It takes all people to make the world go around. Back five days ago or if not more I called a friend of mine that lives in Iraq. I have written about here several times as to me she is adorable, she is intelligent, it’s obvious that she is beautiful.
Most importantly she is the kindest soul that can laugh and share things and she is mature. So mature yet young at heart. Take a look at her, and she resonates so many things. Realistically she is over there in Iraq but since I met her, I always have promised that when and if I could do anything for her – I would. I stand by that because we both can relate. It’s ironic as she is considerably younger than myself. But when a man or woman sees or hears someone that he or she can relate to, there comes to be a bond. I know it's best offline, however there are a few very good friends ( a few ) that I have been able to keep in touch with before the inception of this blog. And that is all done with respect, not chasing after something, but having common grounds from which to talk and share with.
The bond is one that has been built over several years. And perhaps - who knows where things go in the future. As right now each one of us are within the moment of doing what we need to do. And you never know when something like a miracle, happens with time. For myself, life is about what we can make of it, rather than what we can not.
Regardless of that she is a valid friend that once a month we do keep in tough and how much we share and joke about. It's a very nice surprise when you have arrived at a point with someone that regardless of the distance, you do plan you life on someone, but you enjoy the periodical times in which you do have the chance to speak to one another and tell each other what is happening in each other's life.
I am in total agreement with your views..What you share is a quite special..and priceless..wishing the best for the both of you..
ReplyDeleteThank you, I had the hardest time describing and writing on this as it's very hard to write about feelings between genders.
ReplyDeleteBut there is that certain thing in which is enjoyable offline as well in real life. We all have our own lives and what I find incredible stormie is some that I have known and talk. From our land here, as well as abroad.
Love has many different sides to it. I adore this person whom I won't mention and once a month is a nice surprise. We don't have much to do with each other online. But there have been a few from the internet that I have kindled as friends. Some walk on by, and I am not looking to build a harrim online, I am just me.
Thank you for dropping bye.
G'day Jack,
ReplyDeleteI agree it is very hard for some to write about true feelings for a friend no matter what the gender, I find that age sex or origin is no barrier in a special friendship bond, ....in fact I personally find it also hard to speak of them about my feelings face to face......very nice blog indeed
A lovely blog. Bonds like that are priceless and do not happen very often. This is the type of bond that I have with my partner and I cherish it dearly.
ReplyDeleteNice blog Jack. Although in general I avoid chatting, and prefer to keep blogging, and share occasionally through mail and comments, it does happen that we develop close bonds. It happens as it would happen in real life I suppose. Affinities do not seem to have consideration for distance, and as you write, who knows what life has in store. The world is very small after all. Enjoy this day Jack.
ReplyDeleteThe heart recognizes no boundaries where true kinship resides, Jack ... distance ceases to exist ... time seems to stand stilll when we are in the company of those we enjoy sharing our life with ... to win the admiration and adoration of friends is to be acknowledged as a person of worth ... it brings out the best of who we are and urges us to strive to be better still ... *smiling* ... I have many friends whom I speak with online and through the internet ... many I will probably never have the chance to meet; yet they know they have a special place in my heart for they have shared laughter and tears with me ... I love them, admire them , and I make sure to tell them so that should something happen, they will never have to wonder whether our bond was real ... what a beautiful tribute to a beautiful lady, Jack ... I believe you expressed yourself very warmly and genuinely ... have a good day and be blessed, my friend ...
ReplyDeleteIt is what it is for each and everyone of us online and offline is a way and a part of our lives. For myself as stated above is how and what I am, and I am not too much into self definitions.
ReplyDeleteI let the worth define itself. Somehow within the areas of our life things come into it and some leave. But one thing is for certain is that the quality of what we have rather than what we don't.
Heading off to sleep land shortly. Never walk away and treat with respect a good friend. There will be a time that we all need them. As that for me is partially the meaning of life, love and co existence.
I will come back and read all of these, for now I just logged on for a moment and it's getting late. I think I am going to do some slow stretching and then some water and head to bed. But something in the way we all do something represents a part of whom we are. The young lady about if just as I mentioned. And I certainly enjoyed reading these without my glasses on lol, before I head of to bed.