Friday, October 21, 2011

Walk Away - there is Power within being a Pacifist.

Pulse One (4)

 

I have no idea of when you turn the page on parent. I guess you would have to know how it is and all that goes with it. I do write personal things on here and what a contrast from my immediate family as well as a sister - which never stops. I guess I do have drama within my life I don't get along with my father. I don't get along with what he says now. He seemingly has tried for some dumb reason to see that I go down. .............I don't go down.

Men can be men and women are women - the tacts is within those which understand the difference. I don't see anything by means of gender but my father's aggressive manners have done more harm to me than good. Do I care. No I don't - I knew early in my life that he was a hard man yet a hard man is needy. I have a host of situations with family and I have come to realize finally that this is not about me. It's more about the control over others.

 

I don't know how to mention this but when one is trying to tell you how to live your life - walk away. As hard as it can be walk away. If you in or ever have been within that situation ...........................walk away.

 

 

 

 

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19 comments:

  1. Initiative StainOctober 21, 2011 at 7:22 PM

    ~ someone that tells you how to live ~ walk away.
    ~ someone that feels he has power over you ~ walk away.
    ~ unfunctional familes do exist as well and the what come about is a host of many things.
    Never have great expectations when the need is to ~ walk away.

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  2. Sharon DOctober 21, 2011 at 7:34 PM

    You are absolutely correct. Take a deep breath and walk away

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  3. Initiative StainOctober 21, 2011 at 7:46 PM

    There is the new day as I do mind you after work you kinda like to just relax.

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  4. Grammy Blick TexasOctober 21, 2011 at 7:57 PM

    "... this is not about me. It's more about the control over others."

    You are perceptive. Walking way is much better than staying to be hurt.

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  5. Initiative StainOctober 21, 2011 at 7:59 PM

    To think it has something to do with you is your own thoughts. As it's not.

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  6. tee skorOctober 21, 2011 at 8:21 PM

    You have friends, one thing I have learned, is that family isn't necessarily only biological, it is simply caring about another

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  7. Initiative StainOctober 21, 2011 at 8:27 PM

    Yeap...


    Work is great mind you not perfect yet good.

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  8. Initiative StainOctober 21, 2011 at 8:34 PM

    Sister Tee my sister again.
    She is back at it....again. ....

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  9. maritess* estrellaOctober 21, 2011 at 9:13 PM

    Walk away from where and from whom.

    Anyways am not walking away ... i just don't wanna' go down to what other's thoughts. That's all.

    What about your music, i hope it will be up before Christmas. I want to hear it, Jack. tight hugs


    * very true. when someone is telling us what to do in our lives walk away. our life is our own. our happiness lies on it. If we let someone or others or member of our families run it the way they want it to be ... that will be the end. Our life will no longer belongs to us but to them.

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  10. maritess* estrellaOctober 21, 2011 at 9:20 PM

    laughs*

    Jack ... heheh :)
    fun, fun, fun

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  11. Ramya (mel)October 21, 2011 at 10:08 PM

    Walking away is sometimes all you can do. Sometimes it helps the other person calm down or see that there harsh words are not so powerful.

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  12. eliane marquesOctober 22, 2011 at 7:58 AM

    We are what we are, family is always a huge matter - acceptance is the key word.
    Carry each other in this moment of goodbyes and bad expectations.
    Life goes.....my dear Jack.

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  13. Tori BriOctober 22, 2011 at 8:40 AM

    family kills some days..

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  14. Initiative StainOctober 22, 2011 at 4:21 PM

    We did this at work and it was hilarious and most fun!
    To read it is to have a hoot and laugh! :)

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  15. Initiative StainOctober 22, 2011 at 4:22 PM

    Did done...you are a friend. `Yeah you are.

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  16. Initiative StainOctober 22, 2011 at 4:25 PM

    I had as well as met up with some friends as I do apologize for last night.
    Here I go again..."C'est la vie"......yet wasnt there are "C'est la vie en rose". Hmmm
    Thanks.

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  17. Initiative StainOctober 22, 2011 at 4:28 PM

    Yo Se - I wish I would have never wrote it but I did. If you can translate you wish to look at the utube of
    "Man on Fire" as many of my friends often refer to me as the character...Yet I thought I was Forrest Gump! :)

    Gracius...

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  18. Initiative StainOctober 22, 2011 at 4:32 PM

    Yeah yeah but that now is over Tori you know as a nurse
    of what I do handle in almost a part of each and every given day.

    I don't know how I would even start to write on it but you are a trained
    person within the medical field and would know. Again thanks.
    I have been angry I know, I know this is not the pace to do it.
    Yesterday night I did - I am better with music...yeah. :) Hugs
    a coming from you is truly a good validation.

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  19. doug noakesOctober 22, 2011 at 10:53 PM

    That's all I can offer myself. Best wishes on your family difficulties.

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