I have two very sickly parents - this all took place 1.5 weeks ago and as well I love to laugh and I do enjoy the expression here. I moved here back some time ago, and well to make a long story short, within it all all things have come to a situation where I was rid of my joint venture house.
I will be finding out my own health situation but at the same time I have been living within a house that has been seen here. I thought about this much before blogging on it as I have had a hard time with my health but I have always kept it on the up and up.
Soon I will find out what has taken place after a bone marrow was taken last week. I love to laugh but at the same time there when my father took his fall as he had, my mother tried to pick him up before calling for me.
I think sometimes we don't realize how precious life is. Within it all I could be upset with regards to the loss of a house. But right now (pardon this write and how fast it's done) ...I have been humbled, yet I know that this too shall pass.
When I first arrived here I thought I would be on with the Airport Authority and then things came on with family illness. As well, so I have an entire family that is sick. I am keeping it as level as can be. I know there are others out there - that have had to take a sidestep within life but one makes the most of it.
The house that I am living within is within my blog and I am not some negative person but after one thing is done for myself - the finding of what is going on with my knees - so rather soon here I will, and thereafter I have a work placement individual here that I will be undergoing tests for two weeks - then I will be placed within work.
I have always earned my own way and I wanted to write this as I truly do have good intentions. But I am sure that some know when the bottom breaks, but you still stay afloat.
Sometimes and humbling situation comes to be a learned one. You go your path and do what is best for family and thereafter you get back into it despite the economy. Perhap being humbled is a situation that leads to something and one learnes more with regards to things. And then moves on.
I'm very sorry to hear of all your troubles, Jack! You have been very upbeat about the,. and I'm sure it has been a strain on you! I hope that your parents will recover, nd that, whatever the results of your own tests, you will be able to deal with the situation as you have been so far! *hugs*
ReplyDeleteI too, wish good fortunate for your parents and they will be well again; for you...not sure what you are facing, but I pray it isnt serious, or can be handled, and you will be ok.
ReplyDeleteI shall and I will literally I had to go get meds for my mother and within it all there has to be a reason with all this...
ReplyDeleteI don't fret on many things Linda but this is something that I thought about coming forth with as it's been the case for a while now and all in all you never surrender and I wish one can turn misfortune to fortune - I have been very private in many ways. But I hope this came out alright...
ReplyDeleteI will keep you and your family in prayer. May GOD pour out HIS blessings upon you.
ReplyDeleteScott we have know each other since I was in Edmonton and we I think we judged each other but I truly enjoy your writes and I literally thank you for the time to talk to you.
ReplyDeleteGod Bless and remember Jack time heals..just take each moment at a time and keep your faith.. and Big Hugs from Milli.
ReplyDeleteI am blessed by your writings Jack, always very informative and enlightening. I too, enjoy our talks.
ReplyDeleteMilli, I know I would love to talk on here much more but right now I had reservations on writing this but I truly think this is a learning lesson.
ReplyDeleteSo you just keep going on - my old house in edmonton is on this blog and now I am within my folks - it's humbling but it's shall pass, one step at a time..
I never came out with this only due to one word - Pride....
I feel so good that I got it out as all my friends live else where and are married, I was as you know and she is within NY. I was a caregiver for one year before with family and put everything aside yet I had my own condo. YOU HAVE NO IDEA HOW GLAD I am to have wrote this! I mean it truly...
ReplyDeleteThat is important that you feel a little less burdened here Jack...good news.
ReplyDeleteMill, it really does!
ReplyDeleteSometimes sharing the load---even here with online friends---lightens the burden. Finding peace within it all is difficult but it seems you are trying. One lesson I have learned in my own walk is this: don't hesitate to ask for help when you need it. Often we try to "handle" everything on our own---it can become too much, esp. if you are dealing with your own health issues. Caregivers must take are of themselves too, Jack. You cannot drink from an empty cup. Take care and know you are wished strength and healing.
ReplyDeleteSusan it does. Oh you don't know how much I have Sue, and I literally have had this on my shoulders for some time. I used to get home from work at the airport and then I would come on periodically and now I feel good. I truly do. As this is not negative and if you look back when I was in Edmoton I was in my glory but I lost a house and its been humbling I didnt thing this would come about but it did and I deal with it but now I again I say you have no idea how better I feel. Everyone crosses a milestone in life.
ReplyDeleteI for the last six months have been dealing with matters and within denial to some extent and tending to family but there is nothing like having your own place which I shall again. Cadence I say again if you know what I mean.
That was then and it shall come again > http://initiativestain.multiply.com/photos/album/37/May_Weekend_Vantages
Sorry I am late checking in, Jack. I've been a bit worried about you, but you had to be ready to talk about what's been bothering you. Keep a positive outlook and stay focused. It will all work out for you. Know that you have many friends here, and that I am praying for you!! ((HUGS))
ReplyDeleteTerri, I have wrote probably something that I have wished to for some time and I am glad I have. This all shall pass...and this is what friends are for.
ReplyDeleteBut never expect to please all. I thank you much. And a happy belated Columbus day!
hugssssssss, smiles, hope, faith my dear friend!
ReplyDelete....................................thank you Arielle.
ReplyDeleteno, thank you! hugs!
ReplyDeleteYes Jack, keep smiling, this too shall pass...
ReplyDeleteMia, it's late I have have wrote and within it all there is something that truly is the foundation of what I have always wished to write. And I have and I am in my glory within the even just writing. I have not posted them all and it passes as we all have been there I am certain I am not the only one but hey I write within an authentic manner and today made my day. It's ironic and it's substantial.
ReplyDeleteAll the best....
That's very true..health itself is a precious things in life. So we should take care our health and done the best also for that. Wish you always have a good health and for your parents as well :)
ReplyDeleteThanks Silvia...
ReplyDeleteI'd lost both of my dear parents at an early age {they, as well as me}. We must learn never to take anything for granted, eh? I am sorry for your pain and theirs' as well, my friend. Keeping all of you in my thoughts and prayers and sending oodles of positive energy! {{{HUGGS}}} :)
ReplyDeleteThanks much Maggie I have just arrived home and it's not cancer - for me - they think it's an atypical type of arthritis and some degeneration so at least that is over and now come the next stage - so thank god for that.
ReplyDeleteYou can handle it. {soooo happy to hear it is not the dreaded 'C' word} I have been diagnosed with Severe Degenerative Osteo-Arthritis. I underwent a total hip replacement in 2000. This November 6th will be my 9 year anniversary. ;) It's mind over matter ... if you don't mind, it doesn't matter. Keep your mind strong, your spirit energized and keep moving ... all will fall into place. {{SQUEEZE}}
ReplyDeleteCoincidence as this is what I probably have but we shall see. Now a hip replacement is of the most painful things to go through. It is mind over matter if you don't render that or some sourse or some faith you will falter. Smiling.
ReplyDeleteSo I am so glad with this particular write as I have mentioned.
I would like to share even just a fraction of your load Jack ... losing your house could be very hard and a torture to anyone plus the fact both your parents got sick, and while writing this blog at that time when your health is still inquestion must be a tough one for you or for anyone for that matter. But prayers really do wonders [smiles]
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