So often there are times in which the there are messages that we will interpret within many ways. I myself still do believe that a handshake and stating my name seemingly may be something that has come to be old school but it certainly goes a long way. Meanwhile while writing within a blog a hand shake or true good will is something that is much more difficult and you really have to back it up with honesty. And then there is that nonchalant “hello” or “hi how are you” it does seem to still be prevalent even within these times. For myself, I accept things that are without too many conditions. I take full responsibility for my life in what it is and what it is not. I understand the conditions and importance of harmony within my thoughts, and behavior, which really translates to peace and contentment. We all have certain ideals and we really don’t place much thought within them. What I find is that in doing what one does, it’s something that is with good judgment, honesty, and what I find is when is honest with themselves and they are working at there best they come to a richness within this world and in some way shape and form we do radiate our very own world.
Today I cancelled a good portion of my day as I went to go take my father for a small walk. However by the time I arrived there he was adamant that it was much too early and that he would do something else. I left and I shook his hand then left while grabbing a sandwich that was sitting on the counter, of course I wouldn’t have done it if there was just only one. So while walking to my car I was figuring out what to do, take into consideration it’s went from hot to a rather cool day much like an early spring. So it wasn’t exactly that kind of a day that one could just take in the sun but when you realize what is around the corner, I need not say much more. So I decided on a whim to go to this old friend of mine, named John. I went to his recording studio as I thought this would be fun however upon arriving there the place was closed. I would guess that John must now have a tremendous base of musicians that come in or are booked from now right through till the new year. I even tried to call him by my cellular as I wished to go in and see how much has changed as I have not been back to the studio for the longest time. However there is nothing like getting those messages that say press 1 to leave a message, press 2 if you wish to speak with someone else and then by that time I just cancelled the call and said what’s next?
I drove slightly out of town to the arena here. By this time that inner ear was speaking to me and it was saying, “you should have….” Well you know what I mean.
While I was sitting down and talking to the administrator at the “Credit Union Centre”, we struck up a conversation on how the city never did plan for this boom that is going on as literally every main street throughout the city is just now going through expansions as there is just too much traffic and regardless of the hour it’s always busy. I hope this city never becomes shallow, as there is that tendency within some very large cities. A rather simple Friday yet there very unplanned yet there was enjoyment within it.
I am glad to read that your unplanned kind of day brought happiness to you....
ReplyDeleteI had the same kind of enjoyment from an errand. Actually two errands. I placed myself in a queue for a service, then went to a food store nearby. While there, some folks got in to a friendly conversation and teasing. The man had left his wallet at home and the woman accompanying him had to pay. I made a comment as I was leaving, and we had a laughing exchange about how he isn't able to pull off that excuse very often. Then I returned to the queue and 6 of us fell into conversation ranging from life in the US Navy, to the culture and society of Scandinavia, to the peculiarities of training and licensing of medical support staff.
ReplyDeleteI'd never met any of these people and likely will never see any of them again, but we all brightened each other's days. We aren't a big city but are a part of a metropolitan area. I think we each carry this with us, even when we do live in a big city. Life without such bright spots would be grim indeed, and I feel sorry for the people who can't find such moments.
I have had days like the one you describe here...One thing after another steering you on an unexpected voyage and a simple day as plans unwound.
ReplyDeleteI wish to remark at your complete lack of consternation as to the eventful turns in your day. Some might have been perturbed at the least for setting the day for your father..and him not wanting to go... missing your friend, and the phone monster controlling everything.
Yes, I would venture to say , many would call the day a disappointment, frustrating, irritating, ...any number of attitudes . You have a graceful way of delivering the days simple events , the twists and turns...and eventual final statement..."yet there was enjoyment within it."
Lovely.
By being at peace with our own self is the beginning of harmony ... it will gradually falls down from the very people we are sorrounded by and on to the things that in return makes us happy and contented.
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Tess, I enjoyed it and just placed on a few more programs here ufff, I don't enjoy this part!
ReplyDeleteThe day was a very good one all in all although there was nothing planned it was rather just a free flow.
Joanne, I kid you not there it's all too interesting with the people that you meet. Running into people and just striking up a conversation it's great. In many ways I often find that there are more interesting things that I find within just the simple things. Some people are very shy and what I find is that now and then they come across as prude however when you say one word with some it, there maybe something on there mind or who knows but then all of a sudden they switch from looking grim and actually you can see that sparkle or smile. So there is always an array but most often I have found some of the most interesting people just within coincidence. In this case it was within an unplanned day. Moments as such are really what makes life one of worth. Mind you now and then I have had a large person that has just looked at me and hasn't said a thing. But so be it. Too each their own.
ReplyDeleteThe funny things, oh not going to go there right now but I know what you mean with regards to those moments for whatever reason that you hit it off and then just burst out laughing...:)
Well I went from one thing to another and it all in all ended up a easy going day one that still within this city people are rather pleasant. What I have found is this city has always maintained a very multi cultural foundation this is very significant to me as I really enjoy it and I didn't get into the this arena where I have before but then here a conversation started and before you know it half an hour has gone by. So often I find that there always something significant but I am not one to approach every person as a real extrovert, I .........well I will say it, my father was much the same and still is with people to this day. It's ironic as my brother tries too hard to talk and talk, and I listen and when you see someone you just know in a way. So all in all it was not like going to Disneyland, but it certainly way a simple yet enjoyable day. John is this friend of mine that I have know for years and I have not seen him in 6 months and that would have been a hoot! But there is always another day.
ReplyDeleteI am content, I can describe how content I feel I have some offers within my area of work there is no rush and the one thing is in taking advantage of time especially before .............it.............is.......win. I CAN'T SAY THE WORD :)
ReplyDeleteOK push Jack, Winter! :)
Those are the best kind of days...tonight has been like that for me..it feels good to have nothing planned and doing whatever comes to mind,!
ReplyDeleteWell, I just got back here and went outside and looked to see what is on and how time flys when your having fun, Jules. Evenings are just simple it's rather hard to describe but right now there are lights on across the street and people are doing this, watching television, reading a book - just enjoying the moment for what it's worth. Yeah..
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ReplyDeleteahhhhh.. winter! funny, the word doesn't create the same dread living in arizona, as it did living in chicago. and there is no shifting of wardrobes... just remembering where i put the sweaters. oh.. and shoes.. less flip-flops, more shoes.
ReplyDeleteahhhhhh...winter *smiles longingly*
Well here it went from nearly 90F yesterday to 70F at best, either we will have an Indian Summer but usually it doesnt sn.......(can't do it) until the last week in October. However, I have never lived in a climate where it's like yours. I have lived in the states but not within the areas that have climates as yours. Flip flops we call Thongs but I would never do wear them within December, January...no way! You have it made there. As far as with the weather and climate.
ReplyDeleteI literally despise win....ter and ...........ok stretch Jack,
and.......uff
SNOW...ouch that hurts :)
my last winter in chicago the first snow came mid-october. i SO get it! we have thongs here too.. but they are butt floss panties lol
ReplyDelete"have it made"... yeah, last week it was 116..
lol......oh that is hot! Well to bed I go, I left a great movie that I rented the other night...Chicago is a great city, I have never lived there but I stayed over night there. Small world it is.
ReplyDeleteits funny how...an unplanned day ,can turn out to be interesting ..btw.I agree with joanne..I love the conversations that you get into..in the post office ..or queue s anywhere[except . maybe not at an airport ! people seem stressed there!]
ReplyDeleteCaroline, I kid you not while as you know I made a change within occupations from many years running shopping centers to then working within Airports and there were great times to be had but that was all within the people that one worked along with. There is nothing great about war, but there is nothing like some of the people I met. But today it's cool, yet sunny and a nice saturday. The last one within August!
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