I am literally pissed off. This old friend of mine that I decided to move to Edmonton with at a time in which I was just starting my own life, I had a call with after leaving the hospital today.
I by way of a friend in an orderly manner tried to get my belongings back, I had left off with the understanding that we both came to agreements. I don’t trust some people that much and with Gary. He got to be accepted in to an area that is similar to air traffic controlling. I have placed him off my phone and so on and today I called him as I am not sure where and what took place between another friend of mine in order to get my clothes and my desk and so on all back to me.
I had sent him long ago keys to the house as well as everything that he needed and I know at this time I am not sure what he has done to it. I am waiting for a call from a friend of mine that decided to go in and get my belongings and then I would arrange for my things to be sent to me. All being said I have been left out of the ball park and I decided in a manner to see where there where at – Pat was off for the day and so I called directly to Gary. I greeted him with a “hello how are you doing”, and you could see that he once again was drinking on a day of. So I left it be and told him that I would call him back later at a better time. Well he went livid and then hung up the phone.
I have over $ 4,000.00 dollars of my belongings there and if you were in my place what would you do? I thought by now at this time that all things would have been arranged and would have been compliant but I have no clue as to where he is at – accept that he was going to be going through a divorce, during the time I walked into this situation and I do wish I would have not moved in with him and thereafter taken of a house, I am clear of the house but I am not sure if I should place a lean on the house as all my clothes are there, from things that go way back for me as well as commodities that are precious.
I really do have a question for each and everyone as I left there with a discussion with him and all was well. But what came out of it was entirely different. I wish to get my things back but at the same time I don’t want it to come to being something very immature – as in a fight. Gary seemed to become a very angry man during his walk out of his wife and child. I walked into a situation and there after I knew that with all that he was doing was not the same person I once knew.
Do I just leave it be? Or what would you do to get your belongings back as I have medical matters at hand and I am really on my own with this one.
I am literally pissed off. This old friend of mine that I decided to move to Edmonton with at a time in which I was just starting my own life, I had a call with after leaving the hospital today.
I bye way of a friend in an orderly manner tried to get my belongings back, I had left off with the understanding that we both came to agreements. I don’t trust some people that much and with Gary. He got to be accepted in to an area that is similar to air traffic controlling. I have placed him off my phone and so on and today I called him as I am not sure where and what took place between another friend of mine in order to get my clothes and my desk and so on all back to me.
I had sent him long ago keys to the house as well as everything that he needed and I know at this time I am not sure what he has done to it. I am waiting for a call from a friend of mine that decided to go in and get my belongings and then I would arrange for my things to be sent to me. All being said I have been left out of the ball park and I decided in a manner to see where there where at – Pat was off for the day and so I called directly to Gary. I greeted him with a “hello how are you doing”, and you could see that he once again was drinking on a day of. So I left it be and told him that I would call him back later at a better time. Well he went livid and then hung up the phone.
I have over $ 4,000.00 dollars of my belongings there and if you were in my place what would you do? I thought by now at this time that all things would have been arranged and would have been compliant but I have no clue as to where he is at – accept that he was going to be going through a divorce, during the time I walked into this situation and I do wish I would have not moved in with him and thereafter taken of a house, I am clear of the house but I am not sure if I should place a lean on the house as all my clothes are there, from things that go way back for me as well as commodities that are precious.
I really do have a question for each and everyone as I left there with a discussion with him and all was well. But what came out of it was entirely different. I wish to get my things back but at the same time I don’t want it to come to being something very immature – as in a fight. Gary seemed to become a very angry man during his walk out of his wife and child. I walked into a situation and there after I knew that with all that he was doing was not the same person I once knew.
Do I just leave it be? Or what would you do to get your belongings back as I have medical matters at hand and I am really on my own with this one. I called on of two friends that while I was heading South today and just arriving in I really know that this is something that I have no one to figure this one out with - maybe I should leave it all be and all my clothes and belonging I will just forget about.
In calling the guy, it nothing had changed and you could hear the anger in his voice, so I just told him that "Gary for today I will leave this be take care", he hung up before I finished off. One side of me says place a lien on the house the other says that he is a friend that I have know since I was 17. But it's time for Jack to think about what is most important to himself - me that is.
I have all my clothes there, two desks bought new, one couch as well as improvements that I made that needless to say I did not have to do at the time. So if you factor all things in what would you do?
Note he is six hours away from me...In some ways I literally with all that has happened could and would kick his ass. But at this age you don't do things in that way.
I look forward - I do to your own independant recommendations of what you would do in such a case as I called one good friend and he is here in the same city and works within corrections and well he is married and ironically he has prevailed with his wife and children.
A long story short I moved as I was amidst a old friend that became a drunk I know this goes with divorce sometimes - but I was the one he wanted near him as he thought that I was there to fix his problems, and I choose to stay out of the situation. I have never wrote this but after most all things have been done now with the house, he seemingly seems to be the same. However that all being said, he has much of my belongings in a city that has gone into a large recession, as for him, I don't care where or what happens - but I do have valuables that are there.
I sincerely do wish to get your own viewpoints on this....