yep, true friendships are unique in that you don't have to stay in touch everyday, but even in meeting up every ten or twenty years it's still the same, no tap dancing required.

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  9. Byron indeed they are - certainly there is this thing called love, I am single but within time all good things do come. Friends are just there - the real ones aside of our bloggings. I can't place a finger on it but it's a bond that is beyond time and very unique. It's just there...if you know what I mean.

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  10. Nice that it all went well and he sounds like such a nice person-

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  11. Heidi a very simple person through all the stages of his life, he was not one that travelled that much like myself or some of us others but he is one very good friend and it was nice...
    He is married, was divorce remarried and has three children one that is from his wife's former marriage and two that they share. Yet it was nice for just the two friend to get together and just talk about everything nearly under the sky.

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  12. So nice that you got to reunite with your friend again talking about memories and enjoying the here and now as well . Special time!
    Have a good night,

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  13. It's getting to be that time and a good night to you Cheryl...the stars do shine...

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  14. We are only alloted a few friends that will go through life with us and stay in contact. It is sad that so many become acquaintances that drift off as we drift along our own roads and paths. I only have three that have been with me since schooldays. I seem to be getting closer to cousins and other relatives now though. I think I may have taken them for granted too much as they were always there at family get-togethers.

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  15. Karyn I lived most of my life as moving and moving but I was know my cousins but I was not raised with them however the friends over all this time have been the things that I find that have been tremendous. There is a saying that you move on yet I do love to retain the friends that I have made throughout the years, but it is true we all move on but this is where I find that there are some that you can call and within half a minute and after several years (without bragging) I get that
    "Is this you Jack". I am not kidding. I wrote about this one friend of mine but still to this day I can call NY, Newfoundland, Toronto, Florida, and a few other places and that coupled with snail mail are nice now and then. But this particular friend of mine is a very great bond.

    As we get age I believe that what we have done within the past speaks for itself. But this friend of mine did not live moving as much as I did, his get togethers are within a very small town called Drumheller and in many ways I think it's simple yet very nice when I visited there the town folk were all too nice.
    Leading me before I logg off here to say that there is something now that I do love about small towns. In a way they are very wholesome and then some.

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  16. We wouldn't live anywhere else. Big cities make me depressed and after 3 days I start to cry for the poor people who have to work there. Then I need valium to stay any longer.... :) joke

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  17. I have always lived in big cities and there is that side to me that does love the smaller ones. I think I will be making a trip back down there.
    Green Tea or Diet Pepsi is much better :)

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  18. It is a great thing. It's very distressing when friends that close pass.

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  19. Cal it is, and this was a grand day. I have to get to bed here as but the passages within life are that you are not alone.
    Good night from the neck of the woods!

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  20. Good night and have a pleasant tomorrow.

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  21. It is good to be able to spend time with our treasured friends.

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  22. Yes it was and here in the morning at 6:30am it's hard to believe but the sun is just arriving for the day!

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  23. New memories to cherish and times to look forward to!

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  24. It's a wonderful sight Jack... Not many men are able to keep friends as you have.. That's very special.. ((Hugs))

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  25. Arielle it's just there if you know what I mean and it's within the current past and future - friends as such.
    I know what you mean and thanks.

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  26. I think there are several actually Peeks, but the special ones are those that are unique - hugs back...

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