By way of association with others? Y/N
By way of rekindling old friends which one has blocked? Y/N
Would you open your post to everyone or would you keep it to friends only? Y/N
Would you write a letter in an authentic manner and hope for the best? Y/N
Would you chat with the person to develop maintain good relations? Y/N
Would you open all your blocks and write an apology to a for what ever reason you blocked them? Y/N
Other comments of your own...
Thus far, I know I am on this ensure and oh last night I could have ate and ate and ate. I have never had it were one has gone the day before the procedure and there after without eating. So far so good, no bad migraines after the extraction and it's merely 7am here but am daring to have a 70% milk with a little coffee. So this is a good thing.
I will come back to my writing on what I mean from yesterday but I really had some questions with regards and still do with regards to the intentions within social networks. There are some great folk out there and then here are......well we know. I have found it hard when people just delete you because the belong to a certain group. And that is riddled within here, groups are fine however when a group has the intention...well lets skip that one. Everyone is an adult an is able to make there own free choices on people, if herd instinct prevails like cattle......it's time to moo over. If you know of some decent folk please do send them my way, this guy would wish to have some new friends as I never wish to experience what I have the last month and which still stays on going.
But I do have a question Below:
I would just say.."it's their loss". If they are that stubborn and not open minded then do you want to be friends with them anyways?
ReplyDeleteI think you are letting it bother you too much.
Peace.. Jack!
I do as well, I wish to obtain some good new folk on here....when one has a group that is endless in having people leave your blog as a friend especially a few that you have known for literally a few years well.....it's time to take action in a productive manner.
ReplyDelete.a gm [[hug]]..enjoy your coffee...c[_]!..I agree with Mella:)
ReplyDeleteDo you see the small little form Caroline?
ReplyDeleteI find most people interesting. Even the ones I totally disagree with. They still have something to say.
ReplyDeletedo things that your heart wants you to do Jack ... if you want to invite again those that were blocked previously its your prerogative. Enjoy the time.
ReplyDeleteTee this is within friends and I thought you hated my .....you know what, and I do wish to renounce the relationship we had before...and your right and as well you can't speak for another but I would like to with her as well...:) I do mean it.
ReplyDeleteFrom legs to teeth I have been humbled! :)
I am right now...:)
ReplyDeleteI don't have many friends here Jack. But the ones I do have are true & wonderful. Just follow your heart. I'd rather have just one true friend than hundreds on here that never visit.
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ReplyDeleteCath can you see that form along side of this?
Likes ccboogie's comment. I see the form Jack,, hard to answer that one... I'm so out of the box in feelings and hard to choose one answer..
ReplyDeleteNo worries...Dawn.
ReplyDeleteYes I see it & i just voted, however, I pretty much agree with them all except the one about apologizing because you blocked them. If you blocked them, I'm sure it was for a good reason.
ReplyDeleteWith 90% it was a good thing, with some others I would love to rekindle things.
ReplyDeleteAlright I will try,, :-P.... There would be three in which I would choose.. I have met many wonderful people on here by association with others, so I would choose that one, Secondly I would leave my doors open so to speak so that everyone can reach me,, Thirdly I love chatting and getting to know people to know my friends, ya know,, and fourthly,,<
ReplyDeleteoops added one more,, I said there would be three and I chose four.. haha.. I'm such a mixed bag of nutz...
ReplyDeleteI can't write and chat at the same time I never could but pm me with your id if you wish. Secondly right now for the privacy of friends I am writing only too my contacts Dawn.
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ReplyDeleteI think that you get to know new people through their friends. Alot of the same people respond to ones postings day after day. You get to know that person as well as your contact. If you would like to get to know that person even better, then that's when you should look at their page, and see if you have much in common. If you do, invite them as a friend.
ReplyDeleteThere will always be those that sour us. It's their lost, but it can be hard on us too. I can feel you pain Jack, and lets hope that in time, it will go away. Being misunderstood and not having a way of clearing up the past was the hardest thing for me. I still struggle with this myself through a past experience. I pray every night for better days ahead.
Well lets say this much, I used to not be within a group. And then I joined a group, and I made a funny statement with regards to the owner of the group, and it was taken the wrong way by the leader of his group in something I wrote which had nothing to do with the group.
ReplyDeleteSo frankly I have never had this take place and I wish LOL I could have stayed out of the group or never made a silly remark as there has been a fall out. But it's time to do some rearranging, but it's a no brainier to see whom is just on here to share and have fun.
So this was so much fun but there are several pandoras boxes that seemingly have been opened, now it's time to just move along change and delete some people, but not block them and add some new decent fun folk.
I have one more day since yesterdays extractions to just do a Saturday - "stay cation".
My posts are open to everyone. It's not as easy to meet new people here as it was on Y360 where one could search according to interests, etc. Here, I notice those who comment on friends' blogs and I can sense common ground.
ReplyDeleteI try not to take it to heart when people choice to move on as we are all only year for a season in eachothers life while some will stay friends in a long season others will leave in but a short one thus is the journey of life we all live. and yet like the passing of a loved one they will always be missed from time to time so rejoice in knowing them and hold them in fine memory when they are gone
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ReplyDeleteDJ, yeah there have been areas in which one just makes choices and choices are the one thing that one hates to do but I am finding back my flow and as well a good common ground, I was going to write tonight but I thought I would take some time and read a few blogs as I have done since the inception of blogging on here and I am pleased that there are still common grounded folk out there.
ReplyDeleteLife is only as complicated as we wish it to be. Mind you that said I look forward to tomorrow morning and getting out with the camera. Everyone has there own manner and way with posting...and with that I respect.
Jack, people leaving has nothing to do with who you are as a person. It is such a pleasure to know you, my friend. You are a very sincere, kind, and honest person, and a wonderful friend. I am so pleased to have met you.
ReplyDeleteI am happy to hear that you are feeling much better. Hope you get to EAT sooooon!!
Great poll, Jack. I voted "By way of association with others." In my opinion, this is not only a great reference tool, but the best way of getting to know someone before you send an invitation.
I second that!!! :)
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