What have you learned within that last month?
Don’t think slowly usually the real answers come out rather quickly.
Each and every one of us has learned something or has something that they have learned and gained from. No matter where we are from.
We all write in our own manner I respect many of you. I think that is fair to say at this point and for myself, I have learned that life is a balance of sorts and within my life, I am merely human and the capacity of what CAN BE, is only up to me. Sure I wish to remarry, but all things come in good time. I have many women on here that I can relate too, as well I have friends of recent that I never imagined would really come to be the friends as they are. What have I learned? Is that within the writes there is some value and meaning as well as trust.
Some will posture, but some that is my slant on things right now as I know where I am centered with. Each and every day I do.
So if I may, within those that wish to share in there own way. What have you learned in the past month? We all learn constantly even when we don't even realize it as we are in the process of processing...
I've learned how strong/weak I am...
ReplyDeleteCinn, I am going to just leave this and let it flow. Some will and some won't. But I hope that those that have that small amount of time do partake with the question. And then I hope to bring something about from it.
ReplyDeletehugs, babe
ReplyDeleteThis was very good. I think you just read what I've learned in the past month.
ReplyDeleteWhich was? What I mean Cal, is that we all in some manner have learned something. We really people whom have our own thoughts all entangled within writes.
ReplyDeleteSo you have not learned from me. You have learned and processed something in your own manner.
What have I learned this last month? LMAO! Sorry, I only laugh because I have learned a lot and frankly, too much to type! But here are a key few off of the top of my head....wine effect included...sorry!
ReplyDelete1. Change is never easy when it is worth it.
2.Everyone has their limits.
3.I have a lot to offer, in writing, and in person.
4.Never let others issues, insecurities, or lack of knowledge cap your potential and your results.
5.No matter what you think your limits are, you can always do and be more! Call it growth.
6.The dog will ALWAYS poop in the house in the most inconvenient place no matter how many times you walk them in a day. (sorry, I digress…)
7.The fact that one voice can make a big difference.
8.All it takes is one person to not be afraid to speak up in any given situation to make a difference.
9.Sometimes, the best thing you can do is slow down and breathe.
10.It’s okay to say “No.”
11.Laundry still sucks, no matter how good your intentions are.
12.It’s easier to give love than to expect to be loved.
13.It’s more rewarding to love the unlovable than it is to receive the love that you think you deserve.
14.My boss is a nut. (Did I type that out loud????) Shhhh.
15.Laughter is more valuable than most things in a tight situation.
16.The world is much bigger than I have the time to realize on a daily basis.
17.I MUST make the time to enter into that wet T-Shirt contest in Cancun Mexico before the girls go any further South. :giggle: (yes, this is one of my life goals….judge me if you will)
18.My 3 year old son gets and understands more than I have the time to pay attention to daily. He has taught me very valuable lessons on how to appreciate the simplicities in life.
19.Life and health is not to be taken for granted.
20.To maintain life and health, I must do more than just DUST the treadmill in my living room.
21. Those who deserve love the least, need it the most.
Well, that’s this month. Frankly, I have learned even more, but I don’t want to bore your following!
JustJenna
to love the unlovable is to deem the statistic as a possible success.
ReplyDeleteto hush, listen, process, respond.. truly.. in the work place.. and it has been a good experience.. and hugging you for this terrific question
ReplyDeleteWell we are always learning ( we hope were learning the right things) Looks like you found inspiration just in things you were feeling and learning and made this post.
ReplyDeleteWhat have I learn this month? Hmmm you said to not think slowly and I am sure I could write a number of things learned in one month but what first comes to my mind.......
Well I was at an Art show recently and I got to thinking how when we admire the Design we often Learn something about the Designer.
And I think that made me observe more of the things around me lately. Doesn't it make you wonder- If we see ourselves as the product of design, for what were we designed?
Interesting post now I wonder what your questioning and what the designer of this post is thinking about.
Just learned and had a reminder too--that I should use spell check more so I don't have to edit for my poor typing
ReplyDeleteTake care
I have to agree with sexy8sadie as well. totally wise comment.
ReplyDeleteI learned that I much prefer my little cottage on the river to a mansion on the Pacific Ocean. But I also learned that it is fun to walk the beaches and come home with different muscles hurting than when we walk at home.
ReplyDeleteI've learned I don't want to marry you, Jack.
ReplyDeleteand I don't think as clearly as I thought I could.
ReplyDeleteI've learned to keep quiet when I don't know something, better than trying to fake it :-).
ReplyDeleteI have learned just how impatient I can be. I have sat down and talked to myself, making sure that I go slowly when it comes to making important decisions, be willing to wait for things I want, and be a little more gentle with myself. I am my biggest critic, and sometimes I think I am too hard on me! I have also learned that when trust has been broken, it is going to be a long hard road to be able to trust soemone you love againl.
ReplyDeleteHmmm, the main things I can think of at the moment I am not sure I can confine to just one month. It's more still in the process of learning that began quite a while back and is still ongoing.
ReplyDeleteHere's the list anyway.
1. Am learning it's just not possible to reason with unreasonable people, no matter how hard you are willing to try.
2. Am learning cold, silent wars are very possibly the most vicious and damaging of all.
3. Am learning optimism is quite possibly more downfall than uplift.
4. Am learning my shoulders aren't nearly as broad as I once believed and trusted them to be.
Will try to revisit this one later,if I think of some more positive lessons I've picked up.
Buying a good Digital SLR and getting what you want from it in a professional way is time very consuming.
ReplyDeleteYes the information is there but not together in one place for the single photographic need.
It is a computer with in depth files by their hundreds fitted with a lens.
Currently collating the information and have reached 20 Meg with more to go.
I am learning that the mere desire for someone to be different or to change their way of thinking is to deny them of their own experience within creation. To totally accept them as they are and to love them as they are is what love is really all about.
ReplyDeleteWelcome, I am going to leave this go and my this is a tremendous thing to have learned.
ReplyDeleteI am going to leave this going Jenna...it's not boring.....I feel the more that we share the more that we come to learn and gain from each other...
ReplyDeleteThanks Jen, but keep it coming as I know you have another at the days end....this is going towards something in a manner that is going to be interesting....
ReplyDeleteOne more after 24 hours if I may ask of you....
An area that I will explain after to each one of Had.
ReplyDeleteAre we a product of design...interesting thought....
Karyn how we have something in common but leaving that aside, you have come to some conclusion within things. Maybe simplicity is better than just all the commodities at a younger age we thought were so imporant eh?
ReplyDeleteByron, I have learned that I do wish to when the time is right, but is there ever the right time?
ReplyDeleteRealizing that perfection is something that you seek? While it's not necessary?
ReplyDeleteAmen to that...
ReplyDeleteTrust is something that is probably one of the most important things within life. It's that manner the we have our own gardens and when we allow the door to be open and allow another one in, we find that we have illustrated our fragility yet within the world we have to take risks. The road will or won't depending on choice, but your human. Love - now there is the largest contemplated question since the dawn of mankind.
ReplyDeleteOk Norma, by all means you can come back and post another one after you have kept this question that I have asked in your subconscious throughout the day. If only a small seed is planted - there is something that commences the process.
ReplyDeleteBill that is static material thought sir. I was looking at something in a human manner that you may have come to learn.
ReplyDeleteThat is enriching Jerene. All too often people want others to be exactly the same. If we were it would be a rather world without spirit and without hopes. As well, it would be a place without the exchange between one or two people that makes it so significant. I would rather speak to someone that is there own self, as if not and they were changed, I would merely be setting myself up for the loss of the differences that can be embraced.
ReplyDeleteThank you to all and I am going to lave this on and maybe some will come back to it. It's time to leave here but I have learned that I am not the man I was five years ago. I am the person that is whom I am today. I understand that everything that takes places does not have a reason rather it has a source from which it all takes place within life.
ReplyDeletePurpose is something that I am not so droven with, rather now I am driven by flowing with doing things and not placing all the eggs into one basket.
I learned yesteday that to enable a confidant in my life, allowed something to take place in a very good way. Hence, purpose sometimes just finds you. Success is not measured in how high you climb but how rich you are and comfortable within your own way. Yeah...
"All it takes is one person to not be afraid to speak up in any given situation to make a difference."
ReplyDeleteI learned that real "down time" of more than a few hours or days makes a huge difference in who I am and how I see things.
ReplyDeleteThat I am truly well liked by those who genuinely know me, and that I am trusted.
ReplyDeletethat I want more, always more, out of life, even when it feels full :D
ReplyDeleteyes, I'm from the "me" generation :D
initiativestain
ReplyDeleteToo old and too cynical.
We can relate...
ReplyDeleteNorma I am just keen on getting things done in the morning and thereafter I am slowly more perspective within the evening....down time, is that time that we all do in our own way.
ReplyDeleteIt's a relinquishing thing I believe.
Naw say's I...
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ReplyDeleteIf you gained more....what is Cinn what is your goal in the future and then visualize it and know that it all does not take place all in a day.
ReplyDeleteWe live in a society whereby we often feel the need to be immediate. Perhaps immediate stifles one, perhaps not looking at comparably is something.
I am attempting to control my impulses....I tend to act out impulsively....it's getting there
ReplyDeleteRelax...it's 5pm your time I think and just let the vibations move slower...
ReplyDelete4pm, but yeah...I am...my impulses are shopping and food...:D
ReplyDeleteI learned that there is always a way to do what must be done. I learn and relearn this on a daily basis, however.
ReplyDeletePerhaps each day we always have changes - meaning that there is never a constant variable?
ReplyDeleteI learned of perspective. Seeing things through different eyes.
ReplyDeleteBout time I learned.
I'm 45.
Merci, you learned - we all learn...this is something that is not within the "I" category.
ReplyDeleteBut I am glad that you have learned if I may be jumping the gun, if not bien.
Your 45 and your from Quebec. I live in Western Canada ....
We have very different ways of looking at things. Oui...:)
oui..... :)
ReplyDeleteJust so, Jack. :D Kentucky (USA) is a far cry from either place in Canada, too.
ReplyDeleteKentucky I don't know much about I have never been there but they say the grass is blue, but all in all we all inhabit the places that we live. That's a good thing I think Ronday.
ReplyDeletehi i've learnt a lot , 1 can't please all the people all of the time ,
ReplyDelete2 speak out before your wronged .
3 i have it easy compered to some of my friends ,
4 i'm so lucky ,
5 think before i type .
6 i've goot good friends on line ,
i f i calm down i'm a good friend
Wow!
ReplyDeleteHi Tam, just about to log off an eat supper.
So the gal from London does "speak"! Thanks and there is much merit in that Tam...
thanks yes i can lol mate enjoy
ReplyDeleteOnly bluegrass looks blue in Kentucky, and that in the spring. By the height of summer, it's dead-looking brown patches on the big Thoroughbred pastures.
ReplyDeleteSmiling with you ~
ReplyDelete:)
ReplyDeleteYou Shine Like the Sky...
ReplyDeleteThank you, Jack! :) (((Hug))) I appreciate the kind words.
ReplyDeleteIt's more than words reading your blog...
ReplyDeleteYes it was...
Whoa. I would hope so! :D I like to paint with words. Don't you?
ReplyDeletethank you. i have learned this several times over the yrs, but as a preachers wife i have occasion to learn it again in certain instances. most recently it cost me time and extreme concern. but in the end i was glad to have been of service to the un-lovable. perhaps my efforts will bring them hope enough to become lovable... and whole. i see them making strides. not that any one person could not have been the instrument of hope but it just happened to fall my lot, and i was tested with great endurance. i floundered, stepped back and steered my course again. when i become this successful in all my surrounding then perhaps i can know that i have accomplished something important within my own person.
ReplyDeletebut i am rambling. sorry. i do that sometimes.
Hi, little sister.
ReplyDeleteI learn everyday how much I love you.
and i learned how much i love you back. ;)
ReplyDeleteya'll come see me sometimes.