Wednesday, January 6, 2010

You Know...

There are a variety of blog and how recently when I read this one phrase it stuck to me as across these ways of the Internet how does one really convey unless they are a tremendous writer the same thing within discussion. In a few times here I have seen some unity where you just get right into it. That is there is that intertwining flow that takes place. I deleted some people and as well it we do live within a society that is rather cynical. But most of all I just wished to get my network of down without blocking.
Life to me is much to short. Within life and I am not all that old, I have found you can never completely represent everything that you are. You can within life but this is much like an open book the way I see it. Yet some place up walls or they over think things or they don't want to show or illustrate a bond. I don't claim to know it all I think that everyone has a validity here. But yet some do think in terms of within there own. What I find of abundance within a write is that manner that one does blog within there own way. Do we label? Yes many do, I can't say I have but I have deleted off some people, as have many but perhaps because I don't talk on here but it's all too enjoyable in reading writings. This is the area where I think that people can write without apprehension. Are we just based out of one ideology? I don't think so. I think where the value is within varied people from all over. Yet there is that human condition within all of us.
What I find to be of the greatest value is not within one country but in many as you learn. There is something to be gained as well as the expression that we all have.
When I was cleaning up my blog it was due to probably a few factors. The ones that were not anymore, the judgmental, of course those that will write on ones blog without any thought, as they are.... well you know. Those on the other hand that have that opened mind seize more I think within this. Yet within the dialogue there is much to be said, I am not into the self promotions that I have seen take place I have added people and I do enjoy it. We all write in our own ways, we all have different lives but there are commonalities. Sit back and think within, usually so often we miss someone for what they are saying as we interpret it wrong.
If I add someone, I read what they are writing and visa versa. It's not all that complicated. Rather I enjoy the variety without the complicated. If you judge one it's like pointing that finger and one goes into one direction but the other three fingers are pointing back at oneself. I remember a very good friend of mine from Chicago that was in this group I had would write and literally he was a work in art. I talked to him a few times and after time he just left the Internet and before he did he was so fed up with all the silly games and how he was not understood. But when James wrote, I can tell you that everyone really got into it. An other friend that came from another country. She became totally fed up only due to the fact that within multiply this all come to be too complicated. Yet she was one that could write but more so read and when she did along with her husband they were something. Then Donna, Donna was conservative yet very open minded, never one to judge but she could tell what was happening and when. There were people from all over that had this manner that they did not place too much weight into anything. We had this saying called "You Know". As within the write and what came across it was obvious to see.
So will all that said, I don’t chat on here and as well I don’t have sound on this one machine but there is only so much one can do within a given day. We shift we over think things at times, we subscribe to one source weather it is within a one country or within a group. Yet the true validity is within the enjoyment of the writes.
When as a global society do we bring down the walls? And for all those that are within America I am a dual citizen, I always need to do that back up. But I truly believe in societies of many people. There is a gain in it and when we take down those walls of the gossip that we hear - the one that is able to make there own choices based on there own sole self. That is where confidence resonates. Labels, Gossip, Prejudice, Passive Aggressive - These ideologies are ones that I don't subscribe too. Life is much to short for all that. Yet some do and some don't.

So the eve is cold but it's warm inside!

 

28 comments:

  1. With all that been said ... great to know you are not bothered. Keep that warmth inside, Jack.
    Good night. Tight hugs :)

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  2. Time to watch a little television and head off to bed as this is not negative within it I truly believe within this. We are global, and I am going to go gobble some late snack and then head off to bed.

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  3. Enjoy your late night snack and wishing you a good sleep.

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  4. There just comes a time, I've learned in blogging, as in life, where you outlive the relationship. Just cause it's cyber doesn't mean you can't be affected!

    I've always found people are far more brave behind a keyboard than they would ever be if they were face to face with me. And that is something perhaps the internet will change someday where it's just one big cameraphone blogs type of things. That way we could see facial responses cause that's what's lacking in blogging.

    For the most part, I'm pretty open-minded, but when it comes to politics and religion, there's no budging. I have my opinions and I'm entitled to them or what do I stand for? Then I'm a pushover. You have to believe in something. I'm a Christian and I don't believe in non-Christian ways being shoved down my throat the same way they don't like it if someone pushes Christianity down their throat! I believe this world is changing for the worse and that is sad, so I try to make my little corner of the world the way I like it, dealing with the people I like, the people who think like me and the people I enjoy. Cause the same way I'm steadfast, I can appreciate others who have their beliefs, whether it's sexual, political or religion. Everyone's entitled to their opinion and blogging sure brings out some good ones, doesn't it? Great post Jack!

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  5. Yes, it's warm inside.

    Sometimes when people ask where I am from, I feel like answering "Earth, and you?" We do need to take into consideration the whole human race.

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  6. The internet is a great place to get to know people, if everyone was genuine then it would be a perfect venue, but, sadly it is not so, we have to to a little bit of weeding out now and again so that we can be sure that who we chat too or blog with is trustworthy.I mix with al nationalities it is most interesting , this way you can learn an awful lot in a short time.Goodnight Jack .x

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  7. Never say to anyone what you do not want to hear about yourself.Stay warm I love a bedtime snack.

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  8. I completely agree with this statement. During my short time on here I have seen people leave for all sorts of reasons. I've even deleted some due to them using this site to bad mouth other users which I will not tolerate. I feel if you have an issue with someone or simply just don't want a friendship then delete them and move on. I joined to have fun not be stressed out.

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  9. I'm rather simple and if a person opens their heart up on the pages they blog it goes beyond cyber. They have given a part of themselves whatever their passion is in life. Mine is as my title Faith , Family and Friends. The reason my blogs are on private for friends only is because I want a safe place to share with those I have established a relationship with since I do post family photos and the things that I hold as dear I write about . I don't want my blog to be an open book for whomever I have no knowledge about to read and look at my pictures. I do sometimes have blogs networked open but I place nothing too personal on them. I have deleted people also one of recent because they started out acting like a friend would but then got to where I would just see their head shot under blogs and photos , no comment, no effort to show they wanted to be friends. It went on this way for probably months and it made me feel more stalked than a friend . I'm here to connect to others and well like this for instance. I enjoy reading your poems and blogs and photos. That's what it's all about for me. Friendship. Enrichment. I might not always get to all of your blogs or others but will as I am able .
    It snowed today and I am feeling better after the flu bug. I'm going out for lunch with my kids and maybe I'll get some snow pictures. have a great day!

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  10. I've been thinking recently about the internet and all and the relationships that we develop from it. These relationships can turn out to be life changing, as I can personally attest. When I came to cyberspace in 2004, I was delighted with what I felt was my window to the world. And I still retain some of those feelings : I have a handful of people that I still keep in contact with from the one chat room and Yahoo's now-defunct 360. One problem that I see is that for some, the keyboard is the only contact they have with other humans. As much as I enjoy gabbing on here, I think that we must be careful not to overlook developing and maintaining real - life relationships. It can be addicting, don't you think?

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  11. I have to add...I agree with you...there's just no place for gossip and game playing. I'm looking for more mature friends, and I know you feel the same.

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  12. What a load of rubbish you write.
    You are you whomever you may be, and wherever you maybe.
    Adopt whatever Attitude or Garb you like, you are you.
    Twenty years younger or older is all the same. We learn from each other.
    Come out of that shadow you have gone into.
    You are our friend.

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  13. We do learn from each others' rubbish some. Not all thank you Bill.

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  14. Same here and I just enjoy the writes as this came to me yesterday and it's all good mind you the weather really hit low tempertures today but got the car and this is great thanks Cheryl.

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  15. I literally was not focusing on it till I read this not and then I just rolled with it and, I do think like you and how much has changed. But I just thought I would write on this so I did. We were blogging together way way back. And it's nice that you have come back on. It was just thoughts that I wanted to run with last night. Entitlement renders much doesn't it.

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  16. So true....just got on and I do believe so Kath...I was just writing my thoughts some will like it and some will not you cant please everyone. I am very similiar to you Kath since the days that we first met on year years ago.

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  17. DJ there is that area that really I do enjoy the contemplation and the variety of all people and I don't think it's rubbish. I think it's more of a new era in the world.
    Walls can come down....mais oui!

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  18. To mix as you mention must me awesome. A good eve to you Rosei..
    Nationalities for all areas of the world fascinate me not because of the nation but more so in what as you and I wrote - we learn. Yeah.

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  19. Why not Maritess :) She was and is a great singer.

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  20. I was not stressed when writing this I was really outsourcing last night to get a gest...

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  21. A variety came throught it's all good...

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  22. There was this beautiful song i've heard from my car stereo the other day while driving to Tagaytay ... but i wasn't able to get the title. Its a bouncy music ... i hope i could put it on my video page.

    Nice writes here ... and the music video. I remember the song from way back ... :)

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  23. One man's rubbish is another man's wisdom.

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  24. rubbish [?] oh noh!

    All your poems and writes were all written in a manner that is so deep. That it needs some thinking to really be absorbed by one ... if that is a rubbish then what is intellectual ... hmmm :)
    hugs all! smiles*

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  25. .some bloggs make you ."smile..some blogs make you think*..and some just take you out of yourself.thats the---joy of having a variety of friends:)

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