There is so much that I wish to get down and then of recent I find that there is that pause time. That time to look at things from all vantages. Sometimes I do come to this realization and I will think. Certainly there are things that I wish to have done as soon as possible I have called family back out west and well they are not that well. It`s funny how when you get away from family there is a calling yet at the same time you have to make choices. Yet nothing is absolute. I can`t begin to describe how much I have literally enjoyed the friends I have on here. I am looking ahead with things but adapting is great and I find that I have been so used to doing things on my own that there times that I have made mistakes with a significant. I don`t mean too and it`s really nothing big, I think that by now most all know that there is someone that is within my life. It is a change as most all people are used to doing there own things and the means of what I have always wrote in the past are things that we do write but placing them into action sometimes is something we are not perfect with. I guess that lends it`s self to no perfect is perfect. I really can see how some do have problems within a relationship - I feel the key is all within communication. I have always maintained that you can take two people and if they wish to make it they can in the means and as they wish. Companionship...there is something to this word. What is rendered by a man and a women is something that is nourished I always believed this and there are times that certainly we have have small tiffs here and there yet the way I see it is growing...I can honestly say I have been so used to doing things on my own but despite being in a relationship I do believe there is that time that each do have there own individuality. There is more to this subject which I do wish to write on in a little as I feel that all to often people don`t take the time to give something a chance. All is going well, but I am learning to share more of my life actually both of us are and that does not come over night. So I certainly can see where some do have this thought that they are happy to be single or are within a relationship where they did have there own self time. I believe it`s all in taking that time to do that self review as well as consider the others thoughts. It`s not an easy partaking yet where their is that willingness between a man and a women there is a way. Love does not necessarily all come within an instant love is built upon, as well as when your companion is your best friend and at times you know what each other are saying without the need for it to be stated as it`s a sort of karma of the soul and hear...it`s not something to take advantage of nor is it something to pretend that your listening as the blend of two does take two.
Here to love is something different for each and every couple...
Each of you striving to bring out the best in each other :) I can imagine it must be hard when you are used to living alone. I am happy that you are learning and growing together. What a beautiful beginning. cheers!
ReplyDeletea lovely blog.Jack...I do like the way you say ,,a *Blending of Kharma*
ReplyDeleteThere are no absolutes but this song that I came back on and posted really kind of spells it out. There are many that have been single for years some will jump from one to another however it is a beginning I still maintain that not just am I. But I believe there are plenty that have the feel that want, that very human harmony which is not perfect but kindles in a manner.
ReplyDeleteCaroline it is a blending souls and so much more. Some are married for 25 years and they have blended to be much alike and yet very unique. I suppose it all depends. I think that every relationship has had ups and downs - yet some have seemingly worked it out only by way of that flexibility of karma between two. I think that here too is where the key to relationships is thinking beyond oneself and when you have both having a foundation as such there is a blend of karma. Yet there are a variety of companions out there that it happens fast and then when one thing goes wrong it`s like a long term date. I am rather traditional in this area...
ReplyDeleteAs long as one has communication and trust ... everything kind of jells. Here's to new beginnings and happiness!!
ReplyDeleteLynne it does mind you, there are things one does have to do......:)
ReplyDeleteI have had this cold and well I think I just earned some points as we are heading out of town this morning as yesterday I was much too sick and I told her that if I was able to get on the computer and get things going then I would be able to heal :). For some reason it worked. I jells I like that. Life may be like a box of chocolates but at the same time life may be like jello....
I didn't know you have someone in your life, but I haven't been to Multiply in so long - well, I can't even remember when the lasat time was. Sounds like a good thing, and I'm glad.
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