Unfortunately, I had a mishap with a friend of which I do deem of worth. I am not into that gossip areas where there are things which are undermined and as like most we all have choices as to what we read. I could come up with an excuse for what I write but what I write I enjoy to write. It's a variety. Perhaps my intention in making a comment on one persons blog was taken the wrong way.
I am not into that drama. I never was and I enjoy what I write as well as when I arrived home or pending the time that I am on I do enjoy it. This blog of mine is merely me. I enjoy writing things of which are of which I write. Everyone as well does the very same. So within my own defence before this is taken the wrong way by some. I write that of what I enjoy.
I don't have great expectations but I do enjoy the feedback that comes but as the last week has went I have truly been busy. So I hope those of you whom wish to know I don't negate people yet those whom I deem as friends I will make a mention but as I arrived home I found that something was taken the wrong way. There after within the persons blog which was addressed to me - it came to being address to many not something sent to me. I think there is a difference there but the negatives are not something of which I pay too much attention too as this is a platform of which is of many things I find.
Of recent I have not had as much time on here to write as much as I would like too but in arriving home the one thing I have learned is that one writes for themselves. There is no need to go any further as the manner that I have always seen it is there are an array of people and what you do and how you blog is that of your very own.
Yet the merits of writing are based on what one wishes to write about as this is a platform to be enjoy by way of expression, thoughts, and so many other things. So in very plain words I enjoy this. And I enjoy those of which I do respect and in many ways for myself it's a reflection of life and what goes on within life. My previous blogs were that of the jazz festival which has been going on here, there after coupled with a few tweets which I like to see as a quotation which leads into a write.
With all that said, as Robert Frost once said, "In Three Words I can sum up everything I've learned about life. It goes on".
I hope that places matters to Rest
Jazz fest? How cool!!! Any pics?? Fun :) I enjoy your writings. Have a peaceful eve :)
ReplyDeleteCinn it's been a full day and you remember when I used to get right within lyrics and sometimes it's there and sometime not.
ReplyDeleteBut within the arrays as you I have had a fine day and just finished supper here.
It's a pleasure.
ReplyDelete:)
ReplyDeleteAnd it's an array Grammy as we all share our encounters and thoughts.
ReplyDeleteYep..
ReplyDeleteI take things the wrong way sometimes. I usually get over it quickly and eventually forget what ever happened. Human emotions are complex and often unreasonable. We have to give each other a little slack for error, whether we are the one who offends or the one who is offended.
ReplyDeleteI have to write everything or it will implode. I have too much stress to carry around inside of me. One day, I hope there will be more happy thought than sad ones.
I do yet this came as a surprise as I never would think that a person would write to everyone rather that send a message as it was a misunderstanding.
ReplyDeleteBut it's funny how some can take this all too serious. I do enjoy the friends which I have. Some are so quick to pass judgment yet the intention was not inclinded to place the man down yet he rendered a good lot of people. Of which I don't know, nor have. I promised myself a long time ago that I would not pass judgment and that still stands.
ReplyDeletehttp://mickeyfez.multiply.com/journal/item/1219/this_ones_for_Jack_but_open_to_all_comers
(I don't know most all the people but nor do I need to defend myself).
I hope all is well otherwise. Have a wonderful Thursday!
ReplyDeleteWhen one writes and sends a message to another then there is dialogue. When one writes and sends it out into all of Multiply that is much much different.
ReplyDeleteI never read so many blogs about me from people I don't know. And how does one
know another for that matter in a negative way. I hope friends of which I have on here remain so. I am not a politician.
Jack, Being relatively new to your blog myself I read this and mickeyfez's post with interest. To me I read two people who have the same views about blogging but have had a disagreement over what one meant when he used the word 'original'.
ReplyDeleteIt is obvious to me that English is not your first language and yet you've challenged yourself to write in English, which is admirable. I think you probably use an online translation tool to convert writing from your 'first' language into English. Sometimes the translation confuses what you meant. In the few weeks we have been contacts I have found some of what you've written difficult to understand, but I've enjoyed the challenge of using my knowledge of English to read your meaning from your written words.
What is clear to me is that there is no malice in what you write, and that helps me in understanding what you've written.
I understand what you are saying. Drama is bad when it turns personal. There are so many "flame wars" going on, and I choose to stay out of them. I write about life. I promote my friends when they merit it. I promote Newsworthy events. Sometimes I become so impassioned about something that I've read or heard on the news, that I just have to get it out. I find that blogging is the best place for that. I do write controversial blogs sometimes. But, I don't expect everyone to agree with me. And it's ok if you write that you don't agree with me and why you don't. Everyone is entitled to thier own opinions. Heaven knows I have plenty of opinions. But there is an art to deciding whether my opinion is worth inflaming anger in others. If they are angry with me, as in on my side, great. If they are angry at me, that's a different story. So when I have an idea for a blog, I weigh the pros and cons of writing it. I won't write what incites anger at me or anyone on my contact list. I accidentally did that a few weeks ago, and I may have lost a friend over it. I hope not. I need to contact him and find out where we are.
ReplyDeleteGood blog, Jack. I'm glad I took the time to read it.
try not to worry, things here get missunderstood lots..
ReplyDeletei get missunderstood too...
but my friend is a nice guy,
he will realize you meant no harm ..
The title did it for me.....:)
ReplyDeleteyes ..in most things,in Life..its best to be Philosophical..:)[hugs]]
ReplyDeleteAgain I don't understand. On my part, i just write what comes to mind. And i only have very few friends ... and whatever being wrote there as a friends gesture i can't stop. If there's any in them that made you feel uncomfortable please let me now. Anyways am going to take a read again. And if there's in need of me to delete myself am going to do it.
ReplyDeleteYou don't have to depend yourself. Many thanks ... I do really mean it. It was such a blessing to know you here. Blessings and tight hugs.
This all worked out very well and onwards we go. Things have all worked out. I have never seen it where something like this has worked out. I am certainly pleased and I look forward to moving on thanks everyone as this serves as a example of how things can be worked out when there is dialogue.
ReplyDeleteI just arrived home after jogging and I have an appointment and review. So it is what it can be.