If you have it in you my father is very ill and is a stage 4 non hogkins. Some will understand this and some won't but sincerely if you have it in you it's much respected.
Yeah this came about yesterday.......so as a medical next of kin and executor there are things I have to think over this evening yet it's been on my mind.
Thanks Fatos....family is paramount in mine. I don't mention it much but when this comes about as I have known since yesterday there is a wait time and a time to take action.
Please do.....I believe in faith...where there are many that don't. I hope to write on this man as I have before but we shall see how it goes. I am 3000 miles away so I am not sure of the entire situation. Yet I do believe in prayer in a meaningful manner.
I'm sad to read this. Yes, I understand from my own experiences, but it's never possible to know precisely how someone else feels. You said: "I am not all stressed out but it's been on my mind." I'm glad you're not stressed, because as I'm sure you know, you're going to have to make decisions with a clear mind. My parents are dead, many friends have also died by accidents or disease, & you may know I was with my husband 24/7 as he was dying. All of these people are still 'with' me in the best of memories. For my husband, I felt at peace...for him. He suffered. Also, I absolutely believed it was his 'time,' on which I won't digress.
I wish you all the strength you'll need, my healing thoughts & energy. I have faith in this. I hope you receive it knowing how sincere I am.
It's difficult. As we went through this except for a different illness with my father in law ..last stages of emphysema with him and also my mother in law..So hard when loved ones suffer. My heart does go out to you and caring thoughts as well..praying peace and strength for you..I have been away all day here and it is now 11:35 PM weekends are like that so often..but now that I just read your note know you are being thought of with the kindest of thoughts ..
It's hard enough when you have a life threatening illness, as I know only too well,but it is much harder on the family and loved ones to cope.Wishing you strength to deal with this and warm thought to you and your family.
I'm so sorry. I've been dealing with illness and facing the mortality of my parents, and it's so very hard. I hope you have someone close to you who can help you cope.
May you have the clarity of mind and the love in your heart to do the right thing, whatever that might be for you. My prayers are with you and your family. Hugs
Clarity....it's just coming up to 9am and, I am not sure that I have complete clarity right now Frani. There is a time zone difference from Montreal to Saskatoon. So, I wait and have several things to tend to thereafter....my legs have been hard I think it's stress. I never expected this.
Doug, I have never claim a victim mentality and you have always been a very good friend. I have been heading to bed rather early these days around 7 or 8 as I have been overwhelmed by this. However maybe with cadence in a different manner it does all work out. There is nothing like the distance during a time like this some understand - some don't...
Thanks all literally it's hard to come back to this a few days later and reply back but I if you can just give me a little time........I appreciate it. There are too many names to mention...
But ---------------------------------------> Thankyou.
No need to reply back here just stopped back in to let you know I'm sending kind thoughts and also prayers for peace , strength whatever it is that is needful
Jack, please forgive me for not seeing your post sooner!
I am so heartfully sorry to hear about your dad. Please know that you and your family will be in my daily thoughts and prayers, my friend. If I can be of any comfort to you, please don't hesitate to let me know. Stay strong, and trust in God's mercy.
sorry Jack hugs)))
ReplyDeleteThanks I held off in making any remarks as I am on this silly laptop.
ReplyDeleteSincerely sorry.. May peace and love be with you. godbless.
ReplyDelete~huggs~ .... my thoughts are with you all!!
ReplyDeleteI'm sorry sweetie. I know how much this hurts you. Sending positive energy your way. {{HUGGS}}
ReplyDeleteOh Jack, i'm so sorry ... my thoughts are with you both at this time ...
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ReplyDeleteI have experienced similar situation with my mother years ago so understand your feelings very well . I wish you strength and patience Jack.
Yeah this came about yesterday.......so as a medical next of kin and executor there are things I have to think over this evening yet it's been on my mind.
ReplyDeleteLynne throughout today it's been on my mind....just so you know good friend.
ReplyDeleteI'm sorry to hear that, I will keep him and you closed to my hearts. sending love
ReplyDeleteI am not on my own systems Maggie and I am not all stressed out but it's been on my mind.
ReplyDeleteEnergy received :)
This is not the first but it's the first at this stage of life and my excursion in Quebec.
ReplyDeleteSo I have some thinking to do. My own yeah...
Thanks Fatos....family is paramount in mine. I don't mention it much but when this comes about as I have known since yesterday there is a wait time and a time to take action.
ReplyDeletePlease do.....I believe in faith...where there are many that don't. I hope to write on this man as I have before but we shall see how it goes. I am 3000 miles away so I am not sure of the entire situation. Yet I do believe in prayer in a meaningful manner.
ReplyDeleteThis has been a trip and then some...we shall see how things go.
ReplyDeleteSending you a wish for strength---a prayer for mercy and the hope that all can accept the outcome.
ReplyDeleteMy prayers are with you...
ReplyDeleteThanks Sue
ReplyDeleteThanks Joyce......he has a large history behind him and right now from where I am I am just going to sit on it for one more night.
ReplyDeleteWill keep you in my prayers Jack. {{hugs}}
ReplyDeleteThanks much GG I am just going to let this coast till tomorrow morning although there is a two hour time difference.
ReplyDeleteThanks..and am on this laptop which makes it a little more difficult to get around...
Keeping you and Dad in my thoughts.. Sending you thoughts of strength and grace.
ReplyDeleteDo, I ever understand... I had a friend who was in stage 4 pancreatic cancer.....
ReplyDeleteI'm sad to read this. Yes, I understand from my own experiences, but it's never possible to know precisely how someone else feels. You said: "I am not all stressed out but it's been on my mind." I'm glad you're not stressed, because as I'm sure you know, you're going to have to make decisions with a clear mind.
ReplyDeleteMy parents are dead, many friends have also died by accidents or disease, & you may know I was with my husband 24/7 as he was dying. All of these people are still 'with' me in the best of memories.
For my husband, I felt at peace...for him. He suffered. Also, I absolutely believed it was his 'time,' on which I won't digress.
I wish you all the strength you'll need, my healing thoughts & energy. I have faith in this. I hope you receive it knowing how sincere I am.
May God's Mercy be with you and your father, Jack.
ReplyDeleteIt's difficult. As we went through this except for a different illness with my father in law ..last stages of emphysema with him and also my mother in law..So hard when loved ones suffer. My heart does go out to you and caring thoughts as well..praying peace and strength for you..I have been away all day here and it is now 11:35 PM weekends are like that so often..but now that I just read your note know you are being thought of with the kindest of thoughts ..
ReplyDeleteIt's hard enough when you have a life threatening illness, as I know only too well,but it is much harder on the family and loved ones to cope.Wishing you strength to deal with this and warm thought to you and your family.
ReplyDeleteOh Jack...So sorry...My prayers are with u and your Family...
ReplyDeleteI'm so sorry. I've been dealing with illness and facing the mortality of my parents, and it's so very hard. I hope you have someone close to you who can help you cope.
ReplyDeleteI lost my own father in May, 2000, Jack, to Esophagus cancer. My thoughts of peace, & love are sent to you on ~Angels Wings~ my friend.
ReplyDeleteMay you have the clarity of mind and the love in your heart to do the right thing, whatever that might be for you. My prayers are with you and your family. Hugs
ReplyDeletemy thoughts and prayers are with you and yours, Jack.
ReplyDeletemy sincere prayers for your dad, Jack ... and do''t forget yourself too. Take extra care, God's blessings and a warmth tight hugs, tess*
ReplyDeleteClarity....it's just coming up to 9am and, I am not sure that I have complete clarity right now Frani. There is a time zone difference from Montreal to Saskatoon. So, I wait and have several things to tend to thereafter....my legs have been hard I think it's stress. I never expected this.
ReplyDeleteI thank you Frani.
Doug, I have never claim a victim mentality and you have always been a very good friend. I have been heading to bed rather early these days around 7 or 8 as I have been overwhelmed by this. However maybe with cadence in a different manner it does all work out. There is nothing like the distance during a time like this some understand - some don't...
ReplyDeleteThanks Rashmi, and I hope you received the birthday wish as I had a power outage here on Saturday...
ReplyDeleteThanks all literally it's hard to come back to this a few days later and reply back but I if you can just give me a little time........I appreciate it. There are too many names to mention...
ReplyDeleteBut ---------------------------------------> Thankyou.
No need to reply back here just stopped back in to let you know I'm sending kind thoughts and also prayers for peace , strength whatever it is that is needful
ReplyDeleteNo need of replying ... just letting you know you're in my thoughts Jack :)
ReplyDeleteJack, please forgive me for not seeing your post sooner!
ReplyDeleteI am so heartfully sorry to hear about your dad. Please know that you and your family will be in my daily thoughts and prayers, my friend. If I can be of any comfort to you, please don't hesitate to let me know. Stay strong, and trust in God's mercy.