Meaning and Significance

The attraction of all relationships is within the art of attraction and return. Attraction can be several things – a writing, an image, we would be contradicting our selves if we said that image does not play a role on what and how people appeal to each other.

The means of allowance is a philosophy whereby relationships flow. There is something that is significant that we all do see and can relate to within some manner. Life does have its flaws. And no one is perfect.  Have you ever had that certain feeling with regards to something and it just did not feel right. I think that is something that is an area within our abundance that one makes a choice on what to do in all realms of life.

Do we contradict ourselves at times? We do, even the noblest people have been contradictions at times. Relationships, and the relevance of self worth so often require a need for not only just self. Right? I could be wrong.

Which leads me into a few areas...

Relevance is only as important as we wish it to be. Some will have more of an open mind, some will listen more, and some will look the other way. I think you all know what I mean. Within life we all have our choices. Is that convenience, no? Do we wish to have others that we can rely on in life? Yes. 

In the midst of my journey of recent I have learned more with regards to taking the time to meet up with old friends.  For some reason with these friends of mine each one of them is going through something. One has a marriage that he works hard for and is now seeking family counseling. It took one to act and others to abide with the counsel for families sake. I would think this is a good thing. How many leave it off for too long and then jump out.

Then I have another one friend, that is working so hard that he never is home and yet he loves his wife very much. They made it through bad times in which he had went bankrupt within one of the largest lounges in a city.  As well, he is now facing situations where he has some medical problems that may lead to something with regards to his entestine area. I didn’t know that till last week. 

And then here for myself, I have left on a vacation or getaway with the challenge of breaking back into the a "mens club" within business. As business is a politic when it come to dealing with a few that are second generation to three older gents that were very successful and started from scratch.  Within it all, do I care, at first I did. Then as time went on I didn’t. The relevance was not that important to me if there was a need to do anymore than be me. I am still on my vacation while working in a hotel which I am extending.   Not due to anything but I find that it is my own prerogative and I have other passive involvements that don't require me to play the game with a few second generation that were fed by way of their father's spoon. They are human and I just think to myself, if they had to do it on their own could they. Meanwhile I know what I can do. Arrogance no. I know what I can and can't do. As if I could do everything and not be reliant on something then I guess I would be very arrogant. (No contradiction)...yet I still maintain my cadence. As I am in sync with myself.

I have found within this small town something that I had never seen before. And in some manner I came to understand it.  Perhaps I totally changed the dynamics and looked at what was relevant within the now and in the future. Which is much different in comparison to my friends.  But still it's come cohesive relevance that one finds in times where they come to understand that life has to be productive and somewhat abundant.

I could say I have been through hell and back, however that would be self pity.  As many goes through things and I can truly say that in some manner everyone goes through contradictions – dysfunctions – along with something that brings about the weeds within the most perfect garden. Mentioned so well by Marc.
Within this area of peace – I find that peace is the ability to make decision, choices, give allowance that there will be contradictions – as nothing ever in life does stay the same. But what is relevant is not about how others find that you handle it, but that your comfortable within the manner that you handle it. And everyone has some ethics to the way in which they do this. Attraction is more than just image, it’s about several things. Most important is what it is that attracts you within you.

Everyone wishes to be the most ultimate of what they can be. And if I may add a person aspires within the values of understanding that we all are not created equal – it’s told to us that it’s so, but we are created substantial in whom we are and what we do. 

Even the gardener had to take time to sit and rest, while looking how they desired to go about creating and cleaning up the garden. When they came back to it, they had a different view – it was green, not work...