Think of the people you know who give love in response to negative energy that’s directed their way. There aren’t many people who respond lovingly in that situation. The ones who do are able to because they have love to give away. They know that it’s impossible to give away what they don’t have, and they’ve gone that extra mile to acquire what it is that they want to both attract and give away. If love and joy are what you want to give and receive, then begin by taking stock. What have you got to give away? What are you giving out to the universe, and thus, what are you attracting? Remember that you can’t give away what you don’t have, but you can change your life by changing what’s going on inside.
Low energy attracts low energy. Low energy thoughts, such as anger, hate, shame, guilt, and fear, weaken you. And they attract more of the same. By changing your inner thoughts to the higher frequencies of love, harmony, kindness, peace, and joy, you’ll attract more of the same, and you’ll have those higher energies to give away.
To begin to change what’s inside you, become more loving toward yourself. In your thoughts, cultivate an inner voice and attitude that’s 100 percent on your team. Imagine an inner self that only supports and loves you. You might schedule a certain time of day when that’s the only thought that you allow yourself to pay attention to. Gradually this loving attitude will extend to other people. You’ll begin to receive this energy back and ultimately be able to send thoughts of love and joy to everyone and everything in your world.
Make a pact to remind yourself often of this secret of not being able to give away anything that you don’t have. Then work on your personal program of self-love, self-respect, and self-empowerment, and create a huge inventory of what you wish to give away. If what you give is self-respect and self-love, the universe will return the love and respect you’ve been radiating. It’s really so simple.
I myself made it over to a new friend ladies place and I think that within love of friendship or otherwise it's gonna take just a little time. For if I am wrong, there are other fish out there in the sea. But she does have a swell kind of hold on me. Ye it's all within that good old possibilities. And if not so be it, but I kinda think after a visit was a traditional thing and I certainly can abide by that.
As the Beatles said: “The love you take is equal to the love you make.”
Very astute....thanks for providing input from your prospective.
ReplyDeleteinteresting post , and true
ReplyDeleteI am so in to the Law of Attraction. Works wonders on getting parking space! ;-)
ReplyDeleteJust imagine yourself in her arms...
Tee I did have several things that I worked up to today and then thereafter my cell went on the blink so I went and made my kind of visit. While she was arranging to take her son to the doctor. That I can accept and I don't feel down as there are many more days to come - within all manners not just within love or within relationships but I am as you know a traditional kind of person and I think she is as well - not entirely yet we are just getting to know each other.
ReplyDeleteFalls under you must love yourself to allow others to love you. and you to fully love others.
ReplyDeleteHer hair and her eyes and the way she carries herself....she is not some model, but she is truly warm.
ReplyDeleteI think that we both are kind of thinking right now and so be it. Life goes on :)
Eh, I know folks, myself to be included who've been to and through hell and back. Those who know the absolute truth, of a place, an existence and life without love, at the same time learn even the smallest-tiniest attempt at to love, or be loved is ALL there is. I've heard about this Law of Attraction, stuff. I don't reckon, I know a lot about it's operation? Those few times; I've known the power of love, I didn' and wasn't doing anything to draw it, or attract it to myself. I didn't think, any way. I think of Love and it's wonders as a surprise, a magnificent gift. And for me, it's grandeur exists in it's not ever ceasing to amaze, and surprise me pleasantly.
ReplyDeletePam it really does. I had two meetings that were well planned before this but after I was all finished my cell batteries went
ReplyDeleteand I just dropped over with not many but one particular flower with a note and it happens or it doesn't. As from being divorced
once and then meeting someone and seeking to another place to find that there was really not anything between the
two of us. I just feel good with all that I have done today which includes this particular new friend of mine. As self really does
come first and I did give this much thought before doing anything with it. If it's meant to be - good. If not there are other fish.
But this fishy here stays true to his self. As do you, that is not without a need to say. So there and hugs to you within the
idea of individual love as that is what does come first - as you certainly know there Pam. It's the key of life.
I do feel exactly that way. I leave options open, but I don't jump into things. But there is a time when there is that mutuality that is realized yet it does take time not just a few weeks. Thanks for your comment there M. As that really does summarize it. And some will write and say how things are great. What was great was within three things and to give something to someone was indeed nice. It take two to make it and it takes two to break it - but I am was never looking for love. And when something comes along you tend to think before you act and it's all well.
ReplyDeleteA tight warmth hugs goes your way Jack.
ReplyDeleteA blank note is a blank note. As white is white ...
~maritess*
I am happy to be single, if there should come a time where that changes so be it.
ReplyDeleteI have met a few online and within my life over this last year and what I truly have
learned is YOU CAN LOVE without the need to be together as there are many forms
of love.....so it is and so it shall be, not in accord to me but in accord to each and every ones
goals....yet love is ?
... when your willing to share each other's aspirations. And go your way, even in the smallest, simplest things ... and be with that person, no matter what the world sees it. That is love.
ReplyDeleteAs that is what this is all about really....
ReplyDeletei try to remember that i cannot change anyone else, i can only makes changes in and for myself. Generally, if you can accept yourself, you are able to accept others more readily, the same goes for love i believe.
ReplyDeleteTrue jack...and it's best to start as friends,,,,well said
ReplyDeleteYeah some jump right into things and really Julie it does come down to friends even
ReplyDeleteif things go further...who knows but I think that's the way it goes.
When we were young we never pre assumed anything we just did what ever but now I think that everyone has a some sort of something and
ReplyDeleteone is best to be themselves Linda rather than trying to push something to happen - it never has nor will be my way. But this is a decent friend
and friends we are and who knows as this is that area where the heart and the mind get sort of topsy turvie and then you do come to realize and
center on self first and that which comes thereafter....
I like this blog - good reading.
ReplyDeleteThanks Susan just got back in and it's wet out there tonight...
ReplyDeletevery good points you made here Jack and all ring true. :)
ReplyDeleteGood Beatles quote. Give it time...you never know!
ReplyDeleteJack ... i know what you meant.
ReplyDeleteThere are so many fishes in the oceans, true. But there's only one fish that makes and spell the difference ...
and to that silly fish with a kindered heart ... stay true :)
a good morning from here to brighten up your day.
lol.. good..
ReplyDeleteits all give and take ..love will be there ...when youre ready :)
ReplyDeleteThat's true about negative attracting low energy . Then there's a choice to make to keep thinking in the light . Sometimes where I've worked there's been so much gloom and gossip of whoever isn't there it's just really hard to overcome that and quietly think of good things..but it is possible.
ReplyDeleteNice blog and you're doing fine :)
It seemed to be possible Cheryle and - I did like it just like that.
ReplyDeleteCaroline, I just arrived on here and I ponder on how many were celebrating within there
ReplyDeleteown way that special day as it was all within love - but real love and companionship as
you know takes that give and take. Which comes to be so much more and so much of
the less.
Melanie I know, but you have heard that song of "Got to get you into my life".
ReplyDeleteYet when they wrote it they were just young and within there 20s...
Go figure..:)
Ring Suzy? My it's been a long time since I went and bought a ring in fact
ReplyDeletewhen I was first married we just bonded with a very simplistic ring. Yet that was
then and this is now.