My folks are far beyond taking care of these things and at the last minute I was asked to tend to going and getting here - she has been there for the last two weeks. I find that she is much better than how she was before with another illness that she has.
So she had things done and now she will carry on the rest of her healing at home. I have never been back into this hospital for a long time. I could not help but recall all that I had done before.
Medical matters are a concern to everyone. There is no doubt about that and some of those things you keep private I have come to learn and not broadcast them but it's been two days of doing many things.
So you do some of the things that are required but you never waiver from what your doing for yourself. I have learned this with a large amount of this thing called Cancer that has been so prevalent within my family.
My brother and I are the only ones that have never been touched with it.
I have lost too many people and children to that terror cancer. It makes me angry some times.
ReplyDeleteKrun I got past it as I have seen my father near death six times and he is still alive. I am proud of him but when your the medical next of kin and it's not your children but your parents and one sibling that you come to be the "father figure" for, it does not make me angry at all. But it can be taxing. But it's all fine now for her, my sister that is and for myself as mentioned I have come back here nearly one month ago and it's hard to be a multi tasker. There were time in the past that I was angry. Now I just accept it...
ReplyDeleteI hope your sisters' recovery goes well. Make sure you take care to get "you" time while caretaking for family.
ReplyDeleteA nurse has been appointed after her surgery and they kept her in for a lengthy time which was good.
ReplyDeleteShe is on the mend and that is good...
Jack, I have your sister in my daily prayers. I am a firm believer of prayers. More things are wrought in prayers than this world dreams of. Take care and God bless.
ReplyDeleteAmen to that. Hang in there Jack.
ReplyDeleteIt goes and it's going well Amy. Thank you...
ReplyDeleteDough thanks and it all works out..it's just a matter of how one looks at things...
ReplyDeleteI am happy to hear your sister is recovering well Jack, & know how hard it can be on the carer at times, so please take care of the carer too mate --hugs
ReplyDeleteIt's a finished day and each of us have our own things that do take place but it's all apart of life..I am not a care giver I was for two years ago. I assist with a few things at the moment but most of all I tend to my areas that I am doing with my life.
ReplyDeleteOne never holds onto the negative as if so, they will falter within there own path.
Good to hear that all has worked out with your sister Jack. We care and have our concerns over family health matters but we must get on with our own lives as best we can in these situations. All the best to you and the family.
ReplyDeleteHope your weekend is a goody...
It will and shall be Denise. I failed to mention that I hit a curb along with 5 other cars prior to going to the hospital with the icy weather and I can't get my car in till tomorrow ....so I am going to take one of the others and sit myself down and enjoy a long - I mean long coffee with Kisten.
ReplyDeleteI'm glad to hear that yur sister is on the mend. I wish the best recovery for her.
ReplyDeleteAs for yourself, you do what you can or have to and then you take care of yourself and go on with your life.
All the best to you and your family.
I think that so much of our physical health...depends on our own spiritual health. Dis-ease vs ease. Remembering that we are spiritual beings having a human experience, as opposed to human beings having spiritual experiences....
ReplyDeleteI concur, as today aside of some things with my car an repairs that now I await for which will be done at 5, I enjoyed my own walk about with my camera as well I met up with a good friend of mine from the gym. I really have done much over this week and now it's one going to be a me weekend. As I do know all the things right now that surround me. If I think within it all then I will do what is called depersonalize. Many do go through this at times but I get on the next day and I let go of anything negative from the day before.
ReplyDeleteSo it's sunny and very nice out I just arrived home, and I just decided to logg on here and load of a few pictures. I keep thinking about the Nikkon - but not yet I think to myself - no yet!
Same to me...if you look up within google and search the word > ki < , that is something that I have practiced and maintained since I was the age of 13. Spiritual is great but we are human as well. All our emotions and so forth. This may be a small excursion from it all....
ReplyDeleteMy greatest spiritual experience is sitting in what is called seiza in the gym as I have started my cross training three days a week. I sit there and lay in front of a mirror. And then I close my eyes and I allow all things to ....well, it's called a mediation of what is know as an art called Aikido..