I am strong believer in people that can do things. That is people that can bridge that gap especially during this time of season. Ironically while I was writing this I had a friend that called me from Gander, Newfoundland.
I knew him many years ago and he called me and we just finished talking. He ironically had been through a divorce recently and works in St. John’s as an electrical engineer. He travels to Vermont five times a year and he was asking with regards to my father as his and my father were good friends.
Now I have never had it were I have gotten a call from someone that I knew at such a young age but we talked about several things. Now how is that – I have no idea. I think that at a certain time maybe some are going through some sort of transition. Howie asked me if I wished to come and visit him. I told him at some point we will meet but what was amazing is that we both recalled each other.
Today I went out and I wanted to get some pictures I found this older man and he was praying I am not sure what it was for but the church turned on all the lights so that I could get the best pictures.
When I left I asked the man how he was, he said that he is good, but he had lost his wife. Here he asked me who I was, I just introduced myself as John. I did not know what to say to him but he had some structure of faith, much more that myself. I was leaving and then I thought this is a picture that is worth some words and he agreed to the picture being taken. At the end of it he shock my hand and I left.
Now within one day I had an experience that was great. I had a call from a friend I have not seen since I was six years old, and then I had this talk with the older gentleman. It seems that there are some things in life that are less in a way, I am not sure how to put that but they seemed to have a meaning. Something of the sort of substance. The irony with Howie is that his father had passed away in the year 2000. And he mentioned how much he had recollections of his father and mine. I gave him the telephone number to my folks so that his mother could call them and I think that is within the spirit of Christmas.
We are not getting older I think that our generation, or I could be wrong has gone through a change. Where the change leads…. I am not sure. All that I know is that I look at the better things in life and this is the season from which to do so.
We aren't getting older. We're getting better... like fine wine.
ReplyDeleteYou really have that right it's amazing when you have people at this time in our life having good intentions as well Kal, we all are unified. With what you wrote it was short but it was good as I believe that we are moving into a good change.
ReplyDeleteI believe we are as well. It's been a long time coming, but finally, it's getting here.
ReplyDeleteIt's wonderful to connect with old friends. I keep looking on the internet to find friends from my childhood, but so far I have had little luck. It's more difficult when you are looking for a girl because most of the time women change their names when they marry. I never changed mine (all three times), but I am unusual in that regard, I guess. Lovely photo of the man praying. A touching scene. Take care Jack & have a good Thursday!
ReplyDeleteI did not know the man at all. He seemed to be adjusted but I could see that something was going on within his life. The ironic part is getting a call at this time of year from someone that have never seen in years. I guess the season brings that out in some of us.
ReplyDeleteA great Thursday to you.
Right now I have some good friends that I know from Australia that I have never met but I do care for as friends. The value of it is a post I received, and for someone of that age, I find it redundant. Yet I understand what this blogging is. But I look for the pleasant things that can be shared back and forth.
Actually one especially good friend that thinks on her own and understand much more than many. She has a good hubby, and life is not perfect but she makes it work. The reason - she can think on her own in moderation.
ReplyDeleteLooking at the positives and the best in people has come with age for me. Ok I'm not getting older - I'm getting wiser as I mature. :)
ReplyDeleteTis the season that can bring about many things for most of us.
How nice to get a call from a friend you knew at such a young age. There would be much to catch up on.
It was easy for me to find my friends... go through the school. They have reunions, and so they will have someone who takes care of finding all the people to get them together for one night. Age?... Ahhh, age is a number... mentally I sure don't feel my age :-). However, like Dee, I'm getting a tad wiser as I get older... I like that too :-). Good for you to hear from your friend after so many years, I'm glad for you ...
ReplyDeleteI think part of what you are referring to is the maturity that comes with age. We are able to let go of the petty ideas of youth and focus on the important things in life. We are the adults now and have had to decide what kind of person we will be in this world. I'm glad you were able to connect with your long ago friend, a good friend is worth more than many casual connections. I think some of us become kinder with age and attract others who are the same way. Have a good day, Jack.
ReplyDeleteThank you and yeah for the most part you are correct. But it will say that we have and did get it cold I just returned out of it an hour ago.
ReplyDeleteMaturity...that is a topic....
I think I am getting wiser, I am not sure Denise, as you know during this month I completely off and with that all said one has to be mature as well as understand some values.
ReplyDeleteThis is the season, is one that I probably will navigate as I not much into this cold climate but I do make it happen for myself. In some way shape and form.
I thank you there dear friend that I have know for many years....
Are we all getting wiser yet we can do the things that we wish to do?
ReplyDeleteRecently I was told that I have to get a girlfriend or start back dating......now I have always kept this blog in a respectable manner as am I on here to meet someone new in my life?
I am still not sure on that - and I don't write with the intention of "picking up babes".
Go with what you feel on the starting to date again Jack, you will know in your heart when you are ready for that.And I am so glad you had that call from an old friend,it is always so nice to make the connection again & go back over all the old memories. Happy wishes for today as always mate. hugs
ReplyDeleteI know what my starting date is. And with all that said there is one thing that resonates in life. It called the true intentions...
ReplyDeleteI see you as a very good hearted person and I sincerely with you the best during this season.
As my wishes are for you also Jack, may the holiday season be all that you could wish for. The Date I was referring to was to start dating ladies again mate, & that your heart will tell you when you are ready for that. When you do , I sincerely hope you find one who is as genuine as you my friend ..XXXX
ReplyDeleteDating ladies? Bev it's been much too long I am past my 30's now and whom really wishes to day anymore?
ReplyDeleteLaughng- My dear young Jack, you are only a Spring Chicken yet, with all your life ahead of you. I just don't want my friend to have a lonely solo life that's all mate. I care . Hugs
ReplyDeleteWhadda ya mean " Who wishes to date anymore " ? Jack! There are many, many women who are genuine and authentic who wish to date. And there is one for you, I am sure of it.
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