Saturday, May 8, 2010

The Birds and the Bees

Do you remember the times when moms and dads were quite shy about such things within family matters specifically teaching us about the Birds and the Bees. Mine certainly were. Without a doubt. Somehow I vaguely recall my dad handing me a book on the subject when I was 12 with his eyes lowered and mumbling something about it was time I read up on changes that will happen during puberty. I think he wanted to get out of my room as fast as possible and when he did there was my older brother having a hoot of a time and then saying, ``lets go for a run```. He had no qualms with it and well I was all to embarrassed to look at my parents for one week as I thought there was a stork or something that just happened. But to think that ..............ok, lets not go there.  Within the province of Ontario the government may be in a bit of hot water regarding proposed changes to the school sex education curriculum that will see sexual orientation discussed as early as grade 3. Both Christian and Muslim groups in that province are uniting against such a thing and from the little I know of what the government is proposing be taught to kids as young as 8....I think I wouldn’t be too happy either if I still had a child that young. Mind you on the other hand if I was 8 and within that classroom I would suppose I would be a little confused to say the least. Ontario’s sex education curriculum actually sits in the middle of the pack as far as content goes in sex education across all ten provinces but it is the explicit language and attention to detail that sets Ontario apart. At least their Education Minister says that parents can ask to have their children removed from the classroom if they object to the content of the classes. I don’t know why they can’t just use common sense in the first place so they don’t have to worry about that happening.

13 comments:

  1. WoW! 8 yrs. old... I think a bit too young. I remember thinking I was going to be so embarrassed discussing " that subject" with my boys, but nope I wasn't, neither was Dan. We did not do birds nor bees LOL just facts, And when they had questions we answered honestly. I've always believed if children are old enough to ask the question, then they are old enough for the answer.

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  2. .that is young.but probably ..right.We learned thru Biology class..and Mother:)

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  3. The chances are that these kids already know about the birds and the bees.....

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  4. My goodness yes - I would think so too !

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  5. nothing wrong with that as long as it is done on their level of understanding--you would be amazed at what kids know at that age and if they get the wrong info disasterouse so why not--

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  6. most 8 yr olds know ----the important thing that school can do is separate the fact from the fable-----keep it simple for the young ones and as part of the course there can be some thought as to abuse and how to recognize abuse and how to report abuse----the "good touch bad touch" did not go far enough and a lot of young children were confused and in that confusion there were some false statements or accusations---truth within the ability to understand will not harm a child ....but-- if adults continue to act "embarrassed" when telling the truth --- will the child ever know the difference between "good secret bad secret".....

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  7. Jules I know......I did when I was in grade 6. Yet I would not have without my brother taking me for that run and telling me what it really was and my gosh as a kid then I literally could not look at my parents for a week! Yet I went out and caught with friends bees and we all placed them in a jar. That to us was the ``birds and the bees``. I guess we specialized in Bees.

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  8. Cath I entirely agree.....something to think about the brain does not mature till the age of 24 years of age entirely. Food for thought

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  9. Now that you mention it Caroline, I remember my mother trying to explain things in a slow manner from grade 3 on....she kind of knew what she was doing as she was explaining things to me in very reserved ways slowly...

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  10. Wait...........................................who has got it of recent lol

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  11. I agree yet there is a level of understanding

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  12. I do think 8 is too young... 3 years later would be a good age to start so at about 5th or 6th grade should work... I cant change the world at large but I can change what I do with my children. So I am keeping the door of communication Open and so far it is working.

    Oh and I have discovered that Common Sense is not Commonly found.

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  13. Just got in here on a vey rainy day Rashmi and I could not agree more. What is common is within what we abide with with integrity. Glad your keeping the door of communication open. When I write and have my own self tme, I do say it within a perspective that is with regard to all.
    I am not sure where that comes from. Common sense comes by way of leverage....some write on it an I tuly live it with a part of my day.

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