A friend is someone who has your best interests in mind, in case you didn’t know. Be sure that they really do have your best interests in mind. If they are better off than you and still choose to hang with you, that’s always good sign. In other words, seek out the friend that chooses you even though they could choose someone else.
They don’t have to be an old friend. In fact, if they are a new friend, it’s even better.
Here is the point. Your friends see you differently than you see yourself. They really don’t know you but there is this think in which we call respect and of value. New friends, especially, wear different glasses. New glasses. They’re not all stretched out or scratched up, and the prescription is still just right.
So before you start thinking about yourself negatively, borrow your friend’s glasses. Really hear the encouraging words and let them sink in. Claim them. And then thank God for another day. I thought that this was a good write from a friend as during writing over the weekend just when you are offline. I was taken out of this group that I belong to and I forget what the message said but it was a very intelligent one that was basically just looking to blemish me – yet really when it comes down to this – this is for enjoyment and expression. Hopefully the postures back and forth now do come to end as this was an area that in no manner do I have any hate within the friends that I have but at the same time it’s rather unfortunate that things happen this way. I borrowed this write from a friend that when I read it and was silent with the whole ordeal, I thought to myself that there shall be friends on here that leave off and if they do so be it as I my intention was not for the devalue, rather the value within all of this.
I look towards the good things within all of this it’s just as easy as that. So for those of you that are a member of a group that are a friend of mine I hope that there still is that reciprocating effect. I am not on here for the games that people do play, and never shall be I enjoy this and I do have to thank a friend from Singapore whom knows who she is, as her writing was one that literally did catch my eye yesterday.
So it's been a decent day and just like you I am wishing to just write and do what I always enjoy doing. For those that wish to play games please leave my blog out of the cycle.
Onwards I go.....
ReplyDeleteawesome..!!!! ;)
And thank you! Forwards I go with my writes and reads, I think this writing truly had great substance but I am not one to rock the boat, I like to flow with the water in a manner of saying :)
ReplyDelete...~smile~ ..... and on we go!!
ReplyDelete~ Definately ~ I have never seen anything of the likes of it but c'est la vie...
ReplyDeleteShe never stops...
ReplyDelete"Prior to today you were not removed from Picture Perfect Jack by any of the admins, yet you ocontinue to believe you were, so lets make it official, as of now..you are no longer welcome there.
I have been polite and patient with you and your ridiculous arguments and your almost incomprehensible writing for way too long now, but you play a two faced game, you suck up to us on PP on our page, and align yourselves with people who clearly hate us on your own page. You say one nice thing and then allude to us in derogatory ways. You are a drama queen of note and I have NO more time for it!
You do not 'flow with the water..' infact you do the very opposite. You have surrounded yourselves with very malicious folk Jack and you stir them up with what you think is 'discussion' but what it really is just trashing others, I hardly recognize the kind sweet man I met here a few short months ago.
Oh, and please tell Lynne that visiting Kennedy's site many times every day in stealth mode, is picked up by his stat counter and I must say causes us some amusement. She blocked both of us and PP and then continues to haunt our pages daily..sick if you ask me. Why would anyone do that do you think? We thought she had moved on..but one can never tell I guess.
I wish you well, I hope you find out who the decent folk are online and surround yourself with them rather than the vile malicious half wits you have now...they will turn on you too eventually."
Heather
Heather your full of it dear and I shall say that on my own blog.
ReplyDeleteI write and have my own friends on here and what I choose in doing within a good manner is not based on a consortium of a group as Heather - I never miss much but there are better things from which to write. So I have no problem in blocking here and I will say that those including Lynne and all other are friends that I have had and eventually one does apparently illustrated what they are mean while for me, I enjoy the friends I have and this is we are not kids, so I wish to just carry one. If I would have passed notes around like this one, I would have never got past grade school.
ReplyDeleteWe have our own very right to choices in what we write and I don't disrupt anything - nor need to defend myself on a social network.
Very well said Jack. If one is no longer happy with the kind of crowd he/or she belongs ... we are all free dis-associates ourselves. As simple as that. No prolonged talks ... yep, you don't have to always depend yourself. Let's all be matured enough, from a distance i/we could see a true blue group that really act as a group, and not a crowd of rumour mongering ... a based were gossiping is being sensationalized. :)
ReplyDeleteIt's a beautiful Monday morning here, Jack ... good morning' ... tight hugs :)
I write in accord to what I feel is within my own way, I have recieved invites and then as well I have invited friends as I will look at there page and look to see if there is a good will within it. There is that old saying of "the people pleaser". I don't look to please everyone, I literally enjoy to write within my own manner. Some shall twist things in order to save there own behind. But I just enjoy and have enjoyed much before this group writing. I believe that ever person does have that good intention. It's all within the writes and it's not stopping what I do on here in no manner. I have blocked this group which is run by Heather as as well, I have blocked the group itself for years I did my own pictures without the need. I am not one to have some infighting going on and as far as I am concerned I do have some very decent folk on my blog. Gossip, it's a very funny thing and again I wish to carry on within my own writes amongst the friends I have. So onwards we go. I enjoy this for what it's worth and for the thought and ideas of others as well when I am on here. Am I a two faced, not at all - nor need I defend myself....
ReplyDeleteWhen a group owner keeps harrassing you or not emailing you with some manner to create understanding then there is something tremendously wrong if you ask me. However, one has to make that choice of either to block a group or not and I have blocked the group called Picture Perfect. I am not one to gossip but I would rather place out the fire before it keeps on going. And I know I am not the only one that has done this. Yet I don't gossip but I will make mention when the time is right...no one wishes to have those that have an ill intention happening every now and then by way of sending out other members to see what your all about.
I am just me and that is the end of story with the owner and group (not friends that are within there) on what is known as Picture Perfect.
A negative plus a negative never equates to a positive. So for myself it's a good day for just enjoying things. If those do wish to take me off for unfounded reasons - it's your choice as this has been a revolving thing for the past two weeks now. Yet I enjoy the array of friends I do have. Enough said with this.
Good morning :)
ReplyDeleteI just thought to say Good afternoon, It is cool here a lazy Sunday for sure. Wishing you well as always
ReplyDeleteAnd the very same to you Deb....I have been trying to type within espanol to one site and it's very hard to do...
ReplyDeleteDoesn't sound too mature to me....Don't understand....she doesn't like what is said then why does she keep coming around?....She's so full of herself she thinks she is important enough to be hated....I hate no one.....I wish her well...but well away from me....HO Hum she's boring and not fun soooooo she's off my team....Go back to sharing with my friends and having fun!......You put it so well Jack.....C'est la vie
ReplyDeleteGeo, the way I see is that just do there own thing and I just now finished with this as sharing is fun, I never met her in person and I think it's far better in just being oneself, so this puts this situation to an end. I am not going to continue with it but this certainly didnt get much attention and the reason for that is that there silence is golden, and you shrug it off and carry on with things. She certainly does not know me, and who really is one to judge anyone especially other people as there are two other names on here besides my own.
ReplyDeleteSo the one the points the finger has three fingers that in the case are not just pointing at themselves. However there are clans and so on and I just enjoy doing things within my own manner on my blog. Mind you for the life of me I have been trying to understand some writing within spanish from two friends and oh this is not easy...but so be it...
I am not perfect, I am just me. That's basically where this stands and shall..
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ReplyDeleteI choose my friends & contacts and am perfectly happy sharing with them....Tis probably why I am soooo into photography....keeps me going out and seeking beauty.....keeps me from dwelling on negative unhealthy communications & thoughts....Beauty & love surrounds us all everyday we just have to open our eyes to see it, open our hearts to feel it and open our thoughts to embrace it......the rest is moot.
ReplyDeleteThere are commonalities we share Geo...
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ReplyDeleteAfter reading through this, with some degree of difficulty as most of what you say is unintelligible and makes not a lick of sense, I have gathered that you have removed yourself from Picture Perfect and blocked them.
As I am a member of the group a friend of Heather's and many other members of Picture Perfect, I wish to decline your invitation to join your contact list. I want no part of this negativity and nastiness which you seem to encourage.
I am not sure talking about people behind their backs this way is a very mature way to behave either.
You will not find a finer group on Multiply with the nicest members and Administrators then Picture Perfect..
Sue
Sue you are a member of Picture Perfect......yes.
ReplyDeleteYes I am Jack
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