Thursday, August 4, 2011

Catfish Feed From the Sh_t At the Bottom

No I have no dislike nor dessentions. Today I had my medical review. I have been humble in what choose to place on here within pictures. Ironically when I returned home I didnt know where my camera had went. This afternoon I am going to go out on a limb here and say. At times there can be be people which are more effected in what they write. As well, there can be some that are very arrogant within the manner that of the choices of which they work this.

It's not a book, it's a blog. There are all kinds of which write in accordance to a small group of which they have. Where as some just enjoy it and utilize it in the manner of which they wish. Now I am not no more than one person. I have the arrival of my one best friend and wife coming as of tomorrow.

What one needs is only what one feels confortable with. There areas of which some shall be is that of their very own. I would surmise that there are some which literally do profile those even myself within this area of where one can have a fictious name. Are there ethics and values upon a blog? I tend to think that some will play that passive agressiveness - there is no doubt with that one as even for that matter on other blogs of the which of FB. I can honestly say that I am not a large FB fan. I wasnt before now am I know. Yet perhaps we have all come to be that of what we say is not necessaryily the same as what we find within the day.

I know whom I value as the manner of which they respond is that which one can understand full well what the intention is. Yet the question comes to be is are we all attempting to be something more than what we are? Are some so tied up with ill will that the good will?

We tend to learn something within this. I have found that some have been friends and within no way shall they make new ones? I believe it's always been a delicate manner of whom to trust and whom not to trust. Isnt that ironic? One example, would be those which are lead to believe something about another only by the manner of which they here from another. Gossip and grudges are not my thing. I believe that those that have the need to hold either of these two G's are exactly what they are. They have that need to down play another.

Yet there are times to make hard calls as many wish not to have a decline in friends. But are friends on a blog the same as friends in which we embard with during the days? One side of me says no, the other side says yes. Predominantly with those of which there has been a contact with for a long time.

How we do have high expectations upon a blog. Yet I can certainly understand when someone is too busy in tending to their own blog. That they will not allow the doorway open with others. I could see a few just here within the day and no one wishes to be a deleteful person but the option are there from me, you and anyone for that matter.

In seeing two people especially having troubles with how some shall be. If and when your own thoughts are over ridden by those whom play the posture game. Then I think it's a given. Sometimes it can be like a tag touching game on here. Some have been through relationships and when they go down, they have that generalized mentality that all men are alike. For that matter the pendulum swings both ways. It can be like notes which have been spread about like grade schoolers, or those of which the do feel they are from an elite group within a blog called Multiply.

I never wished to be one that enbarked with others to see how far they could see an effect caused by the actions they take. You do have to ponder sometimes whom does consider you as a friend and whom does try play the games. As most all are not on my email. There are some in which do have a good means and ways.

Yet with no doubts there are those in which shall judge you, hold grudges. What one does is not for a person to just play these silly games. The other night before I left off here there is a good friend whom I read his blog inside out. You could see how well he enjoyed his blog and then there is another that is so protective that you would almost ponder on the reasons that friend blogs at all.

I guess I am saying the pettiness of some. How it's beyond me of how some would rather play games that just enjoy this for what it is.

Example:

"Please ad me I know at times I have hated you and we have had our differences but do ad me."

"If that person is on your blog, I must take you off."

"The reason I know and get so much information is that I all my friends are very intellegent."

"If you ever need anything send me a message"

"You write within a matter that has much thought and I do enjoy it."

"I believe you should take a course in the martial art."

"What me take you down as I don't know where you get off."

"It's obvious to see that you post other peoples writings."

All in all, I don't write anything other than what I find interesting and worth sharing. Secondly I am not contrived, nor am I one for the gossip factor, and third if there is this element where by there is what we call the power of association. The association is within the writes of which people make. Some do have members that are well into the 300 mark, and then some have less. But what I am getting at is when I see a few friends on here which find this as a santuary. Why do people seem to abuse them? When I look at Facebook I cringe coupled with the fact that it does not work well on this desktop computer. And secondly it's so narsassistic that if there was a mirror one would tend to think they are always looking at themselves.

But my main point is this is a blog one which some utilize for good means and others for other means. If there is any meaning I find it to be within the merits of that of a positive or constructive kind.

I thought I would write this within a decent nature. I have before and no I am not down and out. Actually I have enjoyed this more yet knowing full well that one can get addicted to this. I still like and enjoy it as apart of my day. For myself I don't have many of which I know but there have been some that I have come to know.

I don't live on this but since I had the time, I thought I would place this on as when I see a friend which is going through hard times on here and is not handicapped but not privy to everything in a mobility means I thought it might be something for SOME to think about before they keep doing what some do for reasons that are so well understood and yet you ponder why this shit takes place for some good folk.

I will not mention their names, it's not me but I am sure that you as much as I don't get into some of the crap that goes around underhandedly. For those that thrive from the bottom may you eat your own.

Pardon Moi

 

 

 

15 comments:

  1. I have to admit I have had to stop responding to some peoples blogs and have deleted people from my friends list based off of someone on their friends list. Why? Because I have been harassed by a few people and I do not want to comment and set myself up for more abuse. There have been some pretty abusive people online. Right now I have a friend that I can not comment on his facebook page and just this week saw the person who threatened to kick my ass and beat me up has opened a Multiply account. I told him if she comments on his Multiply page and verbally attacks and threatens me there also I will no longer respond to him at all. This woman is nuts and I'm afraid of her.

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  2. My blog as you know Jack (although I'm hurt I dont know your real name) lmao....is on a more personal nature, when I write I am talking to friends, Ive met some of these friends in person and it is so awesome, for we are truly friends, we know so much about each other from blogging. My rule of thumb in Yahoo now here was I never accept more friends then I personally can keep up with, I only have about twenty friends on my list, but I do read all their blogs, sometimes I am too rushed or even the fact that someone else already said what I was thinking so I do not post a response at all....blogging is a funny thing sometimes, we all have different opinions and thoughts about things, its our job to understand and accept that.

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  3. This is a place that I believe is or was founded on fun and the enjoyments - it's not relevant to my blog but there are some which thrive on making things hard for others and I don't believe that was the intention of what this was for Sharon. In the past I place much more wieght on this but now I don't when as well within FB, unless I get on my laptop can I seemingly get on it but I don't believe in the negative aspects. I do believe that no single person is to be judged I do believe in the merits of the good things within here and upon returning after a examination all things are good but I ponder on why some have the need to do these ridiculous attacks as it's not what I myself.

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  4. Pam I understand fully well as you expess within your way and who is to say if you can or can't. Your fortunate and I don't talk to anyone which is on my blog. I used to have a vew but something happened when I clicked the wrong button but we all do have different thoughts and ideals and there need not be a defence. Those whom do it know whom they are and I am not this know it all, but I thought it was worth saying. When you see one friend that is being attacked with that passive aggressiveness. Ironically my real first name is Jack but I am not about to put forth my last name as before I had a group and I had people calling day and night. Yet blogging is for fun or within that areas of which we all enjoy.
    I have many but most all I only know by way of the words of which they write.

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  5. Honestly, i don't know what this blog is all about Jack and what the intentions are. All i know is i came here alone. And i walk my talk and what i've been saying here is 'me' no fun intended and i do hurt if i gave comments and i am given a blank stare. Am not a two person either. People and friends who knew me from way back would surely know me by now even if we haven't seen each other and i treasured them deeply in my heart ... and lately i knew them already. By just a single 'comment'
    No downplayed. Just being 'us' is all that matters. May we all find that peace in our hearts. And may we all find the truth in every single words that we writes and in the same way, in every words that are written on our friends blogs. I don't wanna' say this ... but if you find me in such a way i fall on the negative as you say, you can delete me. I won't feel bad at all. tight hugs.

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  6. The intention is for a friend that gets nailed more often than need be. I am not into gossip so I keep it clean. This is not about anyone on my blog.
    You failed to read that Maritess. But the words spell it out with clarity. So it's a message pertains to that other side if you will that we all understand
    with regards to blogging.

    Seemingly you always think I am writing to you. Again I shall say I am not writing with regards to anyone on my blog.

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  7. i am reading it with clarity Jack and so am giving my mine with the intentions of giving out what's in my heart. Anyways, it's a good day here and the sun is shinning to where it is. A good blessed morning from where i am.
    tight hugs Jack.

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  8. I respect your choice, blogging can attract some off color types of personalities.

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  9. I believe that people on here who are evil spirited are the very same way in real life....Luckily I've steered clear of any drama on my page even though a few of my friends have had fallouts with each other to the point of deleting and blocking each other. I feel that puts me in a very tender spot, but I continue to be myself and go about my business...have a wonderful evening!

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  10. It can MJ but I believe it's a respectable place and now and then I love to just
    enjoy to write and my opts are as any others. But this was with another
    of which I saw was going throught the same old things.

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  11. Vicki, for myself it's been hard not to focus on what is going on in America. Yet
    of what you said here is true as the way I see it is there are those in life or even here
    that love to see a rise or someone that is enjoying things falter. Ironically the reason
    is within their own - with a big of a smile here I have always considered them
    the popcorn people. Those that sit and watch others as they live while others live.
    The ones that live have something that they capture within life, yet the ones that
    thrive on the negative most often are those which either there is something within
    dispair or they just thrive on watching others fall but the irony is that they have spent
    more time causing problems that living their own life.

    That said I bid you a good eve as well. Good intentions are still applicable
    in this day and age.

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  12. Too bad that some have to make it so hard for others. Sounds and looks like stuff that happen in High School i guess some never grew up...

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  13. People put others down to make themselves feel better and look better in their own eyes....there is a very deep sadness within me with the state of the nation in which I live. We've become a country of no morals.

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  14. Hey Julie, I don't even know if the lady is on now but she is a very nice lady I know I had my
    times more so than often but I would hope that she does exercise that right to delete and ban.
    So it is and there are ones that you have come to know and she is one of them and I thought
    this might send a message as I am not privy to anything but before I did know the root of the cause.
    So I hope things get afloat for her...Speaking of afloat I have to say that is a nice picture!

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